Ethos Conversation by Jason Goh https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb en-us 2025-10-21 06:04:47 UTC 2025-10-22 07:30:52 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644808848 1) Do not share the specific criteria to any parent.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:24:18 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644808848 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644809324 Do not reveal additional information.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:24:38 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644809324 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644809821 Keep the selection criteria of the coach confidential. Or make the selection criteria known to all.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:24:59 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644809821 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644809945 Discreetly says that the selection criteria is confidential

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:05 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644809945 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810131 Mrs C should have asked her daughter to ask the coach the selection criteria, instead of asking herself.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:13 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810131 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810342 Share standard information only

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:22 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810342 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810354 Do not tell Mrs c about the selection criteria

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:22 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810354 Question 2 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810601 She supports her child’s aspirations by focusing on encouragement and independence at home, while ensuring fairness and professionalism in school. When roles overlap, she seeks objective input from others to stay balanced and impartial.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:35 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810601 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810661 Decline politely the request for insider info/ tips

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:37 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810661 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810727 Avoid unnecessary conversation with people who may have direct impact in making decision involving my child

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:40 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810727 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810773 Mrs C should stay clear and not approach Mr B and Coach. She should not ask for the criteria for selection.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:25:42 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810773 Shouldn't divulge any additional information that other players do not have to ensure fairness. https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810937 2025-10-22 07:25:49 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644810937 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644811493 Be professional.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:26:06 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644811493 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644811518 Be more encouraging and positive rather than meddling with her daughter's ambitions.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:26:07 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644811518 Perceived fairness https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644811549 To minimise interactions with the coach so as not to set tongues wagging

]]> 2025-10-22 07:26:09 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644811549 Do not ask for more information that is not disclosed to other players to ensure it is a fair selection. https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812252 2025-10-22 07:26:33 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812252 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812446 Mr B should not have disclosed anything to Mrs C. It is not fair.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:26:40 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812446 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812723 Mrs C should not turn up at the selection venue

]]> 2025-10-22 07:26:53 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812723 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812895 Ensure information shared with any parent is also available to all parents or players. You either share with all or share with none.


Mrs C who is not part of the cca should

not be allowed to speak with the coach about her own daughter as that can be perceived negatively by others

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:02 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812895 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812957 Tell Mrs C that he will address her question with all the players.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:04 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812957 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812976 Speak to the coach to avoid direct interaction with parents. Tell them that the selection is based on skills demonstrated during the selection process.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:05 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644812976 SL https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813137 Register my child in different school with me. Let my child to develop his / her potential without my intervention.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:12 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813137 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813161 Mrs C should not be involved in this process . She should not have approach Mr B and let nature takes its own course. So that eventually if the girl is selected , is purely based on merit

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:13 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813161 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813303 Mrs C could have stepped out of the selection process. She could let other teachers handle the decision to keep things fair and transparent, avoiding any perception of bias.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:20 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813303 To be transparent https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813332 Mrs C should not be present during training sessions as this is privilege that other parents do not have.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:21 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813332 Nature takes course Eythan_Ng_HGP https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813424 Don't see, don't hear, don't ask.

Can means can.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:27:26 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813424 Do not be involved and should not turn up at the selection venue. https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813552 2025-10-22 07:27:31 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813552 Inform the students and parents that there will be a reelection based on new set of selection criteria https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813616 2025-10-22 07:27:33 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813616 Do not have to mention the additional criteria, all stakeholder should be told the same info https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813986 2025-10-22 07:27:49 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644813986 Don't worry, Mrs C https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644814572 Tell Mrs C that the selection process is highly confidential. Tell her child to do her best.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:28:12 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644814572 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644814900 Mr B should be fair and not divulge additional information about the selection criteria to Mrs C. Since he has shared it to Mrs C, he could share the same information to other players to maintain a level playing field.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:28:24 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644814900 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644814924 Clarify that the coach made the team selection based on his professional evaluation of each player. Moving forward, whether parents of students should or should not be allowed to attend the selection session should be kept consistent for all students.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:28:25 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644814924 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815123 Do not discuss about the daughter’s progress in her personal capacity. Should be professional and just allow her daughter to develop in the school naturally.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:28:36 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815123 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815394 She must check if the selection session is open to parents and also not speak to the coach personally.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:28:46 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815394 Inform the selection criteria to all players and parents. https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815476 2025-10-22 07:28:51 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815476 As what other parents do Eythan_Ng_HGP https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815902 Look for CCA teacher in charge.

Dojo cher.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:29:09 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644815902 Tell pupils that Selection is solely based on performance https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644816314 2025-10-22 07:29:27 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644816314 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644816867 Tell the parents that to be assured that the process was based on clear criteria such as skill level, teamwork, and commitment. Coaches may speak with parents for various reasons, but such conversations do not influence selection decisions. Every player remains valued, and those not selected will continue to receive guidance to improve for future opportunities.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:29:49 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644816867 Reassure parents that the selection is fair https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817065 2025-10-22 07:29:55 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817065 1) only inform Mrs C generic criteria all players already know https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817072 2) if already inform Mrs C the privileged information, then inform all players the same information (transparent information)


3) school should brief coach on the code of conduct

]]> 2025-10-22 07:29:55 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817072 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817096 I will encourage my child to focus on her interest, skills, values such as team work rather than imposing my aspiration on my child.


]]> 2025-10-22 07:29:56 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817096 A&R https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817115 Mrs C should encourage and motivate her daughter to give her best and be the one who find her ways around the getting selected for NSG. Mrs C’s daughter can also reach out to her CCA teacher and coach on her own. As a parent, Mrs C should not be too intrusive. Let nature take its course.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:29:57 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817115 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817289 Let my child to handle the selections by herself/ himself. If she/he wish to get into the school team, she/he have to work harder and express her/his interest to the coach / TIC.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:30:06 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817289 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817552 Speak to everyone in the team objectively. Mr B and the coach have to clear the air. Explain her selection got nothing to do with the mum’s presence.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:30:17 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644817552 https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644818249 Mrs C should remain neutral as she is a staff as well as a parent. Moreover, She is a close friend to her colleague.

]]> 2025-10-22 07:30:51 UTC https://padlet.com/goh_wai_min_jason/fih12i3p1chkf1tb/wish/3644818249