How were you helped when angry? by Jessica Rios https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k en-us 2024-02-05 20:28:29 UTC 2024-02-19 16:24:16 UTC hello@padlet.com Punished https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888328512 Usually reprimanded for "being angry for no reason"

]]> 2024-02-19 16:18:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888328512 dismissed by both parents, my problems were never big enough to be of concern to them. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888328642 2024-02-19 16:18:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888328642 TOLD I HAVE BIGGER PROBLEMS,ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS WORRY ABOUT SCHOOL. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329126 2024-02-19 16:18:54 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329126 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329149 Coached. Well my mom always listened to me and offered advice. She was always my listener. A lot of my friends also talked to her for advice since they didn't get any from their own parents.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:18:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329149 Sometimes Ignored https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329414 My problems were never "big enough" to be considered real problems.


As an adult I now understand that their problems were far greater than mine. But I just wanted someone to listen.


I became that person for my younger sisters and now students.


]]> 2024-02-19 16:19:12 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329414 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329535 Argue back and guilt trip

put down

dismiss

]]> 2024-02-19 16:19:20 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329535 Dismissed, ignored or changed subjects. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329613 2024-02-19 16:19:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329613 Punished or dismissed https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329682 Usually being told "Stop playing the victim"

]]> 2024-02-19 16:19:29 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329682 Half dismiss half coach. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329822 my dad was always dismissing my sad moments telling me to just be positive while my mom is more of a coach she talks me down from when I was overwhelmed with any "negative" emotion. My mom has always been my biggest mental health advocate. <3

]]> 2024-02-19 16:19:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329822 Dismissed https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329952 Told just to worry about my grades.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:19:48 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888329952 ignored and told to go to my room, or be mocked for feeling the way I did https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330067 2024-02-19 16:19:55 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330067 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330168 Given space to cool down.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:02 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330168 Coached https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330240 taught me how to manage my emotions and learn from my mistakes. really helped me when i felt anxious about a test or sporting event.


]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330240 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330492 made me feel more depress

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330492 Ignored https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330652 I grew up very poor. My mother worked three jobs and was busy surviving.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:29 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330652 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330667 Punished always!

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:30 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330667 dismissed.. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330694 we didnt really expressed who we felt, especially as kids, it seems not really important

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330694 Save, dismiss and coach https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330807 My mom was the only one in charge,plus she had to work a lot, so she did not have that much time to coach me.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:40 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330807 Dismissed https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330821 whenever I'd have a problem or I'd be in trouble with my parents, they'd ignore it like it wasn't a problem or tell me to go to my room


]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330821 punishment or dismissal https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330939 I did not have a huge parental presence, so I did not have to deal with a lot of issues because I dealt with them myself. However, when my parents got involved, I was either dismissed because it was not important to them, or I was punished for causing/having an issue in the first place.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:49 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888330939 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331027 Growing up we didn't really express our feelings.


]]> 2024-02-19 16:20:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331027 I was helped by my sister ,she talked me through a difficult situation. She helped me see it from a different point of view. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331345 2024-02-19 16:21:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331345 dismissed walk out and calf my self, then talk after . https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331631 2024-02-19 16:21:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331631 Dismissed https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331668 Parents were working and didn't have time.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:21:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888331668 Shut down by parents. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332188 2024-02-19 16:22:03 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332188 coached https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332386 a coworker told me to take a walk and go get some water if i was upset and breath and talk about the issue and solving the problem together

]]> 2024-02-19 16:22:12 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332386 dismissed , would get yelled at I would go to my room. never really expressed my feelings to my parents. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332419 2024-02-19 16:22:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332419 Ignored, Dismissed, or Punished https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332466 It seemed that whatever was going on, if it was upsetting to me, it was not big enough or valid to my parent to illicit positive feedback. It would usually upset them, anger them, to see me angry. So there was usually no resolution that came from them.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:22:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332466 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332572 my parents always helped to fix any problem that I had after I try fixing it myself and nothing worked

]]> 2024-02-19 16:22:20 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332572 not important https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332623 Was never a concern, we were taught to let it go and not talk about it.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:22:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888332623 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888333561 To calm down and breathe


]]> 2024-02-19 16:23:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888333561 Dismissed https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888333587 Never had my parents around too much and when they were I never felt like I could express how I really feel. Growing up I had to learn to deal with things on my own. I was my own help

]]> 2024-02-19 16:23:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888333587 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888334375 My dad was a alcoholic and wasn't around my mom raised me as a young teenager so she didn't have a lot of guidance so we argued a lot.

]]> 2024-02-19 16:24:11 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888334375 Walking away from the situation and taking time for myself. https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888334428 2024-02-19 16:24:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888334428 sometimes ignored and take time to think things https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888334445 2024-02-19 16:24:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888334445 https://padlet.com/jrios110/e4ovcbh7j71flr0k/wish/2888335239 Stepping away and taking time to breath and calm down

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