https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d en-us 2018-01-24 02:14:00 UTC 2018-01-29 19:07:41 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225795816 Cholly does need Mrs. Breedlove. He needs to not only claim a sense of dominance, but also vent his hatred for himself onto others. He has countless humiliating memories and blocks them out, always astounding himself at his outbursts that are residual from his repressed memories. Mrs. Breedlove is his muse and his encouragement.]]> 2018-01-29 18:48:17 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225795816 https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225796212 Mrs. Breedloves motivation for staying with cholly is the fights. These fights that they have give her entertainment and create distractions from her life. She believes that these fights give her a purpose in life. God put her with cholly for a reason and it’s her job to punish him. If she didn’t stay with cholly, they wouldn’t have these fights and she would not have a purpose in life. With these fights she feels like she has control over him and she can finally control something in her life. Her relationship with cholly in her eyes, makes her a stronger person.]]> 2018-01-29 18:49:04 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225796212 https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225800464 Cholly stays with Mrs. Breedlove because he needs somebody to channel his anger towards. Cholly has been traumatized with his past, turning him into a misogynist who wants to hurt others. Mrs. Breedlove is accessible, so he uses her to unleash his hatred. Without her, Cholly would not be himself and his needs would go unfulfilled, even if his “identity” is a violent and hating person.]]> 2018-01-29 18:55:54 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225800464 https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225800736 Cholly’s motivation for staying with Mrs. Breedlove is that he needs her as an outlet where he can channel his frustrations with himself. Traumatized by a multitude of “humiliations, defeats and esmasculations,” Cholly is a man left with the remnances of his pain. As a way to cope, he fights with the person closest to him: Mrs. Breedlove is his easiest target. This coping mechanism stems from his personal history of being degraded and disposed of by society, paralleling that of his outputting of emotions.]]> 2018-01-29 18:56:19 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225800736 https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225801190 Cholly needs someone to project his anger and frustration onto. Cholly feels inadequate and inferior to others because of his past embarrassments. Cholly does not want to take responsibility for any of his actions. He does not feel "man" enough so in order to have temporary satisfaction he causes fights and shows his masculinity through violence. ]]> 2018-01-29 18:57:03 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225801190 https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225801323 Mrs. Breedloves motivation for staying with Cholly is that it gives her life meaning. Without it her life would be boring and plain, with no excitement. The fights distract her from the problems she is facing in her life. She wants to punish him for what he has done. When punishing him she is saying that she feels like she is fulfilling her duties that God gave her. She thinks that the fights make her who she is and without them she isn’t anyone. ]]> 2018-01-29 18:57:19 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225801323 https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225802774 Mrs. Breedlove’s motivation for staying with Cholly is to find her own identity within herself. Mrs. Breedlove is known for Mrs. Breedlove, not any other name. Cholly Breedlove, in the other hand, is known by his first name Cholly, which gives him his identity to who he is. In the relationship, she is the punisher. The more drunk and the more lazy Cholly becomes, the more Mrs. Breedlove finds her true identity within herself to do what she needs to do in order to punish Cholly. She finds enjoyment with her life to be able to fight with Cholly and to keep her going to find herself. ]]> 2018-01-29 18:59:50 UTC https://padlet.com/michelsonkyle/dy8s4nynhh6d/wish/225802774