When I was younger, I didn't care what people thought of me. I would sing and dance a lot more before knowing that people can judge me.

• Very extroverted and outgoing

• Took part in hula lessons

• Sang karaoke and played the ukulele

Singing Hamilton with my sister for the last time before she moved to college.

• 9 year age gap

• Glad she moved out

• Was doing all of this for ME in the future

When my dad told me that he would rather have me not love him because I didn't believe in or love God.

• Emphasized that religion is above everything else

  • Pressing me to get baptized

• Made me feel like my academic achievements meant nothing since that's what he always used pushed on me

• Our bond and dynamic became distant

• I held a grudge

Went through many self-expression phases surrounding my clothes, hair, and hobbies (crafts and crocheting).

• Realized I am bi

• Discovered my love of gift-giving

• Tiktok baking account

I was with the wrong crowd, became the worst version of myself, and losing the most important friendship in my life.

• Was a hater for now reason

• Had a bad influence friend group

• Showed me a new perspective to friendship

  - The right people will come back

The realization that I am going through positive character development with the right friends and that everything is going okay.

• New ESSJ friendships

• Friendships are really important to me

• I have no one to go to but my friends since I don't have a big family