https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt Read the excerpt I already posted. Connect this to "Allegedly" being as specific as possible. Then, connect your post to another post that you think shares a similar idea, adds on to your idea, or is particularly strong. Use the connect option. en-us 2020-11-05 13:50:27 UTC 2025-10-29 15:50:52 UTC hello@padlet.com masterythomasmccullough https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/893935330 Sometimes it's hard to grasp why the answers to the present lie in the past. A simple analogy might be helpful: a leading psychiatrist in the field of sexual abuse once told me that she had, in thirty years of extensive work with pedophiles, never met one who hadn't himself been abused as a child. This doesn't mean that all abused children go on to be abusers, but it is impossible for someone who was not abused to become an abuser. No one is born evil. As Wincott put it, "A baby cannot hate the mother without the mother first hating the baby." As babies, we are innocent sponges, blank slates, with only the most basic needs present: to eat, shit, love, and be loved.But something goes wrong, depending on the circumstances into which we are born, and the house in which we grow up. A tormented, abused child can never take revenge in reality, as she is powerless and defenseless, but she can - and must - harbor vengeful fantasies in her imagination. Rage, like fear, is reactive."]]> 2020-11-05 13:50:27 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/893935330 fa133746 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894656006 in the text it talked about how that "A baby cannot hate the mother without the mother first hating the baby." In Mary's case it is like mixed feelings with her she still loves her mom at the same time she hates her from how she treats her. Like when she forgot to bring her stuff with her to the group home saying that she was gonna make her some homemade food. But completely changed her mind when she had to leave. But people do just say things out of anger.

]]> 2020-11-05 16:16:45 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894656006 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894656736 Excerpt from "The Silent Patient" relates not only to allegedly but suicidal people they weren't born this way something in there life had a impact on them that significantly change them difference its not good to do what you do either do it being filled with regrets and turning back or just be changed. But its to the point where you wanted to be numb and just feel nothing like Mary feeling nothing is better than feeling every thing. When ted cheated on Mary it opened up the wound she once covered up with the false fantasy of having someone to finally loving her.]]> 2020-11-05 16:16:54 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894656736 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894659697 This connects to “allegedly” because we have the abuse aspect. Mary was abused basically her whole life by both parents, that’s why some people believed she killed Alyssa. The story the silent Patience has the same concept as it talks about the idea of abuse. No one is born evil, yet depending on how you’re raise, what household you are raised in, you can become the abuser if abused. But if you weren’t abused,  there is no intent or real purpose of someone becoming an abuser. ]]> 2020-11-05 16:17:29 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894659697 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894661096 The excerpt connects to "Allegedly" because  in the excerpt it says " No one is born evil...A baby cannot hate the mother without the mother first hating the baby". This quote from the excerpt connects to Allegedly because ]]> 2020-11-05 16:17:45 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894661096 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894661420 i believe this relates to allegedly in many ways. I think that what they are trying to say in this little excerpt is that they dont just automatically become  a killer or pedophile, someone or something made them into this. something has happened to them for them to be this way, and it relates because she maybe did it on purpose but they werent born this way... or like when they killed mary... Mary was also abused and maybe her abuser wasnt born that way, someone could have been abusing the abuser and they felt the need to abuse her .]]> 2020-11-05 16:17:49 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894661420 pl127401 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894675144 this connects to "allegedly" because it talks about abuse and how no one is born evil. no one is born evil until they grow up with bad parents or bad friends]]> 2020-11-05 16:20:28 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894675144 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894684954 In the text of 'The silent Patient, it states "depending on the circumstances into which we are born, and the house in which we grow up. A tormented, abused child can never take revenge in reality, as she is powerless and defenseless ... she can and must harbor vengeful fantasies in her imaginations, rage, like fear, is reactive." In the story it talks about how depending on how the child is treated it can really show how the child be in the future. This quote connects to "Allegedly" because, as we know, Mary did not grow up in good household and due to her abuse ]]> 2020-11-05 16:22:24 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894684954 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894687195  This connects to Allegedly because it talks about sexual abuse and it kind of sounds like when mary was talking about her step dad  and would say when he was done sexing her mom he would come for mary which put mary in alot of fear.]]> 2020-11-05 16:22:50 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894687195 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894688125 This connects to "allegedly" by having abuse. In Allegedly Mary was abused her whole life. "The silent patient" talks about how an abused child can never take revenge in reality. They are powerless and defenseless.]]> 2020-11-05 16:23:01 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894688125 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894693006 this connect to "allegedly" because we have the abuse point and growing up marry was abused by her parents. In the silent patience it says "]]> 2020-11-05 16:23:59 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894693006 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894698411 This connects to "allegedly" by mary being sexual abused her whole life. from her step dad and ]]> 2020-11-05 16:25:08 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894698411 mr129190 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894700182 This connects to Allegedly because in both "Excerpt from the Silent Patient" and "Allegedly" they both suffer & experience abuse and scary situations. ]]> 2020-11-05 16:25:30 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894700182 mt137080 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894701652 Both " The Silent Patient " and " Allegedly " are similar because they talk about the same things. For example Mary's step dad, Ray use to beat on her. She was scared to talk about the abuse. ]]> 2020-11-05 16:25:49 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894701652 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894709844 this connects to "allegedly" because it talks about the innocences of people and Mary was born innocent but the trama that is hidden inside of her from what her mother and her boyfriend put her through. Mary was put through a lot of stuff and now she's being represented as the bad guy. ]]> 2020-11-05 16:27:30 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894709844 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894724856 this can relate to allegedly because when mary and her mom]]> 2020-11-05 16:30:33 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894724856 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894725110 This connects to "allegedly" because its talking about abuse and in the book there was alot of abuse happening to mary. ]]> 2020-11-05 16:30:37 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/eep3f3vte0e4z5vt/wish/894725110