https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact en-us 2019-02-07 23:58:31 UTC 2019-02-08 00:45:50 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Apple.png riley_heeter https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329034884 My ex-girlfriend and I were both going through mental health issues that were feeding off each other. We were both getting worse and it was creating a toxic relationship. We decided to break up, even though neither of us wanted to.]]> 2019-02-08 00:38:39 UTC https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329034884 riley_heeter https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329037126 The next few weeks, I was sad, and my mental health did not get better. My brain wasn't working in "long-term mode"(9). I was my routine (9) to see her and spend time with her everyday, so when I didn't it threw me off. I couldn't "see" the future yet(9).]]> 2019-02-08 00:46:23 UTC https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329037126 riley_heeter https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329045408 Now that it's been a few months, I have been able to focus on myself getting better. I am now aware (9) that it was important for her and I to separate.]]> 2019-02-08 01:34:50 UTC https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329045408 riley_heeter https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329045742 Our break up was a healthy decision because we both needed time to focus on ourselves, rather than always putting the other first. This has ended in both of us feeling a lot better mentally.]]> 2019-02-08 01:36:40 UTC https://padlet.com/riley_heeter/fy91bzqzjact/wish/329045742