https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl Double click | Describe the situation | Explain how it violated you | Explain how it made you feel | Explain what you think they should have done en-us 2018-02-09 13:35:00 UTC 2025-12-23 06:32:46 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230080296 When I left the supermarket and someone had hit my car and driven off.

It really annoyed me that the person hadn't stuck around or even written a note but just didn't care about the owner.

It made me feel angry and annoyed that it gave me no choice in the situation. 

Said something and tried to make up for it, at least say sorry.]]> 2018-02-09 16:06:06 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230080296 natcarr89 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230080450 My friend posted a photo of me looking horrible on social media. 

This broke my trust with her because I didn't consent to her posting it and would never have wanted other people to see it. 

It made me feel vulnerable and angry that someone had broken my trust. I was embarrassed and hurt.

I think she should have showed me the picture first and asked if I was happy for her to put it online. We could have come to a compromise.]]> 2018-02-09 16:06:20 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230080450 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230141001 I was in a relationship with someone for approx a month or two, so it was relatively new. We were having sex and without me really seeing, he had got his phone and started to film us. He showed me after and I had asked him to delete it and he refused saying that I was his girlfriend so he could do this and that he would be the only person seeing it. We split up not long after this and I then found out afterwards that he had previously posted footage of his ex girlfriend and himself having sex online and sent it to her family because she split up with him. I think about it all the time and if he will ever post it anywhere. 

It initially made me feel angry that he had taken this without asking, and also upset because he wouldn't delete it when i asked, so not caring about how it was affecting me. I'm now just extremely paranoid and worry how it might come back and affect my future as my passion/goals are to be established in the music business, which can be quite public.

I think he should of asked me to begin with and\or deleted it when i asked. Just take my feelings into consideration. ]]> 2018-02-09 18:10:42 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230141001 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230148208 My friend assaulted me whilst I slept. I woke with him violating me. 

It was essentially sexually assault and I Could not have consented to him doing this To me as I was asleep. It’s confusing because I don’t know if I would have consented to it as I didn’t have the chance to. 

It made me feel used and dirty. I felt prudish for feeling that way and as though I should have just enjoyed it. 

I had willingly slept in his bed and hooked up with him the night before but he should have woken me up first or spoken to me the night before about waking me up in this way. ]]> 2018-02-09 18:26:25 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230148208 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230199655 My ex came back to my house, I was very tired and intoxicaded. 
We always had a very respectful relationship.
We started kissing, and then I black out. I was so tired I  weirdly fell half asleep. I got my mind back and got an anxiety attack while we were "having sex"
I know that if I had been awake I would have said yes, I'm not mad at him, never been, because it is right at the border of ]]> 2018-02-09 20:32:11 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230199655 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230204060 2018-02-09 20:48:57 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230204060 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230205396 The shower of my shared two-storey flat is located on the downstairs level. On the side where passers by can see in. It had never bothered me before as any respectful person just walked straight passed without taking advantage and having a good look. Most people don't even notice. Or so I thought. My flatmate had a parcel to be collected for a return, I think it was shoes or something. I was home alone one day and decided to have a shower before work. The delivery guy came to the door and knocked, but obviously I didn't hear and nobody answered. When I heard a knock on the window I froze, and hoped that if I ignored it the person would go away. At this point I didn't know who it could be or why they were outside my flat. Thoughts of a murderer or rapist etc went through my head. But the person was persistent, knocking and knocking then shouting for a good 5 minutes. I knew that they could see me, so it made me feel violated, uncomfortable and vulnerable. When I shouted go away they just carried on. In the end I had to get out and answer the door, the guy casually asked for the parcel, seeming to not even acknowledge the fact that he'd just violated my privacy.  I gave him the parcel and he left. I'm not embarrassed about my body and I don't really care if he saw the outline because I'll probably never see him again. However, the situation could have been very different if he'd have forced himself into my flat and did god knows what. My mum told me that I shouldn't have opened the door but I didn't know what else I was supposed to do as he'd been persistent for around 15 minutes in total. Why should I have to feel nervous and worried about answering the door or doing what I want around my own home? In my opinion they obviously should've left and collected the parcel another day. I don't know what he was thinking.]]> 2018-02-09 20:54:58 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230205396 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230208237 2018-02-09 21:09:05 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230208237 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230225185 Not just a scenario , but often times, a lot of people in my family would use that to make fun of me to feel better about themselves or seem superior around new or other people. My aunt would use it everytime someone visits their house as a means of discussing how "great" her own kids are. Oftentimes just mentioning it to get a laugh out of the person. I felt like i was used, stepped on because they deemed I was inferior because of my sexuality ( being feminine ).]]> 2018-02-09 22:53:53 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230225185 natcarr89 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230264110 I was traveling through America with connecting flights, I landed at my final destination and my luggage lock had gone along with my luggage tag. I asked the staff and they said it would have been opened up on my connection to check for security reasons and that a letter will have been placed within. We opened the case and there was no letter, no explanation. My fathers lock had been cut off and my personalised luggage tag discarded. The airline offered no remorse or support nor did they attempt to find proof of the airline opening the case and not criminal activity. 

Without an explanation or proof that it was for security reasons, my bag could have been opened by anybody and anything put in or removed. My luggage tag was personalised and so was floating around in an airport miles from where I was. 

I felt uncomfortable being in another country and not knowing what would happen when I walk out the airport through security. I felt like my belongings had been touched by an unknown person and that felt violating and dirty. I know they think they were just doing their job but the lack of letter made it feel wrong and unprofessional.

They should have put my luggage tag back on the case and left a letter to say why they searched my case and that they had been the ones to cut the lock open. ]]> 2018-02-10 12:13:19 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230264110 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230268768 I was walking down a london street about mid-day, i was walking alone but the street was busy. A street artist approached me, i continued to walk in the same direction, he was drunk and aggressive and backed me into a wall. I couldn't break away from him, people were walking past like nothing was happening. He was trying to make advances on me, and making sexual comments, i was only stuck there for a minute or two, fighting to get away, but it felt a lot longer. ]]> 2018-02-10 13:23:51 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230268768 https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230954555 I was 18 and in a very rowdy bar, with girls dancing topless on tables and half naked guys on each other's shoulders. My guy friend was trying to undo bras. He got to me and I told him to stop, but we were having fun so I was still laughing and smiling when I said no, I was wearing a fairly revealing top as it is and really didn't want to be exposed, even in a place where no one would look twice, but still he managed to undo it. As soon as it was off I got so angry and pushed him and really didn't want to be touched by anyone, but it was unavoidable. I was drunk too so got pretty emotional. Definitely the closest I've come to feeling violated but it's a strong word so I suppose I felt more anger and discomfort. At the time I felt like I had over reacted but not so much anymore. I tend not to smile and laugh when I say no to people now though]]> 2018-02-13 09:46:31 UTC https://padlet.com/natcarr89/h2gd1x9p2mrl/wish/230954555