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      <title>Wedding Costs and Planning  by Julan Semm</title>
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      <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:20:10 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Introduction</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Welcome to my wall on weddings costs and planning. Here you will find topics such as dismissive costs, rationale of costs, methods of savings, and budgeting tips. Through the various articles, videos, and posts, you will find everything you need to know before you start planning for your big day. Hopefully, this will get you to think wisely when selecting wedding services to ensure that costs do not spiral out of control.  </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:22:24 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Website #1: How to create a wedding budget </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>To create a wedding budget, people should take steps to: <br><mark>1. </mark><strong><mark>Discuss </mark></strong></div><div>Talk to your spouse-to-be about everything in regards to the wedding. It is important that you are both on the same page so that you are working as a team to create the vision. <strong><mark>2. Budget</mark></strong><strong> </strong></div><div>Involve all contributing parties for the wedding to address financial contributions. <br><strong><mark>3. Prioritize </mark></strong></div><div>Make a list of must-haves and prioritize those before anything else.  <br><strong><mark>4. Organize </mark></strong></div><div>Stay on top of the budget to ensure that you are not overspending. </div><div><br></div><div>People tend to get caught up in the glamorous parts of planning a wedding and oftentimes overspend. I chose this website because it is useful in providing soft skill recommendations on how to start a wedding budget. Therefore, people can figure out what they have to spend before settling on things they cannot afford. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:23:30 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Website #2: Wedding plan checklist and timeline </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><strong><mark>12 months out</mark></strong></div><ul><li>Determine your budget </li><li>Make a guest-list </li><li>Hire a wedding planner </li><li>Decide formality and overall theme </li><li>Select the venue and caterer </li></ul><div><strong><mark>11 months out</mark></strong></div><ul><li>Choose colour theme and start thinking of overall design </li><li>Hire photographer, band, DJ, videographer</li></ul><div><strong><mark>10 months out</mark></strong> </div><ul><li>Start shopping for your wedding dress </li><li>Book hotel room blocks for guests </li><li>Create wedding website </li><li>Take engagement photos </li><li>Start looking at invitation </li></ul><div><strong><mark>9 months out</mark></strong> </div><ul><li>Buy your wedding dress</li><li>Send save-the-dates </li></ul><div><strong><mark>8 months out </mark></strong></div><ul><li>Register for gifts </li><li>Select the bridesmaids dresses and schedule fittings for the month </li><li>Meet with potential florists </li></ul><div><strong><mark>7 months out</mark></strong> </div><ul><li>Book the rehearsal-dinner venue </li><li>Hire ceremony musicians</li><li>Order rental items (i.e. linens, draping, etc) </li><li>Hire an officiant  </li></ul><div><strong><mark>6 months out </mark></strong></div><ul><li>Hire a lighting technician </li></ul><div><strong><mark>5 months out</mark></strong></div><ul><li>Book transportation for guests, if needed </li><li>Book the bride and grooms transportation </li><li>Book the honeymoon </li><li>Buy or rent the grooms tuxedo </li><li>Begin premarital counseling </li></ul><div><strong><mark>4 months out </mark></strong></div><ul><li>Have your final tasting with the caterer </li><li>Choose your cake </li><li>Buy wedding bands </li><li>Select groomsmen attire and schedule fittings for the month </li><li>Hair and makeup trial </li></ul><div><strong><mark>3 months out</mark></strong> </div><ul><li>Order invitations and hire calligrapher </li><li>Create or plan the menu </li><li>Brainstorm guest favours and gift bags </li><li>Book a photo-booth rental </li><li>Write vows </li><li>Select readings </li><li>Meet with officiant and invite him/her to the rehearsal dinner </li></ul><div><strong><mark>2 months out</mark></strong> </div><ul><li>Send the wedding and rehearsal dinner invitations </li><li>First dress fitting </li><li>Pick up marriage license</li><li>Buy wedding party gifts </li><li>Do a floral mock-up with your florist </li><li>Give song selections to the band/DJ and ceremony musicians </li><li>Buy all small items </li></ul><div><strong><mark>1 month out </mark></strong></div><ul><li>Assemble gift bags </li><li>Pay vendors in full </li><li>Create a seating chart </li><li>Order or make escort and place cards </li><li>Have a final venue walk-through </li><li>Put cash in tip-envelopes for your planner/delegate to distribute </li><li>Break in your wedding shoes </li></ul><div><br></div><div>The whole process of planning a wedding is generally very stressful and can be overwhelming. I chose this website because it provides a solid starting point for someone to use to get their wedding planning process started. Obviously, not everything will be applicable to everyone, but the steps should be used at the discretion of the individual(s). Compared to other checklists and timelines, this article gave a monthly breakdown as opposed to a list of “to-dos”. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:28:16 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Website #3: How much does a wedding cost in Canada? </title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The average price Canadians thought was realistic for a wedding was $8,937 when the average cost cost ended up being $30,717. To break it down, some of the costs were averaged and estimated to be: </div><ul><li>50% of the budget going towards the venue, food and bar, and event staff </li><li>2 - 3 tier wedding cake: $600 </li><li>Experienced DJ: $1,750 </li><li>Photo Booth rentals: $400-$600 for 3 hours of service </li><li>Photography and videography: $5000-$8000 </li></ul><div>I thought this website was useful in showing the importance of being realistic with your budgeting; especially for an event as big as a wedding. Due to the status that a wedding holds in society, pricing tends to be high and rigid. Therefore, the costs to host a wedding will likely be more than you are willing to pay. This website is particularly good in providing average prices for different wedding expenses in Canada so people are better able to accurately budget. <br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:31:35 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Website #4: 15 things I wish I knew before I started planning my wedding</title>
         <author>julanjunkk</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The author of this article mentions the unexpected circumstances that many people fail to discuss when planning a wedding. Therefore, the planning process becomes easier when you become aware of both the obvious and unpublicized situations. To be specific, the circumstances being referred to are: </div><ul><li>You won’t be able to stop talking about your wedding </li><li>A lot happens during the beginning and ending of the planning process</li><li>You should make a new email if you plan on going to a wedding expo </li><li>People ask about pregnancy plans before the wedding day </li><li>You will start speaking the “wedding language” </li><li>Everyone will give you advice </li><li>You will compare your wedding to others </li><li>It’s your big day, but not completely </li><li>You will get caught up in at least one unnecessary thing </li><li>You will second guess any big decision regardless of how much you love it </li><li>It is better to not show off your wedding dress before the big day  </li><li>A lot of unexpected fees </li><li>Someone close to you will get weird</li><li>Wedding planning is a lot of fun </li></ul><div>When people go through the wedding planning process, common areas such as costly expenses and advance booking are automatically thought about. This article is particularly useful because it brings light onto elements that are not generally thought about. As an example, casual weddings tend to be harder to plan and are more expensive than the traditional type.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:35:15 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Video #1: Why are weddings so damn expensive?</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Weddings are typically really expensive because of wedding markups, asymmetric information, and the “once in a lifetime” mentality. Some vendors charge a higher price for weddings than for other similar parties. Asymmetric information suggests that the familiarity with a market produces balanced information between buyers and sellers so they can settle on a fair price. With the lack of consumer experience in the wedding industry, most people do not have a good idea on what is an acceptable price. Lastly, the “once in a lifetime” mentality makes it hard not to splurge when you put so much weight into one day. </div><div><br></div><div>This video is important in allowing people to understand the rationale behind the costs of a wedding. As an example, the emotional weight attached to weddings usually results in more work for the vendors. Hence, there is a tendency for higher prices. The bride and groom will then be able to have reason to justify the costs associated. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:53:00 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Video #2: How to save money on your wedding!</title>
         <author>julanjunkk</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>To save money on your wedding, it can be useful to decide what three things are most important to you and focus on them. All other expenses and their costs associated can be up for debate. Also, you can take respectful advantage of your friends skills and resources. For instance, you may have a sibling who bakes and can do your wedding cake. This will allow you to cut costs and honour the people closest to you.</div><div><br></div><div>With the wedding industrial complex being such a luxury market, it does not factor in the financial health of its clientele. Therefore, it can be difficult to find areas to save when the majority of wedding services are overpriced. For individuals who have a tighter budget, this will help couples prioritize their money for other investments such as a down payment for a house.  As an example, a suggestion was to purchase a 2 tier cake for the wedding and the rest can be from Costco. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:55:18 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Video #3: The number one wedding budget killer!</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>80% of a wedding budget is affected by the number of people you invite. The wedding planner in this video came up with the cost per guest for the average event: $90.20.   </div><div>Items that are affected by your guest count includes:</div><ul><li>Chairs </li><li>Tables including linen costs</li><li>Utensils</li><li>Napkins</li><li>Classware</li><li>China </li><li>Centerpieces </li><li>Appetizers </li><li>Meal</li><li>Desserts </li><li>Booze</li><li>Favours</li><li>Invitations</li></ul><div>Most people do not correlate the number of guests to the costs and end up inviting more people than they can afford. This can result in difficulties making a smaller budget work when you have so many people to factor in. The wedding planner in this video made it evident by breaking down <strong><mark>some</mark></strong> of the costs associated for each guest. With all of the components that need to be included for each guest, it is important to be aware of the amount of people being invited.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 22:57:32 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Video #4: Money Monitor: How wedding costs can spiral out of control</title>
         <author>julanjunkk</author>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Prices come to be a shock if you have never planned or talked to someone who has had experience with the wedding process. Working with a wedding planner who has experience can help manage the budget and expectations. Some factors that contribute to out of budget expenses are that:  </div><div><br></div><ul><li>Venues cost a lot because of the hidden fees </li><li>People oftentimes forget about the cost of transportation, audio/visual needs, and lighting</li><li>Flowers cost more than what people usually expect </li></ul><div><br></div><div>Personally, I think this video is valuable because it suggests reasons as to why weddings costs exceed one’s budget. Due to the lack of experience and knowledge on the industry, people will end up settling on costs that are overpriced. Since the video pinpoints areas that largely affect costs, you are then more aware of finding options before settling. By knowing things such as hidden fees, people can come up with a more realistic budget without surpassing their budget too much. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 23:01:18 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Image #1</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The other posts have mentioned hidden fees for venues but fail to provide other areas where fees also apply. If necessary, there may need to be wedding dress alterations or hair and make up trial runs that need to be included in the budget. By not knowing additional hidden fees, budgets cannot be accurately made without it inflating in cost. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 23:03:45 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Image #2</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I thought that this picture shows a different perspective on wedding costs. All the other articles and videos have talked about the traditional North American wedding and the costs associated. However, not everyone will go through that type of wedding so costs will vary based on culture too. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 23:09:52 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Reflective Questions</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div><mark>1. </mark><strong><mark>What did you learn about your topic that surprised you the most?</mark></strong></div><div>From researching this assignment, I think the most surprising thing was learning the expected wedding cost versus the actual average cost. For the most part, I knew that weddings are a big investment for most couples. However, I had no idea that costs ended up being triple the amount initially thought out. <br><strong><mark>2.Provide a real-life example of how this topic is relevant or interesting for you.</mark></strong></div><div>For cultural weddings, I think this content is especially relevant because some can go on for multiple days. As an example, I went to a Pakistani wedding that was three days back to back. Costs were outrageous because of the elements added and length of the wedding.  For those cases, it is important to understand the importance of costs to avoid being extremely in-debt. <strong><mark>3. If you could pass on your knowledge to a family member or friend, what do you think is the most important thing to pass on?</mark></strong></div><div>I feel that the most important piece of knowledge to pass down is to be aware and research all supplemental costs associated with wedding services. In doing so, you are going to be more prepared to create an accurate budget as well as avoid any surprising fees.  </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2019-11-25 23:11:37 UTC</pubDate>
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