What considerations need to be made to avoid conflicts in the following aspects of family life? by https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798 en-us 2023-11-05 18:48:35 UTC 2023-11-06 11:20:27 UTC hello@padlet.com Knowing where you stand. If you are the LPA you help them make decisions and when they can’t you make them. But you don’t get to tell them what to do https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777814626 2023-11-06 11:08:32 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777814626 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777814973 Adaptation to fit individuals need

]]> 2023-11-06 11:08:51 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777814973 The personal preferences of the patient https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777815495 2023-11-06 11:09:19 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777815495 Spending all your free time caring for your family member can have a huge mental affect and cause conflict because everybody gets tired and emotional and it is hard work. The mental health of all needs to be considered. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816261 2023-11-06 11:09:51 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816261 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816282 Keep the home environment safe and adapted for the patient with specific needs

]]> 2023-11-06 11:09:52 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816282 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816708 respecting what they say but explaining what would be in their best interest

]]> 2023-11-06 11:10:17 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816708 Be clear on roles and responsibilities https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816768 2023-11-06 11:10:19 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777816768 Changing things to make it easier for them, adapting things. But not changing it too much that they are going to get annoyed and everything. Make it gradual. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777817396 2023-11-06 11:10:51 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777817396 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818071 Respecting the boundaries patient has previously made in a capacity

Stating preference in treatment but knowing limits


]]> 2023-11-06 11:11:20 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818071 Take care of your own mental health and reach out for help and support when needed https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818177 2023-11-06 11:11:25 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818177 They might be irritable due to the lifestyle changes. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818190 2023-11-06 11:11:26 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818190 Adapt things but keep it homely, don’t make it like a hospital. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818663 2023-11-06 11:11:53 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818663 Taking care of your mental health https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818718 2023-11-06 11:11:56 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818718 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818887 knowing who and what you are responsible for, your duty of care, understanding their right to dignity, respect and independence within reasonable safety measures. knowing whether they have LPA, their capacity, their wants and needs.

]]> 2023-11-06 11:12:06 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818887 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818978 Putting adaptations in place in the home to ensure that people are able to use them

]]> 2023-11-06 11:12:10 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777818978 Keep all family members abreast of the incoming/new changes especially the children because this is also about their family life being altered too. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777819199 2023-11-06 11:12:23 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777819199 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777819515 Savings

]]> 2023-11-06 11:12:40 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777819515 Consider carer support companies who will draw up a care plan based on the needs and wants of the individual https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777819610 2023-11-06 11:12:45 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777819610 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820628 Be accountable for all expenses

]]> 2023-11-06 11:13:35 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820628 Communicate effectively https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820656 2023-11-06 11:13:37 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820656 Ensuring that the family have enough money to be able to care for that relative https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820901 2023-11-06 11:13:49 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820901 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820944 adapting the home to make it suited to their needs and removing risks to keep them safe but still keep it homely and how you like your home to avoid conflicts

]]> 2023-11-06 11:13:51 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820944 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820946 If they’re in your home, caring isnt just 9-5 its all the time

]]> 2023-11-06 11:13:51 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777820946 Discuss and establish clear expectations and roles within the family. Ensure everyone's responsibilities are defined and agreed upon. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821017 2023-11-06 11:13:55 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821017 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821073 What everyday bills cost and allowing them spending money

]]> 2023-11-06 11:13:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821073 Allocate responsibly who is going to do what in accordance to thrir abilities, to ensure that there are no arguements and the relatives needs are met efficiently https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821133 2023-11-06 11:14:00 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821133 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821280 Making finances secure by having an LPA but also giving the patient enough autonomy to spend money where appropriate

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:05 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821280 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821549 ensure it is a safe and comfortable environment for everyone living in that space, consider dangers to children and vulnerable adults.

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:11 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821549 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821685 Developing a spending plan

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:17 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821685 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821701 If they have own money not abusing them and taking advantage of them

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:18 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821701 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821877 Ensure that you have the level of finances needed to care for someone with high needs, if you do not have the money for this then it might not be acceptable to take them in to your home. This needs to be sorted prior to accepting a family member coming in to your home.

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:26 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821877 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821898 ensuring that expenses aren’t too damaging to the family finances

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:27 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821898 Speak to children of the house and help them to understand what's happening according to age https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821901 2023-11-06 11:14:28 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777821901 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822199 Despite it being hard to make time for themselves you should always try and make time for urself or it will burn you out and drain you mentally and physically which will impact ur family

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:42 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822199 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822232 Consideration to the whole family, a lifestyle change for one person could have a major effect on everyone else. The family will need to be in agreement about what's happening and how. Make sure everyone is heard

]]> 2023-11-06 11:14:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822232 May need to make adjustments to the home, for example a ramp instead of stairs if the relative is a wheelchair user https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822507 2023-11-06 11:14:59 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822507 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822568 Having to fund for another person in the household, including providing more food more use of water

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:02 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822568 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822659 Different members of the family can take on different caring roles according to their ability

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:06 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822659 culture https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822699 2023-11-06 11:15:08 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822699 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822883 Support rails throughout the house, padding on sharp edges, child safe locks on chemicals etc

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:18 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777822883 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823024 consider LPAs for finances as well as health, ensure that they are “of sound kind” or have capacity to make financial decisions before taking the responsibility away from them. don’t take advantage of the fact they are vulnerable

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:24 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823024 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823205 Adaptable and reliable

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823205 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823218 consider LPAs for finances as well as health, ensure that they are “of sound kind” or have capacity to make financial decisions before taking the responsibility away from them. don’t take advantage of the fact they are vulnerable

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:34 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823218 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823236 Everything becomes more expensive, the kind of specific things dementia patients need

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:35 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823236 Financial implications of feeding an extra person https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823422 2023-11-06 11:15:45 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823422 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823469 If possible, involving a carer or another family member to help with the patient to avoid burnout

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:47 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823469 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823617 Knowing what is happening and at what times. Everyone has a say in what role and responsibilities they have and if they are shared out equally

]]> 2023-11-06 11:15:55 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823617 Making sure that people have a break to relax, reducing negative effects of caring for them and allowing the carer space https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823933 2023-11-06 11:16:09 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823933 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823965 Is there any diasability adaptations that need to be made (wet room, stair lift, any equipment like frames etc or a adapted bed )

]]> 2023-11-06 11:16:10 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777823965 Consider providing the person with dementia with space where they can maintain some independence. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777824224 2023-11-06 11:16:24 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777824224 Providing professional carers to looks after the relative for certain periods of time to allow the family to have a break as it can be alot of pressure and can also cause family arguments if not enough personal time is soent together https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777824650 2023-11-06 11:16:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777824650 This is going to have huge financial implications so the family and so the family will have to put things in place and make sure that it doesn't end up being a financial drain on anyone. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777824685 2023-11-06 11:16:48 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777824685 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825088 Everyone involved needs to make sure their mental health is stable. If somebody is not at their peak performance they will not be able to care for their relative properly

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:10 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825088 Make a family care plan https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825303 2023-11-06 11:17:14 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825303 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825371 A lot will change exponentially for the person in care of dementia patients

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:19 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825371 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825568 Creating a safe environment and space for the dementia patient

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:28 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825568 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825638 Have an open line of communication with the patient about expectations surrounding the move eg what will change in their life and what will change in yours. Ask for their input as to how to navigate the change (where appropriate)

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:32 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825638 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825655 culture and wellbeing

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825655 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825662 Ensure that you put time aside for other activities to keep your mental health stable.

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825662 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825824 Almost baby proof the home

]]> 2023-11-06 11:17:42 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777825824 Save money to ensure they can afford adjustments around the home https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777826279 2023-11-06 11:18:07 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777826279 Encourage each family member to prioritize self care to prevent burnout. https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777827227 2023-11-06 11:18:55 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777827227 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777827900 advising and reminding the patient of what’s best for their wealth and complying with them in an empathetic manner

]]> 2023-11-06 11:19:32 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777827900 https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777829036 Adaptations such as bed frames, padding on beds, fitting in stairlifts or lifts, installing stairs or ramps

]]> 2023-11-06 11:20:27 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777829036 Please ask and get all the help that is available. Because this can also be mentally draining https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777829058 2023-11-06 11:20:28 UTC https://padlet.com/tm9115_/hgxctbbrfd9nv798/wish/2777829058