Me paso la vida pensando... by Manuel Calderón

Cognitive biases-Unit 1

manuelcalder180 — 2018-10-03 17:38:16 UTC

In the way people apply their opinions about a certain topyc and in the way they want to have the truth about what they think actually doesn´t have any arguement to deal with reallity.

Theres something important that all of you have to know about saying untruths. The truth is just one.
Usually we get confused and compare phenomenums with our experiences as much as we can even when we haven´t get any evidence we find relation with it.

Example: In Mexico old people find an strange and irrational relation between bodyaches and rain. When they feel pain in certain part of their body they are almost sure of the weather and say: ¨It´s bound to rain.¨
It´s prooven that the weather has any relation with feeling pain in a certain part of the body by scientific evidence. Although some of them continue with it kind of ideas.
xoxo ;)

The order-Unit 1

manuelcalder180 — 2018-10-08 17:01:24 UTC

When I wake up at morning I stay quiet, in bad mood, dangeling into my room walking to the bathroom to wash my face and try to keep my eyes open enough to continue with my routine. I comb my hair with my fingers in front of the mirror, wear my pants, my socks usually get stocked on my toe and at last I shake my shoes to see if there´s anything inside it (fucking spiders) and, what about do my bed?

We can´t understand why is important to order what we do since the beggining of the day, we don´t want to continue any routine that doesn´t involves a presentation to our space where we live cause we don´t want to show our mess. Cannot exist a visit to our room, that´s why we have for sure that won´t be anyone judging the way we do what we think, but we´re just guessing.

What is the relation between order and our lives? Our mess is ourselves. Cannot exist the consequence that we want if doesn´t exist a cause. We have to order our ideas and agreements with ourselves and value our agreement as we do it when we want to sleep once and again until we get accostumated. If we want to achive our gols we have to think first the beggining of what we gonna do, How I gonna do it? When? We´ll have to start as we would writing our destiny as a tale. You have to find your own path formulating yourself and ordering our activities.
If you want to have the existence of money in your wallet you´ll have to order your thinking and find the way.

Remember. Cannot exist anything from nothing, you have to take what exists to create what you wanna get. All what exists in this world comes from the order. You are the architect and the engineer of your own life.

Against yourself?- Unit 1

manuelcalder180 — 2018-12-05 16:45:51 UTC

One of the popular ideas among millenials and typical groups of offended people screaming in the streets for freedom and justice is that we are one and we should fight for our rights arguing that we are all equal but with pretty enormous contradictions.
In the developed countries are groups of people frustrated for personal problems that makes them to get stressed and sicked and they try to spread their ideas about how bad is the goverment at making people happy with its political decisions (which is true, but not exactly in this topyc) and causing struggles in public. Well, this is the consequence of many old ideas but there is principally one. Colectivism.

Colectivism is just one of the many wrong, misunderstood and spreaded ideas around the world saying that we are all equal and we deserve the same, for the same reason but at the end of the day we just get more divided (because of our plurality). Colectivism is the consequence of pretending to create minorities which are suffering by injustice caused for racism, violence, etc, to fight by walkouts in public, protests in public and any relation with screaming, insulting and blessing in public property about justice. Which is the truth is all struggled caused by LGTB community, feminists, MGTOW, conservative people, etc.
Many of these groups are kind of good, but all they had not a complete philosphy. Their philosphy is: "We'll do it for the common benefit of the group! For the tribe! Which is ridicolous. You are not a colective identity, you are noy everyone in one person, you are not a whole world (literally saying it), you are one, only you. You cannot think think for them and they cannot think for you.
"Every person in this world is a whole world" (in a pragmatic way). What I mean is that we can't think in someone else without thinking first (and only) in our happiness above everything and everyone else. The only way to make someone else happy or respect their human right it's only by individualism.

Individualism is one of the principal roots of the development of modern societies. Individualism is the social tendency that gives the will of acting and thinking to a human identity to live according to his ideas. Of course discriminating colectivism altough is the contrary idea. One of the first nations on applying it were France and The United States of America giving freedom to all individuals in its societies.

Freeodm doesn't mean permission to function irrationally and do whatever you want just because "you felt it like it." Individualism is recognizing that we are not a tirbe anymore in the mountains, jungles trying to survive and to support anyone else "because is part of me;" individualism recognizes that we are individual being, with individual rights, individual minds with individual jobs, thinking, decisions, views and claims to be different like the branches and leaves of a tree. We are not equal, we do not deserve the same things, but we deserve rights and be treated with dignity.

We don't want to know it-Unit 1

manuelcalder180 — 2018-12-11 20:57:23 UTC

We create a social media to keep our friendship, create new relations and share our live as much as we can without analyzing what we know, what "we think to know."

Reality exists. You can know what you're doing bad when there is a thinking prooving you by physical and rational evidence about what youŕe doing and you know but you decide to sink on your emotions and then you just do it. After that the feeling of regret caused issues in our lives and we try to justify saying: "I didn't want to do it" as if we were savage identities without the capacity to rethink about circunstances and emotions. We can know the reality of all what exists only by reason, not by emotions, not by feelings and sometimes not even overthinking about it.

One of the worst mistakes that I've seen through my live is thinking that "nobody can perceive reality when we see live our lives in the way we are. I found a qoute in spanish that says something pretty similar:

"You see outside of you what your mind projects. So you don't perceive live as it is but as you are." Which is false. We see live according to the consequences of thinking. Emotions and feelings are the consequence of what we thought, but when we put emotions above reason we are leaving our humanity to be a savage identity and act with nonsense.

Let´s talk about me

manuelcalder180 — 2019-04-02 17:08:06 UTC

I´ve been thinking seriously what should I do with my live. I´ve been thinking if gettin in the air force is a better idea that living in an island, a little town, international destiny but stressful live of looking for a better live is enough for me, if what I´m looking for is success, love, money, adventures or impulses towards men.

I´m in my second year of studing English language and the only thing that I cannot stop thinking is a city, love, money and adventures. Is there something calling me to a big city? <3

It's just me

manuelcalder180 — 2019-09-11 23:20:33 UTC

A few weeks ago i met a handsome guy that got into the restaurant where i used to work as a waiter/bartender with a lady asking for smoothies. Actually he was attractive and i decided to invent such smoothie (even when i didn't know how to make them) but i never thought that guy was bound to be my summer love.

I was entertained with the chat of one of my colleges and suddenly a cute lady came and told me: Can i have your number? My colleges started to scream like whales in a ocean and happily i was bound to do it ('cause she wasn't ugly) but then she said: my friend is asking for your number. In that moment i couldn't believe it and i just felt how my whole chest started to beat at the rythm of the moment, like dangling in a wire.. Then i just said: "yes." I told her i wanted to give him my number in person so i got into his table, wrote in a peace of paper and he smiled. At that moment i knew it, he became in my biggest weakness.

He sent me a message at midnight and we chated up each other for two hours. At the end we agreed in a meeting in the tower clock of the central park of my town (Benito Juarez). When I arrived he was looking at the leaves that an old man was sweping from the floor all distracted and overthinking about us (I guess). We walked towards a lonely street next to a night restaurant called El Palomar and there developed one of the most interesting, fluent and courious chat that I ever had. We talked about his parents, political preferences and religion and all what he thought about was exactly the same thing that i though. We just matched, we just popped.
After 30 minutes we went a few steps from we were sat down 'cause the helly sun was burning our heads. After that we started to look each other like knowing what we guess that we wanted to do in that moment and he kept looking at me with those shinny and starling eyes, every second deeper, with more intensity, like trying to reach my being. I realized that he wanted what i thught and I turn to look at both sides of the sidewalk to see if there was anyone stearing us ad then we crossed our souls in a tranfusion of energy and it culminated with my body.