Why doesn't the conversation go well? by María Del Pilar Ferrón https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra en-us 2022-11-14 19:04:06 UTC 2022-11-14 19:38:39 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f9d0.png https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383515581 Hi! Ola!

]]> 2022-11-14 19:28:09 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383515581 She may have made too many assumptions about how the conversation would go. https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383519677 2022-11-14 19:31:04 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383519677 https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383521803
  • Emotions running high
  • Don Draper has been drinking (not a clear mind)
  • “You” statements vs. “I” statements
  • A lot of blaming which makes people defensive
  • Shouting
  • Peggy is looking for acknowledgment and that request doesn’t come until
  • Lack of recognition
  • Threats from both sides
  • Important to explicitly express your needs (the other person isn’t a wizard)


    • ]]>     2022-11-14 19:32:33 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383521803     There wasn't much empathy in the conversation. https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383522783 2022-11-14 19:33:16 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383522783 Group 2 https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383522892 -She tries passive aggressive tactics to get the recognition she ultimately desires
    -When it doesn't work she attacks to get a response from him
    -He starts by trying to minimize the issue / down-playing them
    -Ends up threatening her and going on the defense because she was attacking
    -Turns the conversation about him when it wasn't
    -They both let the emotions run the conversations
    -He got defensive, told her what to do and pushed back rather than listening]]>     2022-11-14 19:33:21 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383522892     Personal things between them are too intense. https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383522925 2022-11-14 19:33:23 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383522925 https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383523043 Peggy being passive aggressive
    Don not making safe space, lack of empathy
    Combatative tone from both
    Lots of ego, fighting for positioning
    Peggy feels under appreciated and unrecognized
    Gender politics at play
    DON IS TOXIC old guard mentality, invalidating Peggy (I went through this so you have to, too)
    ]]>     2022-11-14 19:33:27 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383523043     Peggy never got an apology and her feelings were not heard. https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383524739 They both started the conversation from a too personal starting point and it involved drinking and a late night so they are exhausted and under the influence. 
    He makes her feel small by comparing her worth to money. 
    The egos were very big. 
    Don expects her to be working over time. 
    They both were passive aggressive and didn't discuss the real issues. 
    They both used fear instead of empathy ]]>     2022-11-14 19:34:39 UTC https://padlet.com/pilar120/dqinem2jokti7hra/wish/2383524739