https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95 Practice responding to the speaker messages using the 4 skills for active listening. (1) Click on the "+" to add a sticky note. (2) Write your name where it says "Title." (3) Write your response where it says "Write something." (4) Click outside the sticky note to save. To delete or edit your sticky, hover over it and select from the options that appear. (5) Read other responses and select the thumbs-up symbol to upvote those that you think work best as a response to the speaker. en-us 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC 2022-03-11 15:35:33 UTC hello@padlet.com educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046983 “I am so exhausted and so overloaded with work. I have no life outside of the workplace.”]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046983 educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046984 So you're exhausted because of the amount of work you have and because there seems to be no balance.]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046984 educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046985 “We were supposed to move the cabinet before break time. First, he makes a smart crack about us not having an elevator. Then he didn’t even know the alarm code, which is something everyone is supposed to know. Then, when we were taking it down the stairs, he lets the door go on us, almost crushing it between the door and the jam. We’re going down and I notice that his shoelace is untied and I start worrying that he’s gonna go tumbling down the stairs. So I tell him to tie it up. We stop and wait for him to do so. All the while the thing is awkward and weighs a ton and we’re trying to move it as quickly as possible. I’m just not sure common sense is part of that guy’s thought process!”]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046985 educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046987 “I’m so furious! My boss is a total jerk. He keeps giving me more than anyone else in the damned unit! And he’s so rude he can’t even ask nicely when he does so!”]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046987 educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046988 So you're really angry that your boss keeps giving your work and not asking you.]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046988 educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046991 “I’ve worked here for 15years and my expertise and opinions should be worth something.”]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046991 educationaupe https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046993 You're feeling undervalued.]]> 2021-09-28 22:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1776046993 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797592693 So you are telling me that you are angry, and your boss unfairly distributes work loads.]]> 2021-10-06 19:22:42 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797592693 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797596042 2021-10-06 19:24:24 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797596042 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797599250 2021-10-06 19:26:04 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797599250 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797607513 2021-10-06 19:30:06 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797607513 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797616277 2021-10-06 19:34:24 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797616277 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797619683 2021-10-06 19:36:04 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797619683 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797624862 2021-10-06 19:38:34 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797624862 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797628352 2021-10-06 19:40:24 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1797628352 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800275077 So you are saying that your boss isn't being fair allocating workload? And it sounds like he doesn't treat people with respect? ]]> 2021-10-07 15:47:31 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800275077 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800284336 Are you saying you are disappointed that you are not being appreciated by your organization? ]]> 2021-10-07 15:50:21 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800284336 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800289423 I'm sorry that you feel frustrated with your workload and it has impacted your work and life balance. ]]> 2021-10-07 15:52:06 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800289423 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800296726 It can be really challenging to work with someone who didn't show up prepared for the work. ]]> 2021-10-07 15:54:37 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800296726 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800839865 So your saying you feel like your boss is taking advantage of youand is not showing the proper respect when speaking with you]]> 2021-10-07 19:55:19 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800839865 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800844800 It can be so frustrating to feel under valued]]> 2021-10-07 19:58:37 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800844800 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800846191 Sorry to hear how tired you are

]]> 2021-10-07 19:59:33 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800846191 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800850076 So you feel that the move could have been far better prepared for and the person in question did not properly value the help]]> 2021-10-07 20:02:07 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1800850076 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803144092 So, you don't think your boss is acting fairly towards you, he is rude, and he is giving you more work than anyone else]]> 2021-10-08 18:31:29 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803144092 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803150729 So, you are feeling a lack of respect because the experience you have to offer is not appreciated]]> 2021-10-08 18:35:52 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803150729 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803157414 So, you have such a big workload that you are exhausted and are left with no time or energy for things outside of work]]> 2021-10-08 18:40:12 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803157414 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803174972 Ok, so you had the task of moving a cabinet downstairs, and the guy that was moving it with you seemed to lack common sense. He complained about not having an elevator, and he didn't seem to know the alarm code, which should have been evident. He also didn't appear to be very safety conscious. He carelessly let the door go, he didn't check to see if his shoes were tied during the move, which you noticed and told him about. Then, he tied his shoes creating more difficulty, and even more safety concerns for you. Is that what you are saying?]]> 2021-10-08 18:51:15 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1803174972 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804462769 So you are upset and angry with your boss for asking you to work more and also with his rude behaviour.]]> 2021-10-09 19:13:03 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804462769 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804472342 You are feeling dejected for not considering your opinion or expertise, although you have worked for 15 years.]]> 2021-10-09 19:23:18 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804472342 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804481985 I am sorry to hear you are exhausted because of the additional work and unable maintain a balance of work and life.]]> 2021-10-09 19:33:00 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804481985 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804500607 You feel that move of the heavy cabinet was not coordinated well, especially not knowing the alarm code and carrying it down the stairs and unable to hold the door from getting jammed. Not only that lack of common sense and carelessness of the other person with his shoelace untied which may have led to an accident.]]> 2021-10-09 19:52:00 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1804500607 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807259806 2021-10-11 10:40:07 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807259806 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807260535 2021-10-11 10:40:31 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807260535 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807261365 2021-10-11 10:41:02 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807261365 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807262732 2021-10-11 10:41:54 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1807262732 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814173030 It sounds like you're frustrated with your boss and the way work is being assigned. What could your boss do differently to make you feel more supported?]]> 2021-10-13 14:39:54 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814173030 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814193829 With 15 years of experience, your knowledge and expertise should be viewed as a valuable resource to your team.]]> 2021-10-13 14:45:38 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814193829 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814202917 It sounds like you're really struggling with not having a healthy work-life balance. ]]> 2021-10-13 14:48:21 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814202917 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814212938 It sounds like your partner wasn't prepared for the move which made getting the cabinet moved from one spot to another a bit more difficult.]]> 2021-10-13 14:51:16 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814212938 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814813225 You sound frustrated and think you are being unfairly overworked.]]> 2021-10-13 18:12:46 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814813225 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814817792 You sound like you are feeling under estimated of your value.]]> 2021-10-13 18:14:42 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814817792 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814819656 I understand why you would be feeling this way if I was in your circumstance]]> 2021-10-13 18:15:26 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814819656 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814824373 So what you are saying is that the moving of the cabinet turned out to be quite disorganized and maybe it was a betters idea to plan the move when there was more time?]]> 2021-10-13 18:17:19 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1814824373 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815328658 From what I understand, you think your boss is giving you an unfair workload and isn't being considerate when requesting you put in more effort!]]> 2021-10-13 23:14:29 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815328658 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815331183 It sounds like you feel that your experience is not being valued here! ]]> 2021-10-13 23:16:32 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815331183 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815333228 I'm sorry you are feeling so overworked, that is so hard. Is there anything I can help with to lighten your load? ]]> 2021-10-13 23:18:10 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815333228 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815339293 Wow! It sounds like a frustrating situation! So let me get this straight, it sounds like he was being disrespectful, that probably didn’t set the tone well to get the rest of the job done. With him not knowing the alarm code, letting the door close on you, and not having his shoelace tied up – sounds like you think he could use some more safety training! 

]]> 2021-10-13 23:22:58 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1815339293 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817720029 It sounds like you're upset because your boss is putting more on your plate, and not communicating it professionally when he does.]]> 2021-10-14 17:05:23 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817720029 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817723426 It sounds like you're saying that you feel like your experience isn't being valued right now. Am I on the right track?]]> 2021-10-14 17:06:56 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817723426 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817724915 I completely understand where you're coming from. It can be so hard to feel like you're giving everything to work and can't focus on anything else. ]]> 2021-10-14 17:07:38 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817724915 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817727432 It sounds like you and your teammate had the task of moving the cabinet and that they didn't get enough training or have enough information to do it effectively. Is that right? ]]> 2021-10-14 17:08:49 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817727432 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817878831 So your feeling frustrated because work is not distributed evenly and your boss does is not treating you with respect.]]> 2021-10-14 18:15:33 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817878831 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817882651 You are feeling that your ideas are not taken into consideration.]]> 2021-10-14 18:17:21 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817882651 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817885873 So you're feeling overwhelmed with your work load and would like more personal time.]]> 2021-10-14 18:18:53 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817885873 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817891546 Sounds like it was very frustrating for you doing this task of moving the cabinet when your co-workers do not seem helpful or carry their weight.]]> 2021-10-14 18:21:39 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1817891546 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818274531 So it sounds to me like you are frustrated at the workload that your boss is giving you and
you don't think it is being distributed fairly? You would also appreciate if he used please and thank you when he asked?  ]]> 2021-10-14 23:06:36 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818274531 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818276157 Your feeling that no one listens to your experience and knowledge that you have gained after doing this job for 15 years.]]> 2021-10-14 23:08:21 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818276157 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818277386 I'm sorry that you are so overworked that you feel that you have an unhealthy balance between work and home. ]]> 2021-10-14 23:09:37 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818277386 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818279986 It sounds like your saying that your partner was very unprepared to do the task. With not knowing the alarm code and his shoe being untied that was very unsafe. Letting the door slam on you was not very nice either. I can see why you would be frustrated with him. ]]> 2021-10-14 23:12:03 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818279986 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818310538 So you are frustrated by teams workload distribution and the way in which you are being treated.]]> 2021-10-14 23:39:23 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818310538 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818315684 You’re feeling a lack of appreciation for all your work efforts over the years.]]> 2021-10-14 23:43:24 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818315684 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818316888 I am sorry you are going through some frustrating times. Please let me know if there is anything I can help with.]]> 2021-10-14 23:44:25 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818316888 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818323163 Sounds as though you had quite the move and more work then required, with your unprepared coworker.]]> 2021-10-14 23:49:09 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1818323163 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821267406 Curtis Jackson]]> 2021-10-16 16:39:33 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821267406 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821268862 Curtis Jackson]]> 2021-10-16 16:41:33 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821268862 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821271315 Curtis Jackson]]> 2021-10-16 16:44:58 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821271315 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821272381 Curtis Jackson]]> 2021-10-16 16:46:29 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821272381 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821495957 So what I am hearing you say is that you're feeling angry and frustrated with the treatment you're getting from your boss?]]> 2021-10-16 23:44:55 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821495957 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821496134 You're not feeling appreciated for your knowledge and expertise. ]]> 2021-10-16 23:45:23 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821496134 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821496403 I can understand why you might be feeling overloaded and exhausted. ]]> 2021-10-16 23:45:59 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821496403 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821498511 It sounds like a series of frustrating events occurred all day for you and that you are feeling concerned for the safety and well-being of your co-workers.]]> 2021-10-16 23:50:43 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1821498511 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823310905 So you're feeling angry at your boss for dividing the work unfairly and giving you more work than others]]> 2021-10-18 06:00:31 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823310905 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823311977 So it sounds like you don't feel appreciated for your expertise and experience]]> 2021-10-18 06:01:18 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823311977 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823312741 Work life balance can be so challenging, I'm sorry to hear how difficult it has been for you]]> 2021-10-18 06:01:50 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823312741 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823313911 So what you're saying is that you wanted the cabinet move to go smoothly and the disorganization threw you off?]]> 2021-10-18 06:02:41 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/1823313911 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090644544 So you are saying that your boss isn't the best a allocating workload? and that he doesn't really respect people?]]> 2022-03-11 15:28:33 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090644544 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090649022  Seems to me that you are feeling underestimated and that your 15 year experience doesn't hold any weight. ]]> 2022-03-11 15:31:11 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090649022 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090651601 I am sorry that you feel overworked, is there something I can do to help? This must be really tough on you. ]]> 2022-03-11 15:32:47 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090651601 https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090656015 Thank you for sharing to me your story, I bet your glad that's all done. ]]> 2022-03-11 15:35:33 UTC https://padlet.com/educationaupe/gnszonij4qz0hh95/wish/2090656015