https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4 Made with a good intentions en-us 2021-10-18 23:36:48 UTC 2021-11-11 05:44:00 UTC hello@padlet.com collaborative https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1876567270 Dedicate today's learning to:
Kim]]> 2021-11-08 23:15:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1876567270 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879130242 Tonya Plass ]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:03 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879130242 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879131454 2021-11-09 18:23:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879131454 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879131481 2021-11-09 18:23:35 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879131481 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132038 Janet ]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:47 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132038 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132156 2021-11-09 18:23:49 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132156 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132181 Dedicating today’s learning to Kath Adamson. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:50 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132181 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132188 2021-11-09 18:23:50 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132188 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132202 Kathy Mosley]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:51 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132202 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132223 2021-11-09 18:23:51 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132223 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132304 Dedicated to the moms who need encouragement. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132304 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132314 Shirley Kempski is the best! 🤗🤗]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132314 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132338 2021-11-09 18:23:54 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132338 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132341 Christie Loney-who has exemplified a love of learning and daring to reach out to help others through all stages of life!]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:54 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132341 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132447 Gretchen

I can already tell that what I’m going to learn today is going to be amazing! 
Thank you. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:56 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132447 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132596 Denver]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132596 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132598 Dedicated to Aren]]> 2021-11-09 18:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132598 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132604 2021-11-09 18:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132604 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132665 I dedicate today’s learning to Cherokee and Phoenix ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132665 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132690 2021-11-09 18:24:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132690 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132706 Dedicating today to my mom, my first teacher.]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132706 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132929 2021-11-09 18:24:07 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132929 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132935 Debbie Fagnant]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:07 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879132935 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133025 Student: Noah Melhase]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:09 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133025 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133121 Marilyn White, my friend and mentor teacher

]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:11 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133121 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133224 Kelly Hopp 
Lucas Keaveny]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133224 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133270 Cassie]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:15 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133270 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133313 2021-11-09 18:24:16 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133313 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133322 My dad]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:16 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133322 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133344 To my mom and dad]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:16 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133344 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133385 My former student who is now one of my IDEA moms, Annie]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133385 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133426 2021-11-09 18:24:18 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133426 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133436 Amy Poage]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:19 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133436 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133445 iGrad Students]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:19 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133445 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133462 Dedicating today’s learning to Ryan, Caeden, Cole, Carter.
-Dan Kullander]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:19 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133462 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133487 Kathy Mosley & Ethan]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:20 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133487 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133530 Molly
Kathy Mosely]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:21 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133530 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133542 My grandma ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:21 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133542 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133694 I dedicate this to Grant. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:25 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133694 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133804 Nice Jennifer ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:28 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133804 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133915 I dedicate today to Vicky and Melanie, who inspired me to homeschool my children and assured me it would bless my family endlessly. They were right.]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:31 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133915 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133935 Jaci-I dedicate today’s learning to my children on the cusp of adulthood. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:32 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879133935 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134023 Dawn Pomrening. I wouldn't have this job without her pushing me to push myself.]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134023 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134080 2021-11-09 18:24:35 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134080 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134179 2021-11-09 18:24:37 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134179 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134212 2021-11-09 18:24:38 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134212 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134262 My dad ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134262 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134392 I dedicate my learning to the parents who choose to engage with their children’s learning.]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:43 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134392 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134520 2021-11-09 18:24:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134520 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134616 Kailee ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:48 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134616 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134633 To all those brave enough to homeschool! ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:48 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134633 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134673 I learned that being present and listening can help create community and connectedness. I knew this. I will endeavor to overcome distractions. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:49 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134673 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134694 My Family. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:50 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134694 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134791 Gretchen ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:52 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134791 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134817 IDEA Family- The Serino’s ]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134817 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134834 To my many mentors]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:54 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134834 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134921 Mary Jane Ponten who lives with CP but doesn’t let it define her.]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:56 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134921 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134948 I’m dedicating today’s learning to my Dad. -Nicola]]> 2021-11-09 18:24:56 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879134948 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135052 2021-11-09 18:24:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135052 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135070 2021-11-09 18:24:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135070 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135103 Dedicating today to my dad, Jim Donaghey]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135103 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135118 Omie]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135118 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135163 I dedicate today’s learning to Stella]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135163 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135277 2021-11-09 18:25:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135277 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135391 Sherrill Burnett - my first mentor teacher]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:07 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135391 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135625 2021-11-09 18:25:12 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135625 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135675 I dedicate this to my kids]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135675 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135749 Melissa 
Dedicated to Casey]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:15 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135749 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135771 2021-11-09 18:25:15 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135771 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135864 My best friend]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879135864 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879136246 Sisters]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:26 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879136246 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879136641 Joan

]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:37 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879136641 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879136954 Idea]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:44 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879136954 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879137104 I think today of my mentor teacher, Marilyn Parker, who continues to be an amazing source of wisdom and peace for me.]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:47 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879137104 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879137242 Before I thought that curing was more important than caring. Now I think of those concepts as intertwined. I understand the many ways that caring can look and sound. Tomorrow I will listen and respond with this in mind. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:25:50 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879137242 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138194  Jane Elayne, my newest granddaughter!]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:12 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138194 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138339 I would like to dedicate today’s learning to one of my mother’s who has COVID and a newborn in the NICU.]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:16 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138339 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138658 Dedicating to my volunteers & teens that need a compassionate ear]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:24 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138658 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138719 Rytchard for Laura]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:26 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879138719 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879139212 COVID affected idea families]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879139212 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879139998 Dedicated to my grands!]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:57 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879139998 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879140004 To all families working hard to keep their childrens’ education going through the pandemic and its disruptions. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:26:57 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879140004 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879140544 2021-11-09 18:27:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879140544 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879140549 2021-11-09 18:27:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879140549 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879142749 2021-11-09 18:28:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879142749 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879143502 2021-11-09 18:28:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879143502 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879144666 My Mom,  who taught me that I could do anything and taught me that play was as important as paperwork . Today I learned that I don't have to ask questions to be a good listener. Now I think I can focus more on the person I am listening to. Tomorrow I will learn some more. ]]> 2021-11-09 18:28:45 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879144666 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879144860 To my co-workers, who are walking this journey with me.]]> 2021-11-09 18:28:49 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879144860 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879145379 ❤️ The Business Office!]]> 2021-11-09 18:29:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879145379 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879156154 My family ]]> 2021-11-09 18:33:29 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879156154 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879843393 I learned how to recognize behaviors that are unproductive within conversation. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:54:36 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879843393 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879846216 Before I thought I was a good listener.  Now I think I have more to learn about listening. 
Tomorrow I will learn so much more and am excited for this opportunity.]]> 2021-11-10 00:55:36 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879846216 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879846459 Tomorrow I will work on rephrasing what I hear from the mothers who are struggling.  I won't attempt to "fix", but will listen and respond in a way to show I'm there to just listen. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:55:42 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879846459 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879846604 I’ve learned about good forms of communication and active listening. I recognized some of the things I do in conversation that I should change. So tomorrow, I will change that!]]> 2021-11-10 00:55:45 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879846604 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847256 Before I was often listening to get information and prepare what I was going to say next. Now, I’m listening to understand and learn to care for the speaker. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847256 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847266 Now I think I will put the will into practicing more skillful listening. Having intention is powerful!]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847266 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847447 Before I thought I was a good listener
Now I think I have some things to improve on in that department
Tomorrow I will focus on the conversation and try to be a productive listener. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:06 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847447 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847537 Before I thought…I was an empathetic listener.
Now I think…I can be a better listener.
Tomorrow I will…put into practice what I learned today - about listening & pausing.]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:08 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847537 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847653 Now I know the unproductive patterns of listening. Tomorrow I will try to be present in listening]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:11 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847653 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847922 Tomorrow I will be a more thoughtful listener. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:18 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879847922 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848086 Before I thought I listened well and understood what people were saying and feeling. 
Now I think that I wasn’t being as active and understanding as I should be 
Tomorrow I will work on not being a judgement listener, allowing someone to finish their thoughts and use the paraphrasing techniques we explored today. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:23 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848086 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848147 Before I thought…I was doing well with my communication.
Now I think…that I don’t pause enough to let others tell their story and I bring my experiences in too much. 
Tomorrow I will…try to keep these things in my brain to do better.]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:25 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848147 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848610 Now I think, just tell me your story. I won’t offer advice unless you ask for it.]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848610 cchruby https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848907 Before I thought of paraphrasing as solely being about summarizing key points, but now I see how it can also be used to change the level of a conversation (more details or overarching picture. Tomorrow (and in the days that follow), I'll look for opportunities to use this strategy in conversations. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:43 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848907 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848949 Jaci-I’m more aware now. More aware of how I listen and how I can listen more responsively. I’m also aware that I need to wash more feet and start traveling again. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:45 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879848949 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849002 I was reminded of many wonderful strategies for active and present listening. The self-reflection activities helped me apply the concepts within the iGrad framework.]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849002 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849205 Before I thought I was a good communicator. Now I think I have a lot to learn.]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:52 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849205 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849439 Today and tomorrow I will listen with greater mindfulness. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:56:58 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849439 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849534 If you would have asked me this morning if I was a good listener I would have said yes. Now I think I must slow down and actually hear what is being said in order to become a GREAT listener. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849534 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849596 Before, I thought sharing my experiences was always helpful. Now, I realize that when I listen, I need to simply acknowledge and summarize/clarify for understanding and I don’t always need to fix it or have the right answers. Tomorrow, I will continue putting these listening practices to use and focus more on the other person rather than myself. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:02 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849596 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849830 I thought it was all about the other person, but now I think have to be centered and reflective if I’m going to be able to serve them where they’re at tomorrow.]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879849830 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850260 Before I thought I was a good listener. 
Now I think I have some work to do to practice paraphrasing and avoid my tendency towards autobiographical listening. 
Tomorrow I will continue to learn and apply fun new things! 😎]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:14 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850260 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850592 Before I thought: Communication was important and I already had a lot of tools. 
Now I think: I learned how to use my tools better. And I think I have more tools to use with families or just within myself as I work with families.
Tomorrow I will: not forget what I learned today.]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:22 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850592 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850736 Before I thought that giving advice or fixing the problem was of primary importance. Now I understand how to listen for those times when offering a solution may not be what the other person is seeking. Tomorrow I will listen for ways to become a better listener. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:27 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850736 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850918 Before I thought it was most important to ask clarifying questions. Now I think it's important to paraphrase and pause. Tomorrow I will practice the pause.]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:32 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879850918 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851048 Before I thought that fixing people’s problems was caring for others. Now I think that can still be true if I intentionally listen so that I see and hear the other person well. Tomorrow I will come ready to learn more so that I can serve those around me with better listening and caring skills. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:35 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851048 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851225 Before I was focused on my perspective. Now I remember to look for the perspective of others in order to facilitate more meaningful engagement. Tomorrow I will try to utilize this way of thinking. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851225 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851243 Before I thought that I had pretty good listening and communication skills, but now I can see that there's always room for improvement.
In the future I will make a greater effort to actually Hear the person I'm talking with, and not just wait for my turn to talk.]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:40 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851243 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851294 Before I thought giving a parent the right answers was the most important part of my job. Now I think being a compassionate listener is equally important. Tomorrow I will hold both of these goals in tandem.]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:41 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851294 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851818 Before I thought that I was an ok listener. 

Now I think I have some things to work on.

Tomorrow I need to be a better listener and stay present in the moment. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:57:55 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879851818 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852006 Now I will be more aware of paraphrasing to demonstrate that I am really listening and seeing the other person. Remember to pause.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852006 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852176 Before, I thought I had to totally paraphrase what a person said. Now, I think that I can actually use a sentence stem, and then pause, to help the person solidify his or her thinking and further the conversation. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852176 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852210 I was reminded of some excellent tools for active listening, the importance of empathy and care work, and learned how to implement more uses of paraphrasing that I would like to implement going forward. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:05 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852210 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852393 Wanda Reams
Before I thought… Serving = “What needs to be done?”
Now I think… “Serving begins first with listening”.
Tomorrow I will try to paraphrase parent’s words. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852393 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852502 Now I think……cure can mean to solve a problem.

Tomorrow I will……. keep an open mind to listen and learn.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852502 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852878 Before I thought I had all the answers to every situation.

Now I think I have a better way to communicate and care for individuals and meet their needs where they’re currently at.

Tomorrow I will work harder at my reminder(s) and be intentional with my words and facial expressions.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:22 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879852878 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853046 To my family…what I learned today is to remember to actively listen while making sure you know I see you. Know I care and I want you to know you matter and I am here to listen/help if needed. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:27 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853046 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853194 I will focus more on the small steps I need to take to achieve my bigger goals. Today I realized what I was missing in trying to solve some of these big-picture issues.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:31 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853194 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853402 Now and tomorrow will make cpr a more routine conversation with the people around me. I will put reminders up to frame listening skills and to practice.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:36 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853402 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853946 2021-11-10 00:58:50 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853946 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853969 Before I thought someone was being rude when they interrupted someone else who was talking.
Now I think that this is their way connecting.
Tomorrow I will be ready to learn more.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:51 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879853969 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854200 Before I thought  listening to a family is just hearing their issue

Now I think listening to families is not only hearing but also showing you care about them by acknowledging their issue and taking the time to understand. 

Tomorrow I will learn something new]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:57 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854200 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854216
I will work on being more present and mindful during my communication with others.]]> 2021-11-10 00:58:57 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854216 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854691 This is my first week as a contact teacher coming from a classroom. I was reminded during the paraphrasing activity of my motto when we had to go to online learning that "happy parents make happy students."  I'm shifting from interacting daily with students to now navigating/empowering  parents/guardians to be the teachers. Any way I can help them in their journey and keep them happy will trickle in their interactions with their children and ultimately our like outcome will be student success.]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:02 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854691 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854847 Before I thought paraphrasing was just for clarifying what I heard. Now I see how it can be used for empathy.]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:05 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854847 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854851 Before I thought I was asking questions to show I was listening. Now I realize that much of my listening could be improved.  Tomorrow I will focus more on listening to show care and empathy. I’ll delight in letting go and letting God and I’ll pray more.  ♥️♥️😀]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:06 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879854851 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855098 My student was a child that took his life- I dedicated the day in his memory…. Before I thought that I listened and it was a job- Now I think coming alongside, I need to remember to take care of self- I can stay in Recovery Bay and I don’t need to go to others “Sea of Sadness” or whatever and tomorrow I can only be ready to be open ]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:12 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855098 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855119 Tomorrow I hope to become a friend and contact teacher, by being a better listener.]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:12 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855119 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855239 Linda
Now I think Caring communications in our context don’t just happen randomly. They can be increased and improved by learning and practicing specific communication skills. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:16 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855239 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855542 Andrea-Today I was reminded of some listening obstacles and tools for improvement. Tomorrow, I will strive to be mindful of my listening skills both professionally and personally to better serve IDEA and friends and family.]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:23 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855542 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855728 2021-11-10 00:59:28 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855728 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855829 I recognized today my need to PAUSE …
to be able to hear and better acknowledge what is being shared with me. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:31 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855829 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855952 Tomorrow I want to refocus on mindfulness and implementing CPR in my daily life. ]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879855952 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879856178 Today was a good reminder of how important listening truly is and how grateful I am for my coworkers..who are always willing to jump in for any need that might come up]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:40 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879856178 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879856800 Yesterday, I thought I was a good listener.

Today, I learned tools to help me be a better listener - both in my professional and personal life.

Tomorrow, I will pause and remember to really listen, not just offer solutions.]]> 2021-11-10 00:59:56 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879856800 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879856960 2021-11-10 01:00:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879856960 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879857171 Before I attended today's Inservice, I thought today would be daunting. Now I feel as if I know some of my colleagues thoughts better. Tomorrow I will come in with a more open perspective. ]]> 2021-11-10 01:00:06 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879857171 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879857486 Before this training I thought this training would be a great reminder of effective communication tools. I was correct!  

Now I realize more than ever how self reflection enhances my ability to communicate effectively as well as enabling me to show more care. 

Tomorrow I will practice! ]]> 2021-11-10 01:00:14 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879857486 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879857577 Work on being more engaging with listening. And understand that people communicate differently through words and body language.]]> 2021-11-10 01:00:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879857577 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879858212 Before I thought I just needed to help cure everyone. Now I think I need to be a good listener, care, not as stressed, and pause. Tomorrow I will work more on pausing, which is difficult. ]]> 2021-11-10 01:00:31 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879858212 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879859328 Audril
Now I think that in my effort to fix something right away (get it done), I hurry and don’t take the time to listen to what the parents have to say. Tomorrow I will try to be a more sensitive listener so I can serve them better. ]]> 2021-11-10 01:01:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879859328 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879860899 Today I learned the beauty of the pause and how it can elicit a more meaningful response from the speaker. Tomorrow I will practice my pause. 💜 ]]> 2021-11-10 01:01:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879860899 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879861113 After today I am reminded that we don’t have to be the “fix it up chappies” all the time. 
Now I think I will slow down and remember to be more present in all my interactions.
Tomorrow I will be more awake and I will see you more clearly with my soul, and hear you more clearly with my super powers of paraphrasing. Thank you Tonio! ]]> 2021-11-10 01:01:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879861113 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879861144 Tomorrow I will think of the emotion/experience map and future voyages]]> 2021-11-10 01:01:54 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879861144 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879862739 2021-11-10 01:02:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879862739 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879863493 Before I thought I was being most helpful by fixing the situation as quickly as possible. I learned a lot today. Tomorrow I will try to do a better job listening, seeing, and caring for those who talk with me.]]> 2021-11-10 01:03:01 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1879863493 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882113109 Thought from yesterday that is lingering….be mindful to practice the pause.]]> 2021-11-10 18:24:02 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882113109 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882114324 Pause...breathe...smile!]]> 2021-11-10 18:24:36 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882114324 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882114614 I’d like to recreate the map with my own words. I love it! ]]> 2021-11-10 18:24:42 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882114614 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115298 I woke up this morning reminded of the map concept. On a small scale, where we are can change from day to day. I asked myself where I was on the map so that I could be more aware of the lens that I am predisposed to see through today as I interact with others.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115298 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115690 Scott observed that our reliance on text and email won't mesh well with our goal of care. We need to prioritize connection through phone if not face to face.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:11 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115690 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115759 One of the most important things about inservice is the coming together of people. Reminding me that I am not alone in this journey.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115759 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115957 I am thinking about what compassion toward coworkers, including those in the Business Office looks like & how that can change our interactions.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:18 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115957 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115960 Relax! ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:18 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882115960 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116048 The foot washing story was such a great word picture of caring……and the other thing that stuck with me was “the pause”, which seems easier to do when you are “foot washing”. Much to practice ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:20 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116048 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116163 Give grace to the people that are somewhere else on the map.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:23 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116163 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116290 I have always been thankful for my ability to multi-task. I am being reminded that I cannot multi task and be a present listener. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:26 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116290 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116319 I found myself focusing on CPR last night. It was so good to think about the positives in such concrete ways. I hope to apply Celebrate, Pivot, and Recognize often and share it with my family. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:27 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116319 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116409 My biggest takeaways from yesterday were to be present in the moment, rather than thinking what I need to say or do next. And to pause and be quiet to give them permission to share their story. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:29 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116409 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116590 I want to be present. Focus on listening. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116590 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116701 Most of the things we're talking about are not new to us, we're just gaining a new perspective ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:37 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116701 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116835 Many of our families need more CARE than a contact teacher can provide. We need to help them find community and support from each other. That was, and to some extent still is, made more difficult by the pandemic. So, it is going to take some creativity to create those supportive experiences for families again.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:41 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116835 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116950 One of the many things thats sticking with me is that map. It's very interesting to see where I'm at and be able to check in with myself.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:44 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882116950 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117005 One thing that I remember from yesterday is about showing care while giving the cure is very important.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117005 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117060 Being mindful of my listening so I can truly see and hear the speaker. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:47 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117060 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117115 Stop...look...listen....
Give our families the attention they deserve by stopping, listening, and seeing/meeting them where they are at.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:49 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117115 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117212 Focus on the listener rather than the work load.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:52 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117212 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117292 I applied what I learned yesterday about the unproductive patterns of listening and made sure I listened to my daughter and didn’t give unwanted advice. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117292 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117297 I  just really love the visual/imagery of the map. It reminds me that me and a parent could literally be an island apart in our life right now. I need to honor where they are and try to meet on common ground.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117297 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117416 Nola’s comment about a “fish-fixer” solution stayed with me - giving someone a fish today can be the first step to helping them learn to fish tomorrow. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:56 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117416 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117456 From yesterday I remember “coming alongside” what a great concept. Thanks Dan!]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:58 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117456 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117486 To be mindful/aware of how we are listening. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:58 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117486 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117498 I need to hold onto my own thoughts I have in a conversation until the speaker has voiced all their own thoughts.]]> 2021-11-10 18:25:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117498 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117601 Reviewing several comments from yesterday is super! It’s hard to choose any one tool! I want o set aside time at the beginning of each week to review these tools for better communication and self reflection! ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:02 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117601 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117610 The thought from yesterday that is still lingering is to be fully present when I listen. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:02 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117610 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117658 My big takeaway was the importance of how I listen. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:03 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117658 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117676 Be fully present in all interactions and pause ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117676 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117697 2021-11-10 18:26:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117697 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117801 2021-11-10 18:26:07 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117801 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117867 A thought from yesterday that is lingering is how I identified being a judgement listener and now I’m attempting to be more mindful of my reactions when people are talking with me. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:09 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117867 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117955 I need to take the time to pause ..to truly listen..to truly care.]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:11 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117955 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117966 Care Vs cure reminder was powerful]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:12 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117966 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117969 The idea still lingering with me is acknowledging where I’m at and acknowledging where others are at. No judgement but awareness. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:12 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882117969 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118016 I am thinking how to use the tenets of paraphrasing, shifting and resonating in a voice that is mine, so that it doesn’t sound insincere or canned. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118016 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118078 2021-11-10 18:26:15 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118078 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118517 When studying the map yesterday, I struggled to find where I was. Nothing seemed to resonate with me until I saw Purpose.  It was something that I’ve felt since the day I started, and has only grown stronger as I’ve been here. I know that as long as I have Purpose I can succeed and thrive.]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:27 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118517 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118663 Paraphrasing and respectful listening has been something I have pondering and wanting to apply to show value to others.]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:32 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118663 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118902 Thought that is lingering is the map and recognizing that everyone is in different spot and that will influence reactions and responses ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118902 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118949 Audril
The map really spoke to me. Very helpful not just in my professional life but personal as well.]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:40 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882118949 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119067 I found myself examining the communication between my husband and I last night, trying to see the different types of listening. I want to take the time to reflect on what kind of listener I tend to be. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:43 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119067 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119137 The importance of self care and being true and honest in self evaluation. Very important not to compare/contrast or think negatively but look for ways, people, and situations to improve and engage. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:45 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119137 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119165 An authentic conversation with a real sense of care & compassion for families]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119165 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119274 Even though I do not know where I’ll be tomorrow, it’s important to give my all today.]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:49 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119274 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119502 I need to know where I am emotionally before I can help others; Self care also helps me help others.]]> 2021-11-10 18:26:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119502 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119809 Today I want to be more mindful of the pause an intentional listening.]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:02 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119809 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119856 Being a more mindful listener.]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:03 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882119856 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120103 2021-11-10 18:27:09 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120103 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120156 Being present (Carpe Diem)]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120156 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120671 I want to practice paraphrasing (page 12).]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:24 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120671 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120928 Paraphrasing is so important to do so the other person feels heard and understood. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:32 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882120928 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121188 I am reminded to pause and listen to others with intention and not rush to answer. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121188 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121332 I’m reminded of the intentionality and focus required for listening not just hearing. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:43 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121332 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121376 Pause. 
Eye contact. 
On the same team. Whether it’s a family or coworkers. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:44 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121376 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121445 2021-11-10 18:27:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121445 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121919 I’m curious if these listening techniques and paraphrasing acknowledgements can transcend to my family and personal relationships — to continue to step back and truly listen with a new mindset. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:27:59 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882121919 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122479 I was able to share these concepts with one of my families; she echoed nearly all the concepts we learned yesterday. She felt very validated, and it helped solidify what I learned, too!]]> 2021-11-10 18:28:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122479 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122535 Jaci-Yesterday’s discussion around the role of silence in communication and how that looks and feels in different cultures, etc. still resonates with me. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:28:14 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122535 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122620 Dan’s alongside is standing out.
Alongside families and coworkers. I also thought about active listening and being present in the conversation.]]> 2021-11-10 18:28:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122620 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122694 Wanda Reams
When sharing yesterday, Jennifer commented that she believes CARING happens well in our office because of the character of HUMILITY ( verses pride ) that she sees as present in our office. This results in support of each other verses judgement. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:28:19 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882122694 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882124627 I keep thinking about how we talked about remembering to pause and I really need to do that in my listening as well as at home, especially with my teenagers. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:29:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882124627 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882125304 Teamwork is so important to the success of all relationships, listening is key to that success.]]> 2021-11-10 18:29:29 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882125304 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882125657 What comes to mind is the video “It’s not about the nail”. I shared it with my husband last night and he said guess we needed to watch that 30 years ago.]]> 2021-11-10 18:29:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882125657 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882126445 For me, team work involves being willing to do what needs to be done. If everyone is invested in each other’s well being, no one will be alone or unaccompanied. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:30:00 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882126445 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882127705 Communication is more difficult with masks, video & the personal contact. We can miss the personal face to face connections with facial expressions & body language. We have to be more intentional in listening for what we can sense in where we are on the map and what’s happening with the person we’re working with. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:30:33 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882127705 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882127797 This map was so inspiring! What an incredible tool for self- reflection and becoming more aware of co-workers' places on the map. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:30:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882127797 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882127961 Something that is lingering for me, is recognizing that everyone has a different .]]> 2021-11-10 18:30:39 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882127961 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882128446 Re: care vs cure

The notion of cure comes out of a Western medicalization of the body. Contrasted with traditional  Eastern conceptions of the body, i.e, balancing proportions, meridians, blocked up energy, etc. Alternatively, the concept of care is more universal than objective focused cures.

A new development in medicine in fact, is to set aside the notion of ‘cure’ and move toward cancer or symptom free labels. ‘Cure’ is somewhat akin to ‘Truth’ at least in the Western classical sense- an immutable, unchanging Absolute. ]]> 2021-11-10 18:30:52 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882128446 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882128494 Listening is such a large part of showing we care. Eye contact, touch, smiles, leaning toward the person talking, responding in love...there are so many ways we can help others to feel important, cared for...not invisible.]]> 2021-11-10 18:30:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882128494 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882128912 2021-11-10 18:31:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882128912 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882175173 Nguyen, how are your sisters?]]> 2021-11-10 18:49:22 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882175173 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882761738 Before, I didn’t realize I was exhibiting traits of unproductive listening. Now, I have been given practical tools to refocus and be a present listener. Tomorrow, I will be equipped and mindful to not only listen effectively but to also show compassion and care.]]> 2021-11-11 00:46:04 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882761738 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882781269 Before I thought I needed to fill the silence in conversation.  
Today I learned how important a pause is to gather  thoughts.
Tomorrow I will allow more time for pauses ]]> 2021-11-11 00:54:06 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882781269 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882782478 Before I thought listening was simple.
Now I think listening is a skill that I will have to work on.
Tomorrow I will use what I have learned to be a better person. 😁]]> 2021-11-11 00:54:37 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882782478 cchruby https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882782923 Before, I didn't consider how often I used questions to present advice. Now, I will be more conscious of either offering advice (if that's appropriate) or asking questions intentionally. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:54:47 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882782923 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783174 I will pause...]]> 2021-11-11 00:54:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783174 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783236 Communication is a "work in process" be it speaking / listening/ responding.
Learning to do it better is always a 'good thing'
Tonio - Thank you 
Hollea]]> 2021-11-11 00:54:55 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783236 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783585 Before I thought…empathy was compassion
Now I think…compassion is something more.
Tomorrow I will…show compassion, with healthy boundaries.]]> 2021-11-11 00:55:03 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783585 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783717 2021-11-11 00:55:06 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882783717 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882784334 I will be more still and practice the art of pause.]]> 2021-11-11 00:55:23 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882784334 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882784529 Chris]]> 2021-11-11 00:55:28 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882784529 JFree15 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882784896 I will practice being better at listening with my whole body.]]> 2021-11-11 00:55:38 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882784896 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786180 Before I thought it was compassion to fix, their problem they had; now I think I need to listen …. And pause….; tomorrow I will begin to practice G.R.A.C.E. Will take months to incorporate these tools into my thinking but one step at a time …. The more I practice it, the better I will become at it.]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:09 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786180 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786720 Our closing activity brought up topics of appropriate use of the tools, find the right times to use them, and the right way to apply boundaries. It will take practice, but as we try, if we move ahead (and potentially make mistakes) in the name of care, and earnest empathy and compassion, we'll find our way to success.]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:23 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786720 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786850 Before, I thought it was selfish to say “no” when someone came to me for care. Now, I realize that holding boundaries for myself and others is a way of caring. As I continue forward, I will work at developing the mindset that holding boundaries is healthy and useful. Because when I am healthy in mind, body, and soul, I have the ability to hold space for others. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:25 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786850 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786895 I appreciate the chance to analyze my care vs cure behaviors, my way of listening and responding, and my way of asking questions all in a supportive environment. Especially with people that understand (to some degree) what I do everyday.]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:26 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786895 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786913 I will be mindful about pausing and reflection. I will also embrace the idea that compassion has a soft front and a hard back. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:26 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882786913 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787137 Before I thought fix before hearing 

Now I think listen then fix

Tomorrow I will show compassion while listenin and then fixing]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:32 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787137 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787149 Before I thought that there was no strong distinction between empathy and compassion. Now I know the difference. Moving forward, I want to make compassionate care and good listening a stronger part of my daily life. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:32 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787149 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787300 BEFORE I THOUGHT: That listening was important, but something I needed to do all the time with dedication and intent.  
NOW I THINK: That listening is one of the very best things you can give someone. 
TOMORROW I WILL: Remind myself to practice intentional listening always. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:35 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787300 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787466 2021-11-11 00:56:40 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787466 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787525 Before I thought, how can we pull together as a team when we’ve been on our own islands in diverse ways and levels. Now I think, we are not without hope! Tomorrow, we will use these tools to ask questions, collaborate, care, listen, pause, and reflect.]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:41 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787525 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787767 Before I thought I had amazing coworkers.
Now I think I have even MORE amazing coworkers.
Tomorrow I will bring cookies. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:48 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787767 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787940 2021-11-11 00:56:53 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882787940 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788126 Before I thought that listening was just about being attentive to what another person said, and interpreting it correctly. Now I think that I can be skillful in helping that person to express themselves more fully and find their own solutions. Tomorrow, I will go try to do that!]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:58 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788126 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788131 Before I thought that empathy and compassion were more closely aligned. 
Now I think that compassion is the hands and feet of empathy.
Tomorrow I will look for opportunities to exhibit compassion.]]> 2021-11-11 00:56:58 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788131 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788507 Before I thought that most things were one way or the other. Now I think that both are important. Curing and caring, clarifying and probing, listening and responding. Balance, rest and reflection are at the very core. Tomorrow I will remind myself when I “bump”into bad habits to stop and step back. Giving space for those around me to speak and be heard so the feel cared for and loved. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788507 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788511 The pause can be a gift. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788511 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788697 Before I thought I was a good listener. 
Now I think I’ve got lots to learn. 
Tomorrow I will pause, paraphrase, clarify, and if needed - ask probing questions. 
Tomorrow I will be a better listener.]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:15 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788697 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788723 Strong back, soft front: setting boundaries allows us to show compassion for our selves and allows us to hold space for our families. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:16 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882788723 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882789285 Before I thought that I already possessed the communicative tools that were being presented
Now I think that I was right, but I have a broader perspective on how to apply those tools
Tomorrow I will remain confident in my own knowledge and skills, while remaining open to the ways that I'll be challenged to use those skills in creative and unexpected ways]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:31 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882789285 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882789420 Before I thought I was showing compassion by being sympathetic. Now I realize sympathy is not empathy or compassion. Tomorrow I will try to be truly empathetic and compassionate.]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:34 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882789420 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882790158 This has been a very good reminder that people are more important than things. It's important to stop the busyness of the moment and focus on listening to others whether in person or on the phone. Thank you🙂]]> 2021-11-11 00:57:55 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882790158 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882790549 What is most important in your life? Where do you refuse to bend? Your answer is a core value. It’s a driving desire or priority—perhaps different from anyone else you know.

What custom blueprint is in your heart, how can you use that to care/cure others.

Some common core values come to mind: the need for security, a love of adventure, loyalty to home and family, a passion for justice, pleasure in caring for others. When you are in touch with your given core values, it will rearrange and direct your energies, your time, and your thoughts. If you ignore them, sooner or later you’ll be miserable. If you identify and pursue them, you’ll unleash your potential and set yourself up for fulfillment and success.]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:06 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882790549 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791005 I love the ideas that have been added to my story in the past few days. In the past, I’ve always felt empathetic in my interactions. But I’ve been reminded it’s okay to be vulnerable, admit I might not know, ask for help, and learn from others. I’ve felt seen during these past 2 days and an eager to see others more fully. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:18 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791005 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791082 Before I thought it would be difficult to put myself out there and find acceptance
Now I think I belong to a new community that will enrich my life and perspective
Tomorrow I will use these skills to provide the same opportunity to others who are searching for belonging and compassionate understanding ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:19 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791082 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791174 Nothing is often a clever thing to do (don’t try to fix it for them, but empower them to arrive at their best solution, scaffolding them as needed), and nothing is often a very wise thing to say (pause…). There is power in the sound of silence.]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:22 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791174 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791224 One if the first things Tonio said to us on Tuesday morning was that he wasn't going to teach us anything new but just wanted to remind us of some things. I have been reminded of my purpose, value, and personal needs. I know this has been about compassionate care of our students and parents but I have learned much about compassionate care of myself. Thank you to all my colleagues for walking through this with me.]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:23 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791224 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791289 Before I thought I had to be independent in order to be strong and effective. Now I think that my strength will be interdependence and collaboration. In the future, I will engage with a community who values what each person brings into their future. Together on the way. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:25 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791289 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791294 I now realize that I need to ask more questions both inquiring or probing questions, but also pause more and listen, so I can hear the many stories my families want to share. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:25 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791294 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791460 Jaci - These 2 days have been powerful for me because they have validated pause/silence for me with all of its applications and meanings and utility. How wonderful to know that not only can I embrace my own quiet and thoughtful/careful reservation, but I can also offer it to others in a constructive way. I plan to find ways in which I can find finesse in doing this as a CT. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:29 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791460 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791512 Before, I began a journey of my own to figure out who I was, wanted to be. I invited friends to a book club so I could ponder with their input. Now I’m excited to have a format to share with my fellow employees an families.  Thank you Tonio snd staff. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:31 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791512 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791994 I felt these last two days allowed for reflection and to reset my thoughts & feelings. Sometimes we have to step out of our comfort zone to best support and serve others.]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:43 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882791994 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792033 I hope in every tomorrow to pause and listen. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:44 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792033 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792048 Before I thought more about how I could solve a problem for a family. 
Now I think I have permission to admit I don’t know, I need help, I can’t do this alone. 
Tomorrow I will continue to improve my listening skills, making sure to see each person as they are, listening without judgment, remembering they may be at a different location on the map than I am myself. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:44 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792048 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792129 Before I thought this was good to revisit and apply to my work and personal life- Stillness, G.R.A.C.E., is what I try to practice and is the best way to be true to self and to find health. Health and being fully present is the only way I can effectively serve others tomorrow ]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:46 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792129 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792164 Through this time I have learned the importance of considering the intentions we have when interacting with others and recognizing where we are all coming from.]]> 2021-11-11 00:58:47 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792164 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792995 Before I thought I was here to fix and cure and that was how I showed I care.
Now I think about caring more through listening and allowing for the magic of their self discovery as much as possible.
Tomorrow I will not interject my story into other’s, now pausing to listen with my whole heart.]]> 2021-11-11 00:59:10 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882792995 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882793320 Before I thought I could have all of the answers and advice for situations, not giving much thought into it. I’ve learned today’s lesson has taught people in their own ways, and I’m thankful
Tomorrow I will remain positive and optimistic for the future. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:59:18 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882793320 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882793871 Before I thought … I was doing well communicating with my families.
Now I think … I have more tools in my toolbox to ask better clarifying and probing questions. 
Tomorrow I will… try to make the time to use these new tools as often as possible.]]> 2021-11-11 00:59:33 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882793871 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882794180 I’d like to work on not being a judgement listener and allowing people a safe, comfortable and still place to speak their truth. ]]> 2021-11-11 00:59:40 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882794180 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882795300 Thank you Tonio]]> 2021-11-11 01:00:05 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882795300 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882797887 Before I thought I had to have all the answers for my families. Now I know that sometimes they are just looking for an unbiased listening ear. Tomorrow, I will listen and ask questions, not necessarily give advice. ]]> 2021-11-11 01:01:07 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882797887 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882798171 Before I thought I should try to fill silence that could be awkward...now I think silence can be a powerful tool.......tomorrow I hope to use silence as a skill]]> 2021-11-11 01:01:13 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882798171 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882798310 Before I didn’t think. I didn’t think about being self aware of my place on the map. I didn’t think about what kind of listener I was.  I didn’t think about identifying what I was doing such as asking clarifying questions or trying to cure. In the business of doing my job I didn’t take time to think about many of these things. 

Today I am analyzing myself in order to be more effective in my job. 

Tomorrow I am going to put up reminders in my office about a few key things I want improve. Then I am going to visualize specific situations and how I will respond. I’m also going to work on pausing and being still. ]]> 2021-11-11 01:01:17 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882798310 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882799357 I thought I knew how to be a good listener.

I know that I can do better.

I will use the tools shared to be better.

]]> 2021-11-11 01:01:42 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882799357 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882799429 reflection is key to happiness - thank you tonio
reflection leads us to next steps in our journey❤️]]> 2021-11-11 01:01:43 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882799429 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882800023 Audril
I feel like tomorrow is like New Year’s day! A reboot. I will apply the things I learned or/and remembered from this training in dealing with the parents. Thank you.]]> 2021-11-11 01:01:57 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882800023 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882800753 Andrea- Before I had not really been intentional in practicing better listening skills, in spite of knowing I needed to work on them. Today I learned more tools to use for being mindful, and tomorrow I will make progress and work to improve at work and in my personal life.]]> 2021-11-11 01:02:15 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882800753 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882802888 Before I thought I was almost to the point where my work was figured out, getting easier and more routine maybe.
Now I think I have been focused on surviving the business and stress, not how well can I do my job.  Tomorrow. I will take the time to review and reflect and revise my goals for myself as a homeschool Sped teacher, and how to incorporate my personal values of valuing others . ]]> 2021-11-11 01:03:09 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882802888 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882804187 2021-11-11 01:03:42 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882804187 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882804701 Before I thought I was listening well. Now I know more about probing questions. Tomorrow I will clarify with families if I'm asking a clarifying question or a probing question. ]]> 2021-11-11 01:03:55 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882804701 https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882892069 I appreciate all you shared with us, Tonio. Thank you.]]> 2021-11-11 01:40:33 UTC https://padlet.com/collaborative/hoexdebxl98w07d4/wish/1882892069