LIGHTS LESSON T2W10 by Mdm Sharifah https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg BEING A PEACEMAKER en-us 2023-05-22 10:49:38 UTC 2025-10-22 11:48:36 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f970.png If Serene and Sonya are unable to resolve the conflict on their own and need someone to help them work things out, what are the key skills or characteristics that this person needs? azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599902306 2023-05-22 10:50:55 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599902306 Type your Name azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599902932 Type your response]]> 2023-05-22 10:51:35 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599902932 azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599904201 2023-05-22 10:52:57 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599904201 LESSON OBJECTIVES azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599904918 2023-05-22 10:53:41 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599904918 COLLABORATIVE NORMS azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599905247 2023-05-22 10:54:02 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599905247 WHAT IS MEDIATION? azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599905744 2023-05-22 10:54:33 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599905744 CHARACTERISTICS OF MEDIATOR azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599906283 2023-05-22 10:55:11 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599906283 MEDIATOR IS....DOES NOT.... azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599906852 2023-05-22 10:55:48 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599906852 "I HEAR" PROCESS azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599907556 2023-05-22 10:56:30 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599907556 " I Hear "...WHAT DO YOU UNDERSTAND? azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599908719 2023-05-22 10:57:46 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599908719 azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599909842 2023-05-22 10:58:45 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599909842 In the first round: azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599911004
•Students playing the role of ‘Serene’ can share why she shared the post online and how she felt when she saw the hurtful responses and comments.
•Students playing the role of ‘Sonya’ can share how she felt when she saw Serene’s post and what made her respond in the way that she did.
•Students playing the role of ‘mediator’ will practise ‘Hear’ by reflecting Serene and Sonya’s feelings and paraphrasing their stories to check their understanding. 
]]> 2023-05-22 11:00:06 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599911004 STEP 1 - INVITE azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599911532 2023-05-22 11:00:48 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599911532 STEP 2 - HEAR azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599911864 2023-05-22 11:01:12 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599911864 azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599912157 2023-05-22 11:01:33 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599912157 In the second round : azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599913056 • Students will practise ‘Explore’ by exploring options to resolve the conflict:
•Students playing the roles of ‘Serene’ and ‘Sonya’ will take turns to share possible options.
•The mediator will identify the needs of each person and help them find common understanding.
•After the second round, the observers will give feedback to the mediators on what they did that were helpful and suggest what could be improved.
]]> 2023-05-22 11:02:32 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599913056 STEP 3 - EXPLORE azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599913413 2023-05-22 11:02:56 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599913413 azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599914836 2023-05-22 11:04:27 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599914836 think...think....think azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599916167 •Refering to ‘IHEAR’ process, suggest some things that the mediator can do in ‘Agree’ and ‘Resolution’  to help mediate a conflict among peers.]]> 2023-05-22 11:05:43 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599916167 Type your name azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599916591 Type your response]]> 2023-05-22 11:06:09 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599916591 STEP 4 - AGREEMENT azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599917795 2023-05-22 11:07:29 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599917795 STEP 5 - RESOLUTION azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599918682 2023-05-22 11:08:19 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599918682 azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599920459 2023-05-22 11:09:56 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599920459 WHAT MAKES A GOOD PSL? azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599920810 2023-05-22 11:10:21 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599920810 ACTIVE LISTENING SKILLS azfah18 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599921117 2023-05-22 11:10:47 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2599921117 Jingxuan https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601173727 Ability to speak well and express themself well]]> 2023-05-23 05:52:11 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601173727 Azfar https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601174895 Madistor need be patient and thoughtful to resolve the problem]]> 2023-05-23 05:53:05 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601174895 Jun Bo https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601174909 A mediator must be patient and known well by both parties]]> 2023-05-23 05:53:06 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601174909 hanif https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601175164 patience, calm, neutral]]> 2023-05-23 05:53:18 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601175164 Zi Xin https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601175201 Able to have a open mind. ]]> 2023-05-23 05:53:19 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601175201 Jun Kai junkaitan0409 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601175568 Being open-minded, receptive to opinions given by both parties]]> 2023-05-23 05:53:34 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601175568 Dian https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176114 Patience, not biased ]]> 2023-05-23 05:53:57 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176114 Jingxuan https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176193 Ability to talk well and express themself well ]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:00 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176193 Umaira, Qistina, Irfan https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176239 characteristics :
-effective communication skills (to ensure they can communicate with both parties)
-fairness (cannot be bias)
-open minded (they need to take into consideration both sides, solution must appeal to both sides)]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:02 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176239 nur qistina https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176272 To be able to listen and understand both sides , and not be biased . Also be respectful and not share whatever they shared]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:04 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176272 Zhengxun https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176365 Open minded so to understand both parties]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:08 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176365 Jingying&xinyi https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176619 Not supporting anyone 
Calm 
Knowing what right and what wrong


]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:20 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601176619 Queena https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177147 Being able to remain neutral in the conflict 
Being able to facilitate conversation between both parties
Able to calm both parties when things get intense

]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:41 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177147 Hayden https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177288 Need to not be biased.]]> 2023-05-23 05:54:44 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177288 yuan feng https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177657 open minded
able to understand other feelings towards certain things]]> 2023-05-23 05:55:01 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177657 aiman https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177838 someone who is understanding and are on a fair stand]]> 2023-05-23 05:55:09 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177838 XiangLing https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177969 To be considerate, fair]]> 2023-05-23 05:55:15 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601177969 haziqah https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601180880 understand the opinions of both parties and not be biased]]> 2023-05-23 05:57:20 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601180880 Jingying&xinyi https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601195938 Agree so that it is equal for both parties ]]> 2023-05-23 06:07:33 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601195938 Jx and azfar https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601198889 IHEAR is important so that to ensure conflicts are resolved completely and the problem wont arise again
I - to engage in the conversation and setting simple norms can avoid more conflicts 
H - understand the situation from 2 peoples POV
E - brainstorm possible solutions 
A - the solution used should be agreed by both parties to avoid furthur miscommunication and conflicts 
R - to mend the relationship between both parties and completely resolve the conflict ]]> 2023-05-23 06:09:42 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601198889 Joel n yeezie https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601198971 Hearing both sides of story lets you have an unbiased view on the issue to solve the problem between the two party]]> 2023-05-23 06:09:45 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601198971 Umaira, Qistina, Irfan https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601199031 Umaira : Resolution - I think it’s important because without closure or solution, there is no point in having a discussion 

Qistina : invite - if no one steps up to take the initiative to resolve the conflict, the problem will be prolonged 

Irfan: hear: because you need to hear out both sides to come to a solution and not be biased.]]> 2023-05-23 06:09:48 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601199031 aiman, xiang ling, hanif https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601199065 invite: to talk things out and avoiding physical conflict
hear: to make sure we understand both sides of the parties and where they are coming from (unbiased)
explore: find ways to deescalate the situation
agree: accept negotiations and to end the conflict
resolution: to ensure the friendship remains positive]]> 2023-05-23 06:09:49 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601199065 Zi Xin, Dian, Queena https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601200478 Hear and Explore is important. It is important to hear both sides of the story and understand each other and not to be biased so that we can find solution to solve the conflict.]]> 2023-05-23 06:10:46 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601200478 Zx and junbo https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601200686 I think explore is the most important because resolving conflict should be the priority.

I think invite is the most important because if a person is not invited for the correct reason, then it would be easier for a fight to start in the middle of the mediation]]> 2023-05-23 06:10:55 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601200686 Qistina ans haziqah https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601203036 I- So that they’ll understand the reason for the discussion and knowing what should and shouldn’t do 
H- So that there will be no miscommunication  and biasness
E- need more than one option .if only have one option , what if it don’t work 
A- an option that is agreeable between both parties
R- there won’t be any further conflict between the two parties ]]> 2023-05-23 06:12:35 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601203036 Hayden and Yuan Feng https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601203642 Step 1. Invite: Get both parties to come together and have a talk about it
Step 2. Hear: listen to both parties’ perspective
Step 3. Explore: find out possible solutions to the outcome
Step 4. Agree: explain how the solution will work for the both of the parties and see for their agreements on it
Step 5. Resolution: Get the parties to come together and talk about the situation and come to an agreement and solve the conflict between them ]]> 2023-05-23 06:13:04 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601203642 g5 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601236892 sonya xiang ling
serene jing xuan
mediator azfar
observer hanif

+ asking their personal views
+ paraphrases their stories
+ asking their feelings

- not preventing the argument from continuing
- asking risky questions that can make the person more emotional/angry
- didnt ensure the friendship is restored]]> 2023-05-23 06:38:04 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601236892 Umaira(serene), irfan(Sonya), Zheng xun(mediator), qistina(observer) https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601239793 Serene pov ig:
- i post online cuz I needed an outlet to let out my feelings
- not targeted towards Sonya 
- feel annoyed and irritated when Sonya attacked me 
-I feel annoyed cuz he go ask his friends to ignore me

Sonya pov:
-annoyed by her ideas
-I feel targeted by serene post and made me insecure
-her posts are self centred
-I ask my friends to ignore her after conflict
-because she made me feel targeted so I do same thing to her]]> 2023-05-23 06:40:13 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601239793 Group 4 https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601245621
Serene- was having a bad day, post about her day online out of frustartion, when she saw the comments she felt even more fustrated 
Sonya- saw the story, could not relate to the person ; will apologise to her ; feel remorseful after apologising
Mediator- tried to ask questions associated to their feelings before, during and after the incident ]]> 2023-05-23 06:44:33 UTC https://padlet.com/azfah18/fojv81y8dlhm76rg/wish/2601245621