https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8 Think about a time you either witnessed, perpetuated or were impacted by a toxic rain cloud/form of oppression during your college years. What happened? Does it still impact you today? How? en-us 2021-06-08 00:39:41 UTC 2021-06-14 17:46:10 UTC hello@padlet.com cvpangelina https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605683344 Two different times at my undergraduate university I had white female presenting students ask me "how did you get into Cal?" and "do you really go to school hear?" based off the vernacular I was using on the phone with a cousin from home. The first time I was stopped in my tracks by how shocked I was to be asked that. The second time I responded with my own choice words.

]]> 2021-06-14 17:37:27 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605683344 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684237 Yes - extensive]]> 2021-06-14 17:37:52 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684237 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684423 2021-06-14 17:37:57 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684423 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684472 2021-06-14 17:37:58 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684472 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684909 2021-06-14 17:38:10 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684909 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684930 2021-06-14 17:38:10 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605684930 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685423 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:38:25 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685423 cljackson10 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685435 2021-06-14 17:38:25 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685435 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685502 2021-06-14 17:38:27 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685502 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685909 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:38:37 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685909 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685971 2021-06-14 17:38:39 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685971 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685996 2021-06-14 17:38:39 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605685996 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686198 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:38:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686198 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686429 2021-06-14 17:38:51 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686429 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686473 2021-06-14 17:38:52 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686473 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686477 No gender neutral bathrooms ]]> 2021-06-14 17:38:52 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686477 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686503 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:38:53 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686503 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686702 2021-06-14 17:38:58 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686702 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686800 2021-06-14 17:39:01 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686800 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686923 2021-06-14 17:39:04 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686923 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686990 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:06 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605686990 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687031 2021-06-14 17:39:07 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687031 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687217 2021-06-14 17:39:12 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687217 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687302 Anti blackness]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687302 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687350 In spades]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:16 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687350 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687436 Was on an interview committee, the chair of the committee joked and talked sports with the male candidate before the interview and not with the female candidate.]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:18 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687436 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687716 post 9/11 there was a lot of fear and hate directed towards a certain culture]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:24 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687716 zmolina1 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687731 mansplaining ]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:24 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687731 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687762 Not allowing my Spanish speaking friend write her journal responses in her language ]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:25 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687762 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687981 2021-06-14 17:39:31 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605687981 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688058 2021-06-14 17:39:33 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688058 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688185 2021-06-14 17:39:35 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688185 cvpangelina https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688321 I worked on a committee with a fellow male identified person and he was so unaware about the space he took up, especially when he would silence our female identified colleagues. I ended up having a pretty heated conversation with him about that and how his whiteness and bias came up in our work together...

]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:37 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688321 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688339 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:38 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688339 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688496 2021-06-14 17:39:43 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688496 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688809 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:51 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605688809 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689044 Noticing that there were never non-skinny cheerleaders ever ]]> 2021-06-14 17:39:57 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689044 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689239 Yes]]> 2021-06-14 17:40:02 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689239 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689617 2021-06-14 17:40:12 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689617 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689808 2021-06-14 17:40:17 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605689808 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690011 Students who are even one year “behind” feel like they’re already sidelined or  left behind. I felt this way in college as a transfer student and I observe students expressing these feelings now. I think of this kind of panic as a sort of internalized ageism, like if you’re older, you’re behind, you got off track somewhere, you messed up and have to prove your belonging again. This intersects with classism too because people with less money have less clear and direct paths to and through college ]]> 2021-06-14 17:40:21 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690011 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690377 witnessing vandalism on murals that honored and celebrated other identities and cultures]]> 2021-06-14 17:40:32 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690377 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690508 A group of white guys from the baseball team were drunk and harassing my friend asking was she a boy or girl ]]> 2021-06-14 17:40:35 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690508 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690748 2021-06-14 17:40:41 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690748 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690878 UCI had a racist anagram at the time.]]> 2021-06-14 17:40:44 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605690878 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691080 2021-06-14 17:40:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691080 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691081 2021-06-14 17:40:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691081 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691089 2021-06-14 17:40:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691089 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691248 Who do we study and why? The lack of interrogation by a prof and the unwillingness to engage with students when asked]]> 2021-06-14 17:40:55 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691248 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691691 2021-06-14 17:41:07 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691691 cvpangelina https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691715 I've witnessed second hand how misgendering folx from the trans experience has caused harm, and although the practice is to introduce our pronouns in new meeting spaces it often doesn't happen unless someone disrupts the space. I've had to do that many times as an ally and member of the LGBTQIA+ Community]]> 2021-06-14 17:41:08 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691715 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691725 Yes ]]> 2021-06-14 17:41:08 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605691725 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605692113 So much ]]> 2021-06-14 17:41:18 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605692113 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605692435 2021-06-14 17:41:27 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605692435 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605692681 2021-06-14 17:41:34 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605692681 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605693042 2021-06-14 17:41:44 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605693042 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605693113 Yes ]]> 2021-06-14 17:41:46 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605693113 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605693191 Harassment toward my queer friends for their public displays of affections (PDA) because they were queer]]> 2021-06-14 17:41:48 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605693191 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605694141 2021-06-14 17:42:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605694141 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605694371 Assumptions about the ability to afford access to class resources in a few courses]]> 2021-06-14 17:42:21 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605694371 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605694871 ^ I agree. Students who are 5th+ years are sometimes seen as too old to participate in student organizations]]> 2021-06-14 17:42:36 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605694871 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695103 2021-06-14 17:42:43 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695103 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695199 Toxic masculinity was a pervasive part of large-group socializing when I was an undergrad at UC Davis. Me and my closest female friends experienced sexual assaults, sexual harassment, being ruffied, and generally feeling unsafe around men at times. This behavior was pretty normalized and the problem was on women to cope with, not addressing the toxic culture. ]]> 2021-06-14 17:42:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695199 cvpangelina https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695238 I have experienced this first hand as a student and to see how oblivious white folx were to their benefit and exercise of whtie supremacy has definitely impacted how I trust them.]]> 2021-06-14 17:42:47 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695238 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695290 In every single critical theory grad seminar the patriarchy was thriving ]]> 2021-06-14 17:42:48 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605695290 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605696134 2021-06-14 17:43:12 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605696134 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605698047 Cis-male friend of mine pointed out masculine looking woman and talked about how ugly lesbians are - he didn't know I was gay.

]]> 2021-06-14 17:44:04 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605698047 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605699493 A terrible “class discussion” about the use of the n-word and a white presenting male arguing for anyone using it—the prof let it happen and never really properly facilitated the convo]]> 2021-06-14 17:44:44 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605699493 cvpangelina https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605701179 Always being assumed to be heterosexual based off appearance.]]> 2021-06-14 17:45:32 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605701179 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/e6k8khfmyhgdgac8/wish/1605702060 Friend was blackballed from fraternity for being gay

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