https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v Name: Lê Ngọc Trà My Class: 20E22 en-us 2022-09-16 12:58:55 UTC 2022-09-16 14:31:14 UTC hello@padlet.com tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299986354 2022-09-16 13:25:25 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299986354 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299988819 It’s a customary saying to begin a meal officially

]]> 2022-09-16 13:26:59 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299988819 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299993157 Typically, the eldest would have to say: “Moi ca nha an com,” loosely translated as “Have a good meal, everyone.” They regard all other members in inferior positions; therefore, one saying referring to all others as a whole is sufficient]]> 2022-09-16 13:29:34 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299993157 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299996622 People who are second to the eldest, usually their sons or daughters, first of all, have to express respect towards the superiors beforehand by saying: “Con moi bo/me”. Subsequently, they said  “Have a good meal, everyone.” to others.]]> 2022-09-16 13:31:28 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2299996622 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300000977 However, with people in the same position or of a lower level, we could refer to them in one sentence: “Have a good meal, everyone.”]]> 2022-09-16 13:34:01 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300000977 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300002731 The sayings should also be in hierarchical order from the eldest]]> 2022-09-16 13:35:06 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300002731 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300007411 All the rules apply to every type of meal and must not be changed.]]> 2022-09-16 13:37:49 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300007411 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300010719 Additionally, people would have to wait until the last person completed all of their sayings before digging in]]> 2022-09-16 13:39:47 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300010719 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300020080 In conclusion, the lower the rank is, the more sayings we would have to do before starting a meal]]> 2022-09-16 13:45:20 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300020080 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300026312 This complicated practice baffled me a lot]]> 2022-09-16 13:49:01 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300026312 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300028573 I always thought this practice was lengthy and unimportant]]> 2022-09-16 13:50:23 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300028573 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300036036 However, one experience has changed my viewpoint on this practice]]> 2022-09-16 13:54:35 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300036036 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300036594 As the smallest child in the extended family, I struggled at every big gathering on important occasions]]> 2022-09-16 13:54:56 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300036594 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300042289 At one big gathering on new year’s day, I met a cousin who was a year younger than me]]> 2022-09-16 13:58:10 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300042289 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300046788 When we were about to have lunch, people started doing practice as usual]]> 2022-09-16 14:00:53 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300046788 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300051140 When it was his turn, my younger cousin only said, “Have a good meal, everyone,” and then started his lunch]]> 2022-09-16 14:03:41 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300051140 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300055761 This shocked my relatives, who immediately expressed disapproval by yelling at him and making him redo his practice. 
My mom even told me that my cousin was an example of not being taught by his parents]]> 2022-09-16 14:06:26 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300055761 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300063396 I was shocked at how my relatives reacted and my mom’s attitude towards something I regarded as trivial]]> 2022-09-16 14:10:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300063396 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300067971 Then, I realized this practice was more than just customary; it showed the hierarchical order of the family]]> 2022-09-16 14:13:43 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300067971 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300068602 A child must know his place in the family to act accordingly]]> 2022-09-16 14:14:06 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300068602 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300073997 By violating the practice, he could upset the whole order and lead to the collapse of the family]]> 2022-09-16 14:17:29 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300073997 tramylengoc001 https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300079553 This event taught me the value of social practice to a community and the repercussion of social practice violation]]> 2022-09-16 14:20:49 UTC https://padlet.com/tramylengoc001/eu4s077zgr8l4y2v/wish/2300079553