YOUR WEEK 3: SEXUALITIES by Britney https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s en-us 2021-12-11 10:09:45 UTC 2021-12-14 08:11:26 UTC hello@padlet.com INTIMACY AS A SPECTRUM britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1941597963 Traditional western values on relationships emphasizes a man and a woman living together in a nuclear family. However, since the 60s, many young people have transitioned into thinking about sex and relationships in a more liberated way. We are now talking about sex, learning about it, and feeling comfortable seeing it in all forms. Many different types of intimate relationships have emerged into the mainstream sphere that fall outside the heteronormative monogamous model. ]]> 2021-12-11 10:11:04 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1941597963 Polyamory britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943705054 It is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner with the informed consent of all partners involved. Polyamorous people often have a conscious management of jealousy and reject the view that monogamy is necessary for committed and loving relationships.]]> 2021-12-13 04:52:56 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943705054 Open Relationship britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943709975 An intimate relationship that is sexually non-monogamous. There is a primary intimate relationship between two partners who agree to having other sexual relationships with other people. ]]> 2021-12-13 04:57:51 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943709975 Monogamy britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943712958 The dominant perspective on relationships where an individual only has one partner at a time]]> 2021-12-13 05:00:40 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943712958 Friends with Benefits britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943722001 A sexual relationship between people who consider themselves to be platonic friends. These can be short term relationships or it can evolve into serious romantic relationships ]]> 2021-12-13 05:10:01 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943722001 A Hookup britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943729317 As hookup culture becomes more prominent, this is a purely sexual relationship that falls outside a friendship or a romantic relationship. "Hooking up" is a broad term that can refer to a one-night stand or a multiple sexual encounter with one person type of relationship. Hookup culture is popular with adolescents and young adults that can be used for instant physical gratification or as a means of finding a long-term romantic partner]]> 2021-12-13 05:17:20 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943729317 Online Dating & Gendered Racial Preferences britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943739433 This graphic shows the percentage of people on a dating app who responded to a "yes" based on the gender and ethnicities of both parties. The findings seen in this graphic can be further unpacked by discussing the social contexts of race and gender.]]> 2021-12-13 05:27:35 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943739433 Black women and Asian men having the highest percentage of rejections britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943752816 This phenomena can be explained by looking at the constructs of masculinity and femininity and its relationship to race. The dominant gendered hegemony views masculinity being associated to men and femininity being associated to women. Stereotypes surrounding Asian men include submissiveness, lacking sex appeal, soft, and feminine. On the other hand, the stereotypes surrounding Black women include aggressiveness, dominance, and independence. This creates an intersectional polarity between gender and race where having two marginalized identities at the same time, resulting in as being seen as "undesirable". ]]> 2021-12-13 05:41:12 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943752816 britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943753186 2021-12-13 05:41:38 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943753186 White men having the highest response rate britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943759488 Being both white and a male are two identities that placed on top of the social hierarchy. A heterosexual cisgendered white male is the blueprint of what a "normal" human being should be. It is not surprising that white men would be the most desirable on a dating app. ]]> 2021-12-13 05:48:47 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943759488 britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943759839 2021-12-13 05:49:10 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943759839 britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943760488 2021-12-13 05:49:56 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943760488 Asian women having the highest response rate britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943772109 The fetishization of Asian women is seen as something prominent since Asian women are associated with stereotypes associated with femininity on a high level such as being submissive, soft, and polite. Asian women are objectified and favored for inherently embodying femininity. ]]> 2021-12-13 06:02:30 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943772109 britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943772273 2021-12-13 06:02:43 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943772273 Rape Culture britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943783922 Rape culture promotes the stereotype that men are inherently sexually aggressive and women are naturally vulnerable to men. Female genitalia is seen as a passive and delicate object when male genitalia is something that is "rock hard" and is used to "smash" or "pound". These notions glamorizes rape and justifies instances of sexual violence. ]]> 2021-12-13 06:15:02 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943783922 1) Taking off condom mid intercourse without the other partner knowing britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943786213 2021-12-13 06:17:11 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943786213 2.) Using a safe word when exploring different sexual fetishes britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943788517 2021-12-13 06:19:11 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943788517 3) One person does not say no to sexual advancements but is also under the influence of alcohol/substances britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943790362 2021-12-13 06:20:57 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943790362 4) Someone wearing revealing clothing means they were obviously asking for it britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943791897 2021-12-13 06:22:14 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943791897 5) They said no at first but agreed after I heavily persuaded them britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943793174 2021-12-13 06:23:28 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943793174 6) Asking for permission before enacting any form of sexual activity britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943794892 2021-12-13 06:24:51 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943794892 7) Periodically checking in with your partner, such as asking "Is this still okay?" britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943795790 2021-12-13 06:25:44 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943795790 10) They said no but they have a visible erection/lubrication. britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943797001 2021-12-13 06:26:48 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943797001 9) Someone who is sexually into pain (masochist) expressing a desire to be slapped during intercourse and partner agrees britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943799986 2021-12-13 06:29:27 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943799986 8) Confirming there is reciprocal interest before initiating any physical touch britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943802271 2021-12-13 06:31:38 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943802271 ANSWERS britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943810359 CONSENSUAL 
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1, 3, 4, 5, 10]]> 2021-12-13 06:39:09 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943810359 britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943816629 In order for a scenario to be considered consensual sex, all parties must be in agreement both prior to the sexual activity and throughout. If an individual does not agree to it, is inebriated, and/or feels forced/coerced, they do not consent to the sexual advancement making it rape.]]> 2021-12-13 06:44:41 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1943816629 INTERACTIVE britneyshok https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1946403033 For this activity, you will place each scenario in the categories of either consensual or rape. ]]> 2021-12-14 08:10:34 UTC https://padlet.com/britneyshok/drzl4ih213fr8b4s/wish/1946403033