https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2 You can find resources for you or a loved one and leave a message for our survivors. en-us 2021-04-07 13:48:47 UTC 2023-03-15 11:23:49 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f499.png jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391587398 2021-04-07 14:13:40 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391587398 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391728583 2021-04-07 14:40:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391728583 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391729855 2021-04-07 14:41:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391729855 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391731581 2021-04-07 14:41:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391731581 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391732477 2021-04-07 14:41:34 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1391732477 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1449992848 ECU Title IX: https://titleix.ecu.edu/

ECU's Councseling Center: https://counselingcenter.ecu.edu

ECU Cares:(252) 737-5555 or ECUCares.ecu.edu

ECU Office of Student Rights and Responsibilites: 252-328-6824, osrr@ecu.edu:
Adjudication of sexual misconduct cases

REAL Crisis Intervention: http://realcrisis.org/]]> 2021-04-23 01:18:19 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1449992848 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450001825 According to ECU's website Title IX is "Title IX, formally known as Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972, mandates that no person shall be excluded from participation in or discriminated against on the basis of sex in programs or activities at educational institutions that receive federal financial assistance. Title IX includes acts of sexual assault, sexual harassment, dating and domestic violence, and stalking."]]> 2021-04-23 01:21:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450001825 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450008976 Availble Monday-Friday 8am-5pm
Call 252-328-6661

If after hours or a weekend, call 252-328-6661 and press ‘2.’]]> 2021-04-23 01:24:02 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450008976 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450017858 ECU's site states that obtaining an evidence kit is free of charge and you have the right to have a friend, family member, or sexual assault advocate present with you during the exam and/or when speaking with police.

For detailed information about the steps taken for the kit, use this link ]]> 2021-04-23 01:27:09 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450017858 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450043252 TW:

Sexual assault refers to any unwanted sexual contact or behavior that occurs without consent. Some forms of sexual assault include attempted r*pe, kissing, unwanted sexual touching, or forcing someone to perform sexual acts.

(link) Learn how to set sexual boundaries

(link) What is in a "No"

(link) What is 'stealthing'?]]> 2021-04-23 01:36:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450043252 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450049214 Quiz: https://www.loveisrespect.org/quiz/is-your-relationship-healthy/

Is there unhealthy behavior in your realtionship?
https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/is-there-disrespectful-behavior-in-my-relationship/

How to leave an unhealthy realationship: https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/should-we-break-up/

Making a To Go Bag when leaving an abusive relationship: https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/how-to-make-a-go-bag-when-leaving-an-abusive-relationship/

Build A Safety Plan:
https://www.thehotline.org/create-a-safety-plan/

Blackmailing Resources:
https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/help-my-partner-is-blackmailing-me/]]> 2021-04-23 01:38:21 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450049214 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450061652 TW:


- Scratching, punching, biting, chocking, or kicking

- Throwing items

- Threatening to use or using a gun, knife, box cutter, bat, mace, or any item against you

- Pulling your hair (without consent)

- Grabbing your face to make you look at them

- Preventing you from leaving or forcing you to go somewhere

What to do when you've experienced pysical assault (link)]]> 2021-04-23 01:42:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450061652 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450073960 TW:


- Calling you names

- Telling you what to wear

- Yelling or screaming at you

-Preventing you from seeing or communicating with friends or family

- Damaging your property

- Blaming abusive or unhealthy behavior on you

- Gaslighting you (link: what is gaslighting?)

- Threatening to expose personal details

(link) What to do if you've experienced emotional abuse

(link) How to set emotional boundaries]]> 2021-04-23 01:47:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450073960 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450084466 TW:

- Unwanted kissing or touching

- Unwanted rough or violent sexual activity

- Refusing to use condoms or restricting someone's access to birth control

- Threatening, pressuring, or otherwise forcing someone to have sex or perform sexual acts

- Using sexual insusts against someone

(link) What to do if you've experienced sexual assault]]> 2021-04-23 01:50:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450084466 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450099275 According to loveisrespect.org, consent is an ongoing mutual agreement between partners about what they want to experience.

(link) What is in a "No"

(link) What consent does-and doesn't- look like

(link) Consent and Ethics

]]> 2021-04-23 01:55:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450099275 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450113611 TW:

- Sending you negative, insulting, or threartening messages or emails

- Sending, requesting, or pressuring you to send unwatned explicit photos or videos, sexts, or otherwise compromising messages

- looking through your phone or checking up on your pictures, texts, and phone records

- Using any kind of technlogy to monitor your activities

(link) What to do if you've experienced digital abuse]]> 2021-04-23 02:01:13 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450113611 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450146638 Dating Violence:
https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/lgbtq-relationships-and-dating-violence/

Dating in the closet:
https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/dating-in-the-closet/

Free Counciling and Advocacy: https://fenwayhealth.org/ustoo/

Transgender Survivors Self-Help Guide: https://forge-forward.org/resource/self-help-guide-for-trans-survivors/

Gender-Integrated Sexual Assault Support Groups: https://forge-forward.org/resource/gender-integrated-sa-support-group-guide/]]> 2021-04-23 02:14:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450146638 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450168523 RAINN:
https://www.rainn.org/articles/sexual-assault-men-and-boys

1in6.org: https://1in6.org/

Men recovering from childhood sexual abuse: 
http://www.amazon.com/Victims-No-Longer-Classic-Recovering/dp/006053026X/ref=pd_sim_b_1/105-6866422-4242850

What is Male Sexual Abuse and Assault?
https://bandbacktogether.com/master-resource-links-2/abuse-resources/male-sexual-assault-resources/]]> 2021-04-23 02:23:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450168523 jadacs1594 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450195392 ECU Cares: (252)737-5555

RAINN: (800)656-4673

Love is Respect - National Teen Dating Abuse: (866)331-9474
Text them at 22522

LGBTQ+ National Hotline: (800)234-7243

Department of Defense Safe Helpline for Sexual Assault: (877)995-5247

Human Trafficking National Hotline: (888)373-7888

National Runaway Safeline: (800)786-2929

]]> 2021-04-23 02:33:36 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450195392 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450358993 2021-04-23 03:45:30 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1450358993 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1451948286 You aren’t alone! Speak up and heal on your own time ❤️]]> 2021-04-23 14:28:01 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1451948286 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1451948972 We are rooting for you and your growth, don't let this define you because you are so much more]]> 2021-04-23 14:28:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1451948972 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1452135577 Be safe you are not alone!!!!]]> 2021-04-23 15:05:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1452135577 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1452315092 2021-04-23 15:42:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1452315092 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1452363647 You are heard. You are seen. You are loved. What happened to you does not define you. You are worthy of a beautiful life. ]]> 2021-04-23 15:52:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1452363647 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1454535173 2021-04-24 12:07:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1454535173 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1455177781 2021-04-24 20:45:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1455177781 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1458906584 Your experience is valid. Your trauma is valid. Do not worry about if others have it worse, what you have been through is valid. You are a survivor. ]]> 2021-04-26 11:23:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1458906584 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1478563491 2021-04-30 15:05:04 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1478563491 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1478564376 2021-04-30 15:05:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1478564376 https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1533414228 It was not your fault. You did not tease or provoke them in any way. Idc if you did it im the past. And if you were pressured into saying yes thats still assault. 

Abuse is abuse and it was wrong for them to hurt you like that. 

Pressuring someone is called coercion and its not open free consent like it should. If they were holding something over your head that's still abuse. Idc how much they bought you. Its not your fault. It never was. 
You're brave, awesome, and so much more stronger than you realize. I wish yall well. 
You are not the monster, they are...]]> 2021-05-17 23:20:20 UTC https://padlet.com/jadacs1594/f5pl129r47rq1hv2/wish/1533414228