https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3 en-us 2018-06-13 19:01:55 UTC 2018-06-14 17:04:41 UTC hello@padlet.com varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267238381 I do not remember how I developed this trait but for as long as I can remember, I have always been shy. I also know that I tend to focus on the more negative things that I do in my life because that seems to be the only thing that my brain can register. My shyness is most probably fueled by the constant voice in my head that tells me to be anxious for upcoming situations and my brains ability to tell me that all social failure must have stemmed from something bad that I had done in the past. ]]> 2018-06-14 15:57:34 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267238381 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239905 My parents have always been people that are open-minded to everything and are very appreciative of people. I must have picked that up from them and I always make it my priority to make somebody feel as welcome as possible and make sure that I do not come off as cold hearted, I'd rather come off as super friendly. I know that this is contradictory to my shyness, but once I get over the fear of speaking to somebody, I love talking to them and making them feel like they have been accepted. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:07 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239905 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239912 I tend to be dishonest with myself, telling myself things to trick myself into believing something different. This helps me talk to people in new situations but it rarely works. However, for honesty, my parents always emphasized that being honest will always be the best way to get anything because it proves that you are not afraid of speaking the truth and speaking your mind. That has been engrained in my mind ever since I can remember and now it has just become a part of my personality. I must be honest in social situations to make sure that everybody knows exactly how I feel and if they are doing something worng, they know that I feel a certain way about it. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:11 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239912 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239922 Because I am on the quieter side of things, I am great at observing things and finding things that other people may not be able to see at first glance. I know for a fact that this trait did not come from my parents, I think that this came from my want to see things differently than other people. Also because I can observe things quietly and not have to be loud about it, it was easy for me to anaylze and find things that made me feel calmer in social situations where I feel overly anxious. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:15 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239922 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239926 Over the years, I have learned that you can not trust certain people with different things and I wanted to be different from that. I wanted to be somebody that anybody could trust. I also wanted people to be more comfortable around me and know that I wouldn't judge them for anything that they would have said or done since I know that people are different in many ways and that they can not control certain aspects of themselves. It's not like I want them to trust me with their money or precious belongings, I just want them to know that they can trust me with their emtions and that I will be there for them. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:17 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239926 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239966 I have always been afraid of the unknown and basically everything else. This must have stemmed from my parents wanting to protect me from everything in the world and wanting to keep me safe from anything that is happening outside of our home. Although the extremeness of their actions have stopped, it has not left me so now I am extremely aware of everything that is happening and sometimes makes me paranoid because my parent have always kept me sheltered and did not let me get hurt to learn from those mistakes. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:28 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239966 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239974 Unlike some of my other traits, this one probbaly did not start because of my parents. This probably appeared around the same time as my want to observe things. I just became super interested in everything that was aroud me and I wanted to know how things worked. I like to learn about different things and it makes me feel accomplished because I was able to discover something new and it may have sparked a new interest in me.]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:31 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239974 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239996 For me, being hard-working is just a away of showing myself that if I push myself and do certain things, it will pay off in the end and show other people that I truly care about what they are teaching. My goal is always to learn something new and make sure that everybody around me is happy so I do whatever I can to acheive those goals while also making m sure that I am pleased with what I am doing.]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:36 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267239996 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267240008 I have always believed in treating others before myself. I make sure that they people around my are satisfied and if they are not, I am willing to give something up from myself to help them feel happy or satisfied. I believe that this trait and the trait of being friendly go well together because I am always looking for ways to satisfy other people because it makes me feel better about myself and it allows me to see that I can make a small change in their day that makes them happier then tey were before. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:42 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267240008 varshaja2074 https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267240028 This probably stems from the shyness and every subsection under shyness. I like to listen to what people have to say because everyboyd has a different perspective on things because they base it upon their own experiences. Also, I find it easier to listen to people because it allows me to get to know the person better and I am more comfortable being the quieter person since it is more like my personality than not. ]]> 2018-06-14 16:07:57 UTC https://padlet.com/varshaja2074/fqay2c6ff6x3/wish/267240028