Gender Stories by https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d Made with Love and Honesty en-us 2022-02-02 04:02:16 UTC 2026-02-25 13:52:09 UTC hello@padlet.com Gender Story 2 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024659654 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:08:21 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024659654 Gender Story 5 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024659985 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:08:36 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024659985 Gender Story 3 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024661335 What's your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:10:07 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024661335 Gender Story 4 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024661977 What's your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:10:45 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024661977 Gender Story 1 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024662423 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:11:17 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024662423 Gender Story 6 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024662771 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:11:41 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024662771 Gender Story 8 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024663336 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:12:22 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024663336 Gender Story 10 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024663662 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:12:43 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024663662 Gender Story 9 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024664071 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:13:07 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024664071 Gender Story 7 sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024664207 What is your story?]]> 2022-02-02 04:13:18 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2024664207 Gender Story 29 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025902177 A gentleman always carries a handkerchief, a comb and a pocketknife. Treat everyone with respect, no matter who they are.]]> 2022-02-02 17:30:30 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025902177 Alpha's Gender Story sanforda5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025903021  
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
Okay.
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
Okay.
Next.
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. (tapping foot on the floor)
Okay. Alpha.
“Ang mga kuko mo, malinis ba?” (are your nails clean?”
“Opo, Ma’m.” (yes, ma’m)
“Patingin ang palda mo. Walang kusot, ba? (Let me see your skirt. Are there any wrinkles?)
“Wala po Ma’m.” (There is none, Ma’m)
“Okay, kunin mo na ang walis at linisin nyo na ang classroom bago tumunog ang kampana.” (grab the broom and start cleaning the classroom before the bell rings.”
 “Opo M’am” (Yes, Ma’m)

Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
Okay.
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
Okay.
Next.
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. (tapping foot on the floor)
“Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe – surwan nak man agsala iti labamba? “ (Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe – could please teach me how to dance la bamba)
“Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe – kasano iti agda-et?” (Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe, how do you sew?)
 “Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe – kasano iti aggilgil iti panty (Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe, how do I wash my underwear?)
“Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe – sigen a, itulod nak man idiay balay ti gayyem ko mabuteng ak iti aso.” (Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe, please please take me to the house of my friend please? I am afraid of the dogs)
“Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe – adiay innapuy makset ten!!! (Auntie Fe, Auntie Fe, the rice is burning…)



Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
Okay.
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.
Okay.
Next.
Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. (tapping foot on the floor)

]]> 2022-02-02 17:30:53 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025903021 Gender Story 57 valentinem3 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025904691 Ladies cross their legs when they sit. Like this; You can't be a boy; You're a girl. Boys are better in math. You can do whatever you want. Let me show you how to check your own oil. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:31:34 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025904691 Gender Story - 64 rubinj5 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025905054 Women are by nature the "caretakers" of the family and should not complain about things like making dinner.]]> 2022-02-02 17:31:44 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025905054 " We thought you would be a boy and we were so happy when you were a girl. We did not want another boy." https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908327 2022-02-02 17:32:54 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908327 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908497 A friend of my father’s tried to teach me to swim.  He threw me into the deep end of the pool and said I should get myself out of it “like a man.”  I thought I was going to drown.]]> 2022-02-02 17:32:59 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908497 Gender story #48 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908599 I grew up a "tom-boy."  I like to play sports with boys and kick their ass.  I think I've got BDE, but as a female, I also cry a lot.  Typical?  

Growing up, one of my biggest memories and things I am most thankful for from my parents is when they let me dress up as Batman for Halloween in Kindergarten.  Not Batgirl--BatMAN.]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:01 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908599 "Being a Female Athlete" Meredith Curtin https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908639 Being a female student-athlete, you are treated differently - physically, economically, mentally, emotionally.

]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:02 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908639 Gender Story 54 celluccia1 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908643 Make sure to cross your legs when you sit in a seat. 
You can't wear a short skirt like that.  What will people think?
Good girls wear pretty dresses. 
You have to be quiet.  Don't talk too much. 
You have to know how to cook.  
Well God didn't give me boys so I gotta do with what I have.

]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:02 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908643 Gender Story 47 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908689 Are you working on your MRS or your MS degree?
You're married to a doctor? Why are you working? ]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:03 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908689 Gender Story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908691 - Suck it up, don't show anyone you're hurt. 

]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:03 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025908691 Ladies should and should not https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025909262 Ladies should chew with their mouths closed
Ladies shouldn't bounce soccer balls off their foreheads
Ladies should always leave the house in lovely clothing, smell nice and wear makeup
Ladies shouldn't curse like a sailor
Ladies shouldn't drive too fast
Ladies should date men like their fathers
Ladies should be happy all the time]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:19 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025909262 Gender Story -44 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025909799 Girls are overly emotional and taken less seriously.]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:34 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025909799 Women should wear make-up, wear jewelry, and color their hair https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025909829 2022-02-02 17:33:35 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025909829 As a mom - you have all boys? Are you going to try for a girl? https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910050 2022-02-02 17:33:40 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910050 Dad doesn't cook or do laundry. Ladies do not smoke. Respect the Flag https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910098 2022-02-02 17:33:41 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910098 Gender Story 67 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910150 Be respectful to all

]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:42 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910150 Gender story 43 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910183 Care for family and always be respectful]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:43 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910183 Gender Story 11 souzak https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910463 I was constantly told growing up, to be respectful and that I could accomplish anything if I put my mind to it. There wasn't a ton of gender talk, although it was often inferred that things were specific to males I (as a woman) was never discouraged from anything.]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:49 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910463 Gender Story 53 campbellc18 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910551 Don't cry, rub some dirt on it, never throw the first punch it is the last one that counts, always respect women ESPECIALLY your mom, open the door, firm handshake, always reach for the check, let your actions speak louder than your words, take care of your family]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:52 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910551 Gender Story 34 weinm https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910662 Take care of your family, take care of your property, take pride in your work. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:54 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910662 Gender Story 45 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910811

How to Be a Lady (A GentleManners Series) 

book was given as a birthday gift from my mother 
]]> 2022-02-02 17:33:58 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910811 Gender Story 20 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910917 Be kind to your family; always clean up your room; include your brother; Never go to bed mad; Golden Rule rules; Be helpful; Laughter is the best medicine; perspective matters; ]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:00 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025910917 Gender Story 50 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911504 Be sure to mind your manners, be polite and say please and thank you. Wear a nice dress or skirt if you want to look nice.

]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:15 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911504 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911511 Be a man. Stand up for what you believe in. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:15 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911511 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911960 Why are you playing baseball? Why not softball? Make sure you always make a good impression. Do not talk too loud. Be respectful to all people. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:29 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911960 Gender Story 16 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911978 Had to wear dresses to schools even in a public school. Girls had to take home ec in junior high; boys had to take woodshop. 

]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:30 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025911978 Gender story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912087 Sit nicely like a lady. Be a good girl.]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:33 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912087 Gender Story 39 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912092 A woman wears makeup, tends to household duties. She is responsible for the kids. She must look presentable and never curse. Her opinions must be kept to herself. Must follow rules, sit like a lady, and never appear stronger than a man. A woman can not be too big or too small. We have to be perfect.]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:33 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912092 My Gender Story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912305 Always be kind to others, especially women and teachers. Treat everyone with respect, even if you don't receive it.]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:39 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912305 Gender Story 37 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912496 My husband really wanted a boy to 'play sports with.'  Our first was a girl and he plays more sports with her than the two boys who came second and third.  

]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:45 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912496 Gender Story 26 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912646 Sit up straight, cross your legs when you sit. 
You WILL learn to ice skate not play soccer!
Girls wash the dishes after dinner. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:49 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912646 Gender Story 21 dowsings https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912714 You need to watch your brother, learn how to clean, make dinner, do the laundry, and not complain because this is your role. Also you should look presentable and put together when out in public. Don't be too emotional.]]> 2022-02-02 17:34:51 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025912714 Gender Story 27 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025913044 Never hit a girl, 
Dad mows the lawn, 
Dad's the analytical thinker, Mom's the emotional thinker
"I have no idea how I could have raised girls"
I would be so nervous to have a girl sleep over at the house, I don't want to be responsible for that.]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:00 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025913044 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025913741 Be respectful. 
Do what you think is right.



]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:18 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025913741 Gender Story 46 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914215 Sit like a lady. Girls don't mow the lawn, shovel snow, or do yard work. Girls cook, clean, and do laundry. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:33 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914215 Gender Story 15 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914326 You don't have to take crap from anyone in this life.]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:36 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914326 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914630 I grew up in a house of girls and we were constantly told girls can do anything boys can do. I am thankful I was raised around that mindset.]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:44 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914630 Gender Story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914927 The roles were predetermined and everyone knew the rules.  There were jobs for me and jobs for my sisters.  They weren't strong enough to shovel the snow or take out the trash, and mowing the lawn was dangerous.  My sisters had their jobs too, cleaning the kitchen or folding laundry.   Girls sports teams had different uniforms, like skirts for field hockey or tennis.  Boys played football, soccer was "okay" but not as manly as football.  Girls should be nurses or teachers, but boys should run businesses or be doctors.  

]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:52 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025914927 Gender Story 33 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025915146 As my mother braided my hair into two perfectly parted pigtails, I could not wait to get my dress on and my frilly socks.  But just because I looked the part, did not mean I played it well.  With a cast on either arm for the majority of my elementary school days, I could be found, wearing a dress and playing football with all the boys in the class.  
"Tomboy!" that was what they called me. I loved "girly" things like dolls and dresses, but I loved sports too. But when it came to high school, being a 'tomboy" was no longer attractive or acceptable....but that did not stop me! ]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:57 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025915146 Gender Story 12 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025915197 You can be anything you want!
You have a voice, you need to use it.

]]> 2022-02-02 17:35:58 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025915197 Gender Story - female https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025915875 are you anorexic? you should eat more. i'm concerned about the weight you're gaining. eat some vegetables.]]> 2022-02-02 17:36:16 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025915875 Gender Story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917065 Don't cry like a girl]]> 2022-02-02 17:36:48 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917065 Treat everyone with respect regardless of how they look or act. https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917123 2022-02-02 17:36:50 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917123 Gender Story kellyme2 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917171 Always show respect to yourself and those around you. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.]]> 2022-02-02 17:36:51 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917171 Gender Story 22 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917492 It's important to be independent. You don't need a man to make you happy - you have to be happy with yourself. Work hard. Be polite and respectful. Always be generous. Put others first. Don't take things too seriously. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:37:00 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025917492 Gender story 68 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025918209 the girls will do the housework and laundry.
the girls will be the caretaker and the baby sitters of the family.

The boys shouldn't cry when they get hurt.  
 a bpy/ man should never hit a women]]> 2022-02-02 17:37:22 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025918209 Gender story 6 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025918254 Act like a lady, sit tall, be polite, address adults by Mr. or Mrs., girls shouldn't wear jeans, grow your hair long, don't talk back, push in your chair when you leave the table, when passing an adult-step aside and let them by first, be respectful,

]]> 2022-02-02 17:37:23 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025918254 Gender Story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025919468 Interestingly enough - the point of view from my maternal side: 

Always take care of your little brother; Be like your grandfather; Be like your uncles; the way you act is a direct reflection of your mother; be physically superior; use your voice when proving right from wrong; never talk back; work harder than everyone else; don't show emotion; never harm a lady;

the point of view from my paternal side: 

talk everything out; be wittier than everyone else; be verbally cunning; point fingers; physical attributes don't matter; academics are more important than athletics; be progressive; welcome therapy]]> 2022-02-02 17:37:55 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025919468 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025920181 Be kind and respectful.  Word hard.  My parents didn't treat us different based on our gender.

]]> 2022-02-02 17:38:12 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025920181 Gender Story 66 potterc2 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025920821 My gender story was more subtle. I wasn't told all of these things outright. But I did learn them.]]> 2022-02-02 17:38:28 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025920821 gender story https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025921003 be polite and listen when spoken to. make my family proud. don't be so emotional. don't get a reputation. ]]> 2022-02-02 17:38:33 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025921003 Gender Story 24 spencerc2 https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025947163 A women's job is to take care of the house, and cooking.  
Sit like a lady, be a good girl. 
Be careful how you dress you don't want to send the wrong idea. 
Catch a guy with face powder, keep them home with baking powder. 

With my own sons, 
Boys will be boys

]]> 2022-02-02 17:49:17 UTC https://padlet.com/sanforda5/fb393686osp7rl5d/wish/2025947163