My Erikson Development Timeline by

Stage 1: Trust vs Mistrust

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:12 UTC

In Erikson's first stage of psychosocial development a baby develops an overall sense of trust or mistrust in their caregiver(s). This can be accomplished by being fed when they're hungry or nurtured when they cry or lack of these things. I believe I gained trust in my parents in the beginning. My mom would tell me stories about my dad tending to me right away when I would cry, as well as feed me and get me dressed as soon as I woke up.

Stage 3: Initiative vs Guilt

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:16 UTC

In Erikson's third stage of development children are learning to either gain a sense of initiative or guilt in their actions while exploring the world. For example, when I was younger, I remember going for a walk on my own because my parents gave me such a sense of independence that I felt comfortable taking initiative to leave by myself. At one point I almost got lost but managed to make my way back and learned the hard way that I made a huge mistake! I ended up feeling guilt but for the right reason.

Stage 2: Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:33 UTC

In Erikson's second stage of development a child is learning their sense of independence while still needing guidance from their parents or caregivers. My dad told me that they would let me pick my outfits sometimes even though they might look funny or mismatch so that way I felt like I had some control over myself and surroundings.

Stage 4: Industry vs Inferiority

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:45 UTC

In Erikson's fourth stage of development children are more focused on their school and peers and developing their confidence in their social environment. For example, I remember in 6th grade my teacher stopped the lesson to ask if I was anorexic or if my parents were feeding me at home (which of course they were, I was just skinny) and everyone laughed at me, so I developed feelings of inferiority at this time.

Stage 5: Identity vs Identity Confusion

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:50 UTC

In Erikson's fifth stage of development, teenagers are finding their sense of self and identity that typically begins to form who they are for the rest of their lives. For example, my group of friends impacted me in a way that showed me how to not be since unfortunately a lot of them grew up to do drugs and some have even overdosed. I feel because of this I am big on being clean and sober.

Stage 6: Intimacy vs Isolation

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:53 UTC

In Erikson's sixth stage of development young adults are generally finding love or a partner to share their life with. This can help build a strong foundation for their future family and home environment or end up in isolation. At 33 years old I have a partner and a 3-year-old boy. I feel this is the beginning of my family and future.

Stage 7: Generativity vs Stagnation

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:40:57 UTC

In Erikson's seventh stage of development adults are gaining a sense of what they've accomplished so far or still want to accomplish such as giving back to society or raising their child(ren) right. I am currently striving to raise my son right in hopes that at this point I will feel a sense of generativity of raising him as a moral, independent and compassionate person.

Stage 8: Integrity vs Despair

vabelenda — 2023-12-02 15:41:00 UTC

In Erikson's eighth and final stage of development, the elderly are looking back and reflecting on their lives with a sense of accomplishment or regret for their actions/ choices. I am hoping to follow my dreams, raise moral children, and stay kind/ genuine in every aspect of my life to feel a sense of accomplishment and success during this stage.