What topics about porn come up in sex education?  by https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv March 11th Listening Session en-us 2021-03-05 16:51:05 UTC 2026-01-06 18:15:58 UTC hello@padlet.com I bring up porn with my students who are around 14-15. I talk about it as something that is often not made from all perspectives so that it is not what every person enjoys. I also talk about the stereotypes in porn and how much of it is not REAL! https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299611760 2021-03-11 18:35:41 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299611760 real sex vs. porn sex https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299613136 How do bodies differ, types of sex, body parts, risk, etc.

]]> 2021-03-11 18:35:57 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299613136 I try to ask https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299613704 What are you looking for when you view porn? Is there anything I can answer? And then talk about the difference between porn performance and authentic in-person so-called "real life" sex.]]> 2021-03-11 18:36:04 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299613704 https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299614229 Porn tends to fall under the "media literacy" category when we discuss ways to engage safely]]> 2021-03-11 18:36:10 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299614229 porn as a way of seeing representation for queer people miabarrett https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299614916 2021-03-11 18:36:18 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299614916 Questions https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299615955 Normalizing questions in the anonymous question box for middle school middle students perhaps influenced by what they have seen in sexually explicit media.

]]> 2021-03-11 18:36:30 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299615955 Ethical Porn https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299618830 How can young people access ethical porn? 

Discussions of youth creation of porn (child pornography) and cyber exploitation. Laws, resources, support.

Discussion of sex trafficking + nonconsensual creation of porn.]]> 2021-03-11 18:37:04 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299618830 Porn coming up in classes during Q&A sessions, usually when talking about different sexual behaviors https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299619852 2021-03-11 18:37:15 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299619852 using porn as sex education-thinking that this is how sex and relationships really are https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299623747 2021-03-11 18:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299623747 The difference between sex trafficking and sex work https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299624384 2021-03-11 18:38:04 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299624384 communication skills aren't included--consent, "is this ok?" "Wanna have sex?" etc https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299626331 2021-03-11 18:38:25 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299626331 Porn is ok https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299626801 We always try to normalize the usage of porn using a harm reduction framework and discuss why folx might enjoy watching porn]]> 2021-03-11 18:38:31 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299626801 Is there harm that comes from watching porn, or how much is too much. https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299626991 2021-03-11 18:38:33 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299626991 https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299627966 is what I'm seeing in porn ok?

]]> 2021-03-11 18:38:44 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299627966 the ethics on what age to introduce the idea of pornography at in the classroom https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299628833 2021-03-11 18:38:54 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299628833 Educators can't bring it up unless asked abou t it - and schools don't ask for porn ed. https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299629829 2021-03-11 18:39:05 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299629829 Expectations that come from using porn as sex ed - both the physical and also stereotypes that enforce those beliefs https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299630126 2021-03-11 18:39:08 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299630126 Am I am bad person if I watch porn? Can a fist really fit into the vagina? Do you have to swallow semen? https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299632763 2021-03-11 18:39:38 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299632763 Students ask "is watching porn okay?" https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299633110 2021-03-11 18:39:41 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299633110 Reality of Porn https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299633754 Is porn real? Is it healthy? It is harmful? Can I get in trouble for watching it? Can I get addicted?]]> 2021-03-11 18:39:49 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299633754 Taboo themes as the norm https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299633837 BDSM,incest]]> 2021-03-11 18:39:50 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299633837 Talk about the Revenge Porn law in NC--if you send photos w/o consent of the person u can be charged and it is a felony. This law was put int https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299634311 2021-03-11 18:39:55 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299634311 how to talk to partner(s) about porn use https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299636612

]]> 2021-03-11 18:40:20 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299636612 Kink can be safe https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299640076 Young folx always have questions around kink so we use this as a time to discuss consent and communication]]> 2021-03-11 18:40:57 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299640076 How to address sexting, nudes, and teens creating/sharing their own pornography https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299640134 2021-03-11 18:40:57 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299640134 Porn Reflects Society https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299641764 Porn reflects the inequities in our society.]]> 2021-03-11 18:41:15 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299641764 What should we say about Only Fans? https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299651057 2021-03-11 18:42:54 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299651057 Laws and Legality https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299652677 We also discuss sexting, "revenge porn", child porn laws, etc.]]> 2021-03-11 18:43:11 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299652677 How to https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299676322 "legitimize" education about porn in schools, so teachers don't worry about being fired/reprimanded for discussing this in class. Having approved curriculum and speakers like Peggy Orenstein, and state-level approval helps a lot

]]> 2021-03-11 18:47:39 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299676322 Types of Sexuality Explicit Media https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299686852 We discuss everything from soft porn to fanfiction to go over the various types of media]]> 2021-03-11 18:49:40 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299686852 technology limits https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299705826 some educational videos are blocked for minors. Some students who are borrowing computers from their school can't access certain videos because it is being blocked. Censorship issues. 

]]> 2021-03-11 18:53:15 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299705826 Dr. Doe Sexplanations https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299741929 youtube has a great short video for teachers on ethics of paying for porn and effects of porn.]]> 2021-03-11 19:00:16 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299741929 Anonymous Questions that make it clear youth have seen porn-asking about porn specific terms etc https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299907682 2021-03-11 19:33:24 UTC https://padlet.com/EBPTraining/fiu9xtvb6zu7xjiv/wish/1299907682