What If I Talk About Race Wrong? by Prince Ehoro https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0 What are the fears that we have about engaging in conversations about race? What drives these fears? What are some practical ways that we are using to overcome these fears and equip ourselves for anti-racist work? en-us 2021-11-24 20:22:15 UTC 2021-12-01 15:31:25 UTC hello@padlet.com Saying the wrong thing, using the wrong words. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922989298 2021-12-01 15:00:04 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922989298 Kids know more than we know. kathy_weisenber https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922989916 2021-12-01 15:00:19 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922989916 https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922990129 Fear of judgement, fear of saying something that will offend.]]> 2021-12-01 15:00:24 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922990129 https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922990361 Not having enough background with the topic 

]]> 2021-12-01 15:00:30 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922990361 feeling like I dont' know what I'm talking about and further offending people of colour https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991117 2021-12-01 15:00:46 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991117 Fear about hurting someone's feelings https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991225 2021-12-01 15:00:48 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991225 Revealing a lack of awareness christinequeen https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991387 2021-12-01 15:00:52 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991387 https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991449 Saying the wrong thing ie.., offending someone.]]> 2021-12-01 15:00:54 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991449 Using wrong phrases or words - worried about this kathy_weisenber https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991528 2021-12-01 15:00:56 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991528 Fears https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991595 Offending, saying the wrong things, not knowing enough, uncomfortable to deal with responses when we do call it out.

]]> 2021-12-01 15:00:57 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922991595 ego, don't want to feel incompetent https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922992316 2021-12-01 15:01:14 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922992316 As a caucasian male, we have to aware of how we speak and what we say kathy_weisenber https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922993554 2021-12-01 15:01:42 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922993554 Worried we will make matters worse https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922993754 2021-12-01 15:01:48 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922993754 Where does our Catholic faith come in to this conversation? The example of Christ? stephen_gay1 https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922993837 2021-12-01 15:01:50 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922993837 not wanting to offend https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922994124 2021-12-01 15:01:56 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922994124 Ask individuals what they need instead of just assuming https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922994309 2021-12-01 15:02:00 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922994309 Some staff express they feel untrained and are not sure how to support or have those dialogues https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922994569 2021-12-01 15:02:06 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922994569 not wanting to argue / convince sheri_stashick https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995095 2021-12-01 15:02:13 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995095 Fear of saying the wrong thing..might be hurtful https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995688 2021-12-01 15:02:27 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995688 Lack of knowledge, as leaders we are expected to know all. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995868 2021-12-01 15:02:31 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995868 the fear of being called "racist" https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995913 2021-12-01 15:02:32 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922995913 Worry that say something that offends. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922996415 2021-12-01 15:02:45 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922996415 offending others sheri_stashick https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997062 2021-12-01 15:03:00 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997062 Own Voices and entering into the conversation (e.g., as a White person) trying to enter to this feeling you won't be judged or feel incompetent (not offend). https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997075 2021-12-01 15:03:01 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997075 Not something people are educated about.. need to come from a place of being informed, but often we second guess responses https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997160 2021-12-01 15:03:03 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997160 not wanting to offend anything. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997857 2021-12-01 15:03:20 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922997857 Uncomfortable conversations lead to everyone feeling comfortable. This is what drives the fears. We don't want to offend. Will you be able to build the trust up again? Dynamic of not being a stakeholder of the experiences from the marginalized groups.... https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922998525 2021-12-01 15:03:34 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922998525 Don't have the vocabulary.. Our education experience might not have given us the context https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922998835 2021-12-01 15:03:42 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922998835 Book Clubs for staff kathy_weisenber https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922998929 2021-12-01 15:03:44 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922998929 talking to students about their experiences to guide change that is needed https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999201 2021-12-01 15:03:51 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999201 delicate sheri_stashick https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999334 2021-12-01 15:03:55 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999334 we don't know what we don't know kathy_weisenber https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999337 2021-12-01 15:03:55 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999337 What drives these fears? https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999386 Being able to navigate the conversations. Having open discussions between multi-racial staff to be open. ]]> 2021-12-01 15:03:56 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999386 Taking the time to look inward https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999454 2021-12-01 15:03:58 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1922999454 Social Media https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923000596 The feeling you will be chastised for something that wasn't intentional, but was brought forward with a lens of learning and not ignorance]]> 2021-12-01 15:04:24 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923000596 Constant changing goalposts.. don't feel always up to date.. Life long learning needed! https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923000845 2021-12-01 15:04:31 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923000845 Reading about the experiences of others and seeing the need and examples of how to change. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923001484 2021-12-01 15:04:41 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923001484 Frustration from Black educators with trying to be open but then shut down https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923001599 2021-12-01 15:04:44 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923001599 Using Board Resources for support and guidance. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923002620 2021-12-01 15:05:08 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923002620 Frame it --restate your intention.. page 33 in So you want to Talk about Race.. frame it with systemic issue https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923004740 2021-12-01 15:05:58 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923004740 Approaching situations with a learning stance and actively listening to student voice. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923004753 2021-12-01 15:05:58 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923004753 attending workshops, book clubs we I can learn more and lean into the conversations https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923011020 2021-12-01 15:07:45 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923011020 We need to intentionally question our processes to see if the process allows for all participants to be heard and honoured. Do our restorative practices reflect the situated knowledges of the participants. https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923019644 2021-12-01 15:11:01 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923019644 attend webinars (there are so many out there) to gain knowledge and better understand the perspectives and experiences of others to give us more courage to start having the conversations we can't avoid any longer https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923044116 2021-12-01 15:19:53 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923044116 Giving students the opportunity to share with the school information in their or their family's mother tongue. Currently they are reading prayers over the announcements in the morning roisin_philippe https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923048060 2021-12-01 15:21:29 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923048060 Explore This Book is Anti-Racist with students and staff https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923074005 2021-12-01 15:31:25 UTC https://padlet.com/princeehoro/h6p8urr78kze4uc0/wish/1923074005