Advanced Practicum by Ayla Goktan https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u en-us 2023-09-11 22:02:18 UTC 2023-09-12 19:41:44 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562197 I can see how angry you are right now. It can be frustrating to think I am not listening to you or wanting to help you solve your problem. ]]> 2023-09-12 19:36:54 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562197 I hear that you’re angry, which is understandable since you are thinking that I am not invested in helping you. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562672 2023-09-12 19:37:13 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562672 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562811 I can see how defeated you are feeling. It seems like it is difficulty to find the right words to express yourself or feel like you are heard.]]> 2023-09-12 19:37:20 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562811 It sounds like the way I responded felt like I didn’t understand — and that can really hurt coming from your therapist. What do you really wish I’d say that could help you? https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562949 2023-09-12 19:37:24 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700562949 I know it gets frustrating at times to feel like you aren’t being heard or understood. Me not understanding your perspective feels unhelpful to you right now. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563077 2023-09-12 19:37:31 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563077 It’s okay to not know what to say right now. Sometimes our feelings can be overwhelming and hard to articulate. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563263 2023-09-12 19:37:40 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563263 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563279 It seems you are feeling like you are not worthy of support from others and feeling like it may not be ok to ask for help. ]]> 2023-09-12 19:37:41 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563279 I hear that you feel like you’re alone in this. Thank you for letting me know that I have not been very helpful. I do want to help you – we are in this together. It sounds like I may be missing some important things, would it be alright for you to help me understand what I am missing? I’m sure we can figure it out together. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563303 2023-09-12 19:37:42 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563303 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563339 I hear that you’re upset. It makes sense that you are feeling that way if you feel like I’m not listening to you or don’t want to help you. ]]> 2023-09-12 19:37:44 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563339 2. Response: Feeling burdensome to others around you can be a big feeling to hold, no wonder it’s hard for you right now. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563530 2023-09-12 19:37:54 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563530 I’m sensing that this is a difficult thing to talk about. It makes sense: sometimes there are no words for something so painful. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563620 2023-09-12 19:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563620 I see that you are feeling overwhelmed with not getting the response you want from me with this problem. Feeling like there’s no answer to a problem can feel disappointing. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563732 2023-09-12 19:38:04 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563732 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563742 Sounds like you’re feeling like a burden, and it’s understandable that you don’t want to burden others, which leads you to these pretty heavy thoughts. ]]> 2023-09-12 19:38:05 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563742 That’s okay. You don’t need to say anything if you don’t want to. We can sit here in silence for a little. Maybe a thought might pop up for you, and maybe not. It’s okay either way. I’m right here with you. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563752 2023-09-12 19:38:06 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563752 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563944 I noticed that you’re looking away. It seems like you’re at a loss of words. ]]> 2023-09-12 19:38:16 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700563944 That thought must weigh so heavy on you. I’m here for you. (I will probably stay silent and let the client feel what they feel until they are ready to talk and offer a gentle touch if that is grounding for the client). https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564200 2023-09-12 19:38:29 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564200 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564221 Sounds like you’re feeling a little hesitant, and that’s pretty normal when someone asks about something vulnerable. How did you feel as I asked that question? ]]> 2023-09-12 19:38:30 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564221 It’s hard to find the words sometimes when there is a lot of heavy feelings involved. It makes sense why the words aren’t coming out right away. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564258 2023-09-12 19:38:32 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564258 I’m hearing so much pain and sadness in that sentence. It sounds like you really care about your loved ones and you think being gone would help them? Tell me more about your care for your friends and family. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564413 2023-09-12 19:38:40 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564413 https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564742 You feel like I’m not listening to you or willing to help, and understandably, that makes you feel a little frustrated and unheard. ]]> 2023-09-12 19:38:57 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700564742 It sounds like admitting that you need support and going over painful experiences has become overwhelming. It makes sense that it can lead you to think that it’s better to not be here at all so that others won’t have to deal with this too. https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700565796 2023-09-12 19:39:52 UTC https://padlet.com/goktanayla25/ftv0vxvzd6yol37u/wish/2700565796