https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy Which identity issue is present? What strategy for identity protection is used? What types of thinking patterns are making the situation worse? How does this relate to you? How does that relate to giving and receiving feedback? en-us 2021-08-29 10:37:44 UTC 2021-08-31 02:05:42 UTC hello@padlet.com maramcadams https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1702563465  ]]> 2021-08-29 10:37:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1702563465 maramcadams https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1702563466  ]]> 2021-08-29 10:37:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1702563466 maramcadams https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1702563467  ]]> 2021-08-29 10:37:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1702563467 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705802736 VIVEK OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR, Sher, Meena, Az, Ambrose, Leanne]]> 2021-08-31 01:44:08 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705802736 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705805773 All-or-nothing: exaggeration]]> 2021-08-31 01:45:10 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705805773 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705806170 Avoidance of future situations that could "reveal his inadequacy"]]> 2021-08-31 01:45:17 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705806170 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705806359 1. "He better avoid situations that reveal his inadequacy" - THIS WILL COST HIM IN THE LONG RUN BECAUSE HE WILL MISS OUT ON OPPORTUNITIES FOR GROWTH
2. "everyone knows that he doesn’t have what it takes to be a top student" - HOLDING ON TO WHAT YOU THINK OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE CAPACITY TO EMBRACE YOUR OWN IDENTITY AND GROWTH]]> 2021-08-31 01:45:20 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705806359 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705806760 - Used to producing good results prior to med school and hence the high expectations are still there
- importance of checking in with ourselves and whether or not we are falling in these pitfalls]]> 2021-08-31 01:45:27 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705806760 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705808764 2021-08-31 01:46:09 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705808764 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809041 Am I good enough: He thinks he is not a good son, not a good medical student]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:15 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809041 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809382 2021-08-31 01:46:21 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809382 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809545 Avoidance: stays back in school until he knows everyone will be asleep at home]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:25 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809545 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809935 • Ben
• Joey
• Jomain
• Liz
• Lu 
• Wil]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:32 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809935 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809966 He wanted to be a good student and a good son, but he chose to redirect all his focus to studying and neglects his mum (until he is up to standard).

Instead of handling two things at once, he chose one only (all-or-nothing)]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:33 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705809966 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810299 2021-08-31 01:46:38 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810299 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810360 We tend to sacrifice another topic / social activity if we need to focus on a specific task (e.g. ANATOMY)

But we can learn to manage our time better and do both]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:39 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810360 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810625 2021-08-31 01:46:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810625 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810640 We don't understand what he's going through, so we have to be sensitive]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810640 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810969 2021-08-31 01:46:51 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705810969 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705811347 Denial (see q2)

identity of being a good person - not a disrespectful and unprofessional student, that "she has her reasons for the unprofessional demeanor" that is not accepted/understood]]> 2021-08-31 01:46:58 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705811347 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705812195 denial - coming up with excuses for unprofessional behavior]]> 2021-08-31 01:47:16 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705812195 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705812581 Questioning competency (her definition of competency is performance-based, rather than including professionalism). ]]> 2021-08-31 01:47:24 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705812581 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705813349 Am I a good person]]> 2021-08-31 01:47:41 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705813349 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705813801 A matter of balancing priorities
Not avoiding the problem and letting it snowball]]> 2021-08-31 01:47:50 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705813801 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705813947 Denial: 
"Barbara immediately apologizes but then defends herself. She says it hasn’t been her fault..."

Since she perceives competency based on IRA and GRA performance, she denies that the feedback on paying attention and getting to class on time can have an effect on her competency = denial.


]]> 2021-08-31 01:47:53 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705813947 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814118 -Barbara keeps thinking that the director "just doesn't get it"
-keeps self-justifying: blames her shortcomings on other people ]]> 2021-08-31 01:47:56 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814118 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814531 We should all:
1. be forgiving since everyone is dealing with a complex set of challenges and issues
2. be mindful as our words can spiral into someone else's identity crisis.

Sam is not receptive to positive feedback from his mum due to being trapped in his perceived identity as a bad son and student.]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:06 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814531 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814608 2021-08-31 01:48:08 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814608 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814663 -how we treat difficult patients (e.g. think that you don't know them well) -- think about how we can do better as a doctor and not blame it on the patient. don't take offence immediately and react to it. 
-handling feedback from superiors -- have self-awareness, disconnect between what they are thinking and what we are thinking?]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:09 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814663 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814785 all-or-nothing; feels that he is not there yet; will redeem himself when he gets there ]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:11 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705814785 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815223 - Diverting blame (blaming it on her dad for being late since he drives her).
- Making assumptions about the course director (old-fashioned). 
- Not receptive to feedback (dismissive). ]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:21 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815223 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815244 All or nothing. (Whether you can be a good son or not a good son)]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:22 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815244 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815594 - Striking balance between academic and professional competency. 
- Being receptive to feedback and acknowledging that it's okay to make mistakes. ]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:29 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815594 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815625 2021-08-31 01:48:30 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815625 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815714 Avoidance and redirecting focus to studies. ]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:32 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815714 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815918 2021-08-31 01:48:37 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815918 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815959 2021-08-31 01:48:38 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705815959 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816148 2021-08-31 01:48:42 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816148 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816221 2021-08-31 01:48:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816221 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816355 exaggeration: not spending enough time = bad son
denial: avoiding his mom ]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:47 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816355 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816359 Exaggeration. ]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:47 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816359 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816396 2021-08-31 01:48:48 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816396 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816665 2021-08-31 01:48:52 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816665 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816796 2021-08-31 01:48:55 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816796 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816819 All-or-nothing feeling is similarly felt when we have challenges with time management and spend less time with our friends/family due to studies.]]> 2021-08-31 01:48:55 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816819 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816839 2021-08-31 01:48:56 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705816839 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817083 2021-08-31 01:49:01 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817083 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817231 2021-08-31 01:49:05 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817231 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817368 2021-08-31 01:49:07 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817368 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817438 2021-08-31 01:49:09 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817438 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817563 Denial. She thinks the feedback is invalid and does not see her actions as being wrong. She tries to justify her actions. ]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:12 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817563 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817622 When we might take criticism at a personal level, and you might feel you are unworthy due to this 'bad point' about yourself. ]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:13 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817622 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817661 2021-08-31 01:49:13 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817661 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817794 Yvonne, Yu Bin, Scarlett, Henry, Clarissa, Prashaad]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:16 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817794 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817823 - am i competent?
- am i good? ]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:17 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817823 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817966 2021-08-31 01:49:19 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705817966 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705818350 - denial: blaming her dad when she is running late, blaming the course director for not understanding millennials
- rationalization: she still scored good grades for IRA and GRA

]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:28 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705818350 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705818616 Denial, evidenced by: 
1) Blaming others (e.g. blaming her dad when she is late); 
2) Defensive (e.g. thinks that the Course Director is out of touch; gives "justifications" for her actions)]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:34 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705818616 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705819076 - fixed mindset: this is just how i am, i can't help it 
- defensiveness]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:44 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705819076 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705819680 - sometimes trying to justify ourselves when receiving negative feedback in order to protect our ego and identity 

]]> 2021-08-31 01:49:57 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705819680 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705819898 1) All or nothing - denial. Denies everything because if she admits to a mistake in any 1 aspect it affects her self-identity. 
2) Fixed mindset - instead of learning from the feedback, rejects it and does not want to grow from taking in the feedback. 
3) Behaviour stems from complex intentions  ]]> 2021-08-31 01:50:01 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705819898 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705820434 Being defensive against feedback results in no improvement.]]> 2021-08-31 01:50:13 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705820434 https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705821750 When receiving feedback - we may try to justify ourselves when receiving feedback, but this reminds us to have a more open mindset to consider whether we can learn / improve from the feedback. ]]> 2021-08-31 01:50:41 UTC https://padlet.com/maramcadams/C1_1_CaseStudy/wish/1705821750