https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9 en-us 2016-12-01 14:29:39 UTC 2023-05-09 12:20:12 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Lovecookie.png 8011184 https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/141916479 I really like to think about myself as a calm and rational person. I make my choices wisely and and don't think I'm impulsive. Looking at psycho dynamic defense mechanisms, I've found myself to apply to multiple of them. A big one was Reaction Formation. A lot of the time when I'm upset or something that bothers me happens, I act like it doesn't bother me and that I don't care. For an example, something that really bothers me is when people break their promise but I know I shouldn't rely on people for things and I try to simply shrug it off. I think I think I can be pretty stubborn like that and my defense mechanism can be the source of that. Another big defense mechanism of mine is displacement and I would say this is my biggest one out of them all because I have a tendency to keep things to myself and it most likely bottles up and I take my anger out on someone who doesn't deserve it. For an example, I got in a might with my mom one day and took the anger out on my friend who didn't do anything. So I think I can be kind of adamant that way. 

]]> 2016-12-06 02:14:37 UTC https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/141916479 8011184 https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142438575 Looking through the Hierarchy of Needs, I defiantly know my physiological needs which is food, water etc. Looking at my safety needs, I realize I'm very grateful that I have a home and protection and my family always here. I think I always knew that and think of myself as humble because I don't get in over my head a lot about stuff. I know my family loves and cares about me so much as do my friends. At this moment, I'm currently on the esteem needs. I know that I deserve respect as everyone does and I'm currently working of self-confidence. I defiantly know I'm worth something but I'm not very up there on the hierarchy because I know how much it takes to be on the Self Actualization. I really truly hope to get up there one day. ]]> 2016-12-07 22:22:52 UTC https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142438575 8011184 https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142531922 Starting by looking at the openness on the scale, I would say I am very open to trying new things and just in in general, I really wonder stuff about the world and constantly want to try new things. I'm really imaginative and I really don't mind being on my own and being independent, I think I actually prefer it. I don't think I would be over the top in the openness scale but just a little more than the middle amount. I always try to keep in mind that I know how to have fun, but I also know when there's too much of it. I haven't ever done anything mind blowing or crazy but I've always wanted to go skydiving and I really love roller coasters and I just love trying new things. Looking at the conscientious scale, I would say I'm right in the middle of it. I'm a really organized person and I don't like to live on a routine per say but I know when I should get my stuff in order. I'm a really ambitious person and I think that the reason I'm really achievement oriented. Like every Sunday I usually go to Starbucks or Barns and Nobel to get get organized for the week. Moving on to the extraversion scale, I would say I'm a pretty social person. I try to make conversation flow easy a lot when meeting new people. I think once you get to know me, you find that I'm pretty talkative. On the other hand, I am not really the "class clown" a lot of one to raise my hand a ton. I think if you see me in class you'd think I'm shy and quiet but I'm not really with my friends and family. I think me being somewhat an extraverion makes me more open on the openness scale. Now on the agreeableness scale, I'd think I'm more on the high side. I can be really trusting and helpful but I always remember to not be too nice to people. I personally don't think its good to be too nice to people because people can take advantage of that. I never really doubt if I'm a nice person or not because I know I am nice nice to everyone. I'm also really flexible meaning I can compromise easily. Like if everyone deciding where they want to go for dinner one night, I would be okay with anything. Last bu not least, moving onto to the Neuroticism scale, I think I would be low for that. I mean everyone has their days but I usually try to be optimistic. Although there are days where I'm just really irritable and moody and I can take out my anger in of of the defense mechanisms like reaction formation. I really think the big 5 explain a lot of my traits and I've realized this while writing this. ]]> 2016-12-08 13:30:39 UTC https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142531922 8011184 https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142701791 I'm pretty sure everyone has a ideal self. If you ask me, I'd like to never procrastinate or make mistakes. I'd like to be more outgoing and easy going. But in reality, I procrastinate a lot, Im really clumsy and I laugh in awkward conversations. I thing that can relate to the pyramid because at one point in life you have to accept yourself for who you really are. ]]> 2016-12-08 23:24:57 UTC https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142701791 8011184 https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142702443 I really enjoy playing around with makeup and shopping in sephora. ]]> 2016-12-08 23:34:28 UTC https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142702443 8011184 https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142702512 I really want to live in New York when I'm older]]> 2016-12-08 23:35:46 UTC https://padlet.com/8011184/hk5spgjk3ve9/wish/142702512