心灵导师培训网络课程 by 云火心理咨询 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027 2016.10.27朴良洙《用“心”培养节制力》 en-us 2016-10-26 10:48:57 UTC 2016-10-27 14:14:35 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Doubleheart.png 问题3：节制力是如何形成的？ 2248681351 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133270255 2016-10-26 10:53:41 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133270255 问题2：棉花糖实验说明了什么？ 2248681351 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133270337 2016-10-26 10:54:23 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133270337 问题1：母亲倾注全部心血， 为孩子做了所有。 但孩子长大后却说 “妈妈，你为我做的到底有什么？” Why? 2248681351 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133270388 2016-10-26 10:54:48 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133270388 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133557635 2016-10-27 09:41:54 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133557635 第一题:孩子是妈妈的一生中的全部，可孩子不理解妈妈，对妈妈关闭心门，所以不能走进妈妈的世界，所以他一次也敢受不到妈妈的心。 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133560588 2016-10-27 10:02:50 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133560588 棉花糖的实验说明了孩子的节制力 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133579491 2016-10-27 11:59:47 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133579491 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133599625 2016-10-27 13:06:50 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133599625 节制力需要有约定，和孩子之间形成信赖。 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133618171 2016-10-27 13:51:42 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133618171 问题2：有ab https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133619265 2016-10-27 13:54:31 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133619265 问题2：棉花糖实验说明，节制力的重要性，有节制的孩子更容易走向成功 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133619284 2016-10-27 13:54:34 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133619284 问题 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133619991 2016-10-27 13:56:30 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133619991 问题1 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620000 2016-10-27 13:56:31 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620000 问题1：因为妈妈对孩子的欲望总是说：不行，这些否定的话，给孩子心里留下更多的是妈妈的体罚，唠叨，说话不算数，不守信用。所以孩子对父母会有反抗的心。 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620013 2016-10-27 13:56:33 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620013 问题1：因为妈妈总是说不行，所以在孩子心里留下的 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620460 2016-10-27 13:57:36 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620460 节制力是培养孩子的信赖感而形成的。 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620652 2016-10-27 13:58:02 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133620652 问题1 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133623808 母亲对孩子的管教总是说不行，唠叨和说话不算话、不守约定，给孩子心里留下了阴影，所以孩子心里有了反抗，留下的只有负面的东西。]]> 2016-10-27 14:05:11 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133623808 主要是妈妈的表达方式让孩子产生反感 https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133624172 我也时常跟孩子说不行，孩子都问为什么？然后我再解释，他基本可以理解]]> 2016-10-27 14:05:51 UTC https://padlet.com/2248681351/20161027/wish/133624172