WEEK 4 RECAP #3: Thinking of the video you and your colleagues made on LGBTQ identity, language, and equity, pose one of the following: (1) A lingering question you are left with OR (2) Something you would like your colleagues to know. by Nicole J. Harris, Ph.D.

WEEK 4 RECAP #3: Thinking of the video you and your colleagues made on LGBTQ identity, language, and equity, pose one of the following: (1) A lingering question you are left with OR (2) Something you would like your colleagues to know. by Nicole J. Harris, Ph.D. https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2 en-us 2020-10-01 21:37:41 UTC 2020-10-02 15:53:25 UTC hello@padlet.com I learned a lot from my colleagues https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796574817 2020-10-01 23:03:46 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796574817 Question https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575171 What would it be like if we all had conversations that were open and honest and uplifting about LGBTQ+ people?]]> 2020-10-01 23:04:02 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575171 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575260 I learned so much about my colleagues and ]]> 2020-10-01 23:04:08 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575260 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575331 1) lingering question - why are using pronouns still such a hot topic and why doesn't everyone do it?

2) I worry that I still struggle with using the correct language to be fully inclusive. this is still something I'm working on - and this is something I would want to be called in about.

]]> 2020-10-01 23:04:11 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575331 Please think before you speak and imagine how what you say lands on others https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575333 2020-10-01 23:04:11 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575333 The lingering questions I have is how much support and counseling is out there for people struggling with these specific situations. useonlyforitunes https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575671 2020-10-01 23:04:25 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796575671 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576020 I would like my colleagues to know that I have learned so much from their perspectives and I really appreciate their openness in this space to allow me to learn and grow]]> 2020-10-01 23:04:37 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576020 samlimdeif https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576298 It's important not to generalize the LGBTQ+ experience. Each letter in the spectrum and each individual person will be impacted by and experience their identity in different ways. It's important as practitioners that we do not limit our imagination and thinking around what's possible for our LGBTQ+ students and the ways in which they will or will not exist in spaces.]]> 2020-10-01 23:04:49 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576298 I was able to learn more about the content through what was learned by my colleagues https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576332 2020-10-01 23:04:51 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576332 From last week and this weeks reading for first gen students, truthfully from everyone's perspective why don't universities especially more of the prestige ones not admit students with lower socioeconomic status. https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576393 2020-10-01 23:04:54 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576393 Learned https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576480 One thing I learned was its okay to mess up. We are all human. In fact we are all going to mess up and that's okay as long as you are willing to put in the work and learn and grow. ]]> 2020-10-01 23:04:59 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576480 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576783 please know it's extremely validating for me to be in a space where I don't have to justify my sexuality as "real" or valid

]]> 2020-10-01 23:05:15 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796576783 LGBT students don't fit into this "one-size-fits-all" experience https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796577016 Each student who is a member of the LGBT community has their own hardships and experiences and they should all be considered, even if they don't fit into the "mold" of a theory/framework/model]]> 2020-10-01 23:05:25 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796577016 It doesn’t always require money or financial support to make a campus physically inclusive. You just have to prioritize it and be strategic. https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796577313 2020-10-01 23:05:37 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796577313 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796577381 It is so important to sit down and have conversations, learn more about, and appreciate the LGBTQIA+ experiences. At the end of the day, we are all human, so how would you like to be treated? ]]> 2020-10-01 23:05:40 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796577381 If your campus doesn't offer resources, then you need to BE the resource!! https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796578438 2020-10-01 23:06:26 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796578438 I learned that it is ok to speak in "rough draft" because not everyone is going to know everything right off the bat, and from that boosts learning! https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796579564 2020-10-01 23:07:15 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796579564 I learned the importance of understanding how to we must continually be educating ourselves. https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796580401 2020-10-01 23:07:49 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796580401 #3 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796582345 Something I learned is that preferences on how someone prefers to be referred to can be extremely individual. It's always important to ask someone what they like to be called before assuming it yourself. ]]> 2020-10-01 23:09:18 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796582345 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796582434 I was grateful to learn from others who interpreted each article and video slightly differently than I might’ve.]]> 2020-10-01 23:09:22 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796582434 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796582799 Please keep in mind when you're speaking from a place of privilege how someone from an oppressed group may interpret what you're saying. If you're speaking from a place of privilege, be open to having your views challenged.]]> 2020-10-01 23:09:40 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796582799 Labels https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796583569 Do you think it might be worth creating more labels to identify people that need an identity to recognize themselves? Should this be done despite the fact that many are resistant to learning new labels for individuals and the current influx of many new terms? ]]> 2020-10-01 23:10:16 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796583569 Growth https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796584237 I feel like I am not alone in this work. I am glad I am challenged by such great individuals. Thank you.]]> 2020-10-01 23:10:47 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796584237 Pronouns are mandatory, not preferred https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796585112 2020-10-01 23:11:29 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796585112 https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796588501 It is extremely important, therefore as student affairs professionals we can better support students.]]> 2020-10-01 23:14:02 UTC https://padlet.com/NJHarrisphd/f4yfvhwa14jdzmw2/wish/796588501