https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp Made with a wish on a star en-us 2021-05-21 15:54:43 UTC 2021-08-09 10:05:14 UTC hello@padlet.com tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548233337 2021-05-21 15:55:09 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548233337 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548238985 How can we encourage youths to take bullying seriously?]]> 2021-05-21 15:56:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548238985 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548240162 2021-05-21 15:56:51 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548240162 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548244087 My grandfather felt that all guys should stand up for themselves, and I agree with him

]]> 2021-05-21 15:57:45 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548244087 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548244680 I agree, life is like that, we must accept it and move on, in a better way than before

]]> 2021-05-21 15:57:54 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548244680 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548245133 My classmates are all taller and bigger than me, so i was an easy target for the bully

]]> 2021-05-21 15:58:01 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548245133 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548245591 Not only did they just stand there and watch, but others also joined in and started beating me up

]]> 2021-05-21 15:58:08 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548245591 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548247927 The bystander effect is when nobody is stepping in, so nobody feels the need to do it

]]> 2021-05-21 15:58:41 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548247927 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548249054 Bystanders can either encourage or halt the bully's behaviour

]]> 2021-05-21 15:58:56 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548249054 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548250485 bullies will most likely bully due to problems in their environment/ upbringing

]]> 2021-05-21 15:59:16 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548250485 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548251024 school should raise awareness to decrease bullying. it's one of the key solutions and it applies to everyone

]]> 2021-05-21 15:59:24 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548251024 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548251517 To Clusters & Insights

]]> 2021-05-21 15:59:31 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548251517 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548259337 1. I need to be more prepared. 

2. I need support from my peers/others

3. I need more time to recover]]> 2021-05-21 16:01:31 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548259337 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548263403 2021-05-21 16:02:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1548263403 simenqi962 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564413600 a classmate of mine got bullied but she kept being nice to the bullies

]]> 2021-05-27 08:11:52 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564413600 simenqi962 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564414355 all i could do was console her and told her to stop being nice to them as nothing will change and just ignore them

]]> 2021-05-27 08:12:15 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564414355 simenqi962 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564415041 i feel the bullies did it out of impressing people or seeming cool or out of pride

]]> 2021-05-27 08:12:34 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564415041 ianlow08 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564421504 I was bullied but it was just a short moment though, because they usually just play around until I lashed out then they stop. Just a few exchanges of words & we went our ways.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:16:07 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564421504 ianlow08 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564425744 I believe people that bully right, they feel very inferior to others, so to feel superior, they pick people whose more weaker than them.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:18:18 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564425744 simenqi962 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564426937 I think when you’re growing up  that’s when your environmental factors play in. If you’re still growing up, having a bully would really affect your view on life and things like that

]]> 2021-05-27 08:18:54 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564426937 simenqi962 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564429937 Once I didn’t like this girl in Primary 3 and I ostracized her and my teacher told me about my actions.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:20:24 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564429937 khaliqathari https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564436726 I know a friend who witness bullying. Apparently I both knew the victim & the bully are her friends but somehow have bad blood between each other.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:24:00 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564436726 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564438669 people become bully cause of getting to know bad influence friend getting into gang member and making them feel very cool when bullying people. or they have anger problem and using their anger to put on people to release their anger.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:25:01 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564438669 simenqi962 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564439330 Once she told me, i realized what I was doing was wrong and I immediately changed in the sense that I was still clear about what’s wrong and what’s right at that age

]]> 2021-05-27 08:25:24 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564439330 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564440425 Due to parent not giving enough attention to children. children might watch show that containing violence and making them to learn from the scene and treat the same way from people in the scene. 

]]> 2021-05-27 08:26:00 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564440425 khaliqathari https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564443622 friend gotten bully because he was a easy target since he was a small and unconfident boy

]]> 2021-05-27 08:27:42 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564443622 ianlow08 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564444388 Depending on how severe the situation is, I may step in to help out if both parties start to get into a real fight.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:28:07 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564444388 khaliqathari https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564447256 Because of her charisma between the two, she is able to diffuse the situation. She does not know the actually reason why these bullying happen but she knew her friend who was victimized has autism.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:29:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564447256 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564447422 some bystander does not wanna help is reason because is very troublesome and can waste a lot of time  and going to police station to get interview  if the victim report to police 

]]> 2021-05-27 08:29:39 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564447422 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564449883 Gotten bully because of his big size . The bully would go pinch his stomach.. because  also being to friendly and people taking advantage ]]> 2021-05-27 08:30:55 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564449883 khaliqathari https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564450094 If it could to happen to anyone else other than her friends, she would more likely do the same as diffusing the situation. Under some circumstances, the victims will the one suffering at the end of the day regardless of age.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:31:02 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564450094 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564453464 My friend gotten bully because due to his small size and having a lot of cash in wallet cause the bully to target him and dragging him to the back and taking away his cash 

]]> 2021-05-27 08:32:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564453464 ianlow08 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564456679 There are some bystanders who do not want to get involved because they do not want to get hurt or want any trouble.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:34:25 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564456679 khaliqathari https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564456780 She hopes that her action will inspire others to do the same to avoid any bullying to happen

]]> 2021-05-27 08:34:27 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564456780 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564460651 if went to help friend stop getting bully or complaining to teacher. the bully will find you trouble. because u stopped them and they will come and seek revenge

]]> 2021-05-27 08:36:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564460651 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564465707 I was still quite shy back then so I didn’t really interact a lot ]]> 2021-05-27 08:39:06 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564465707 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564466257 struggled a lot w self-esteem issues ]]> 2021-05-27 08:39:23 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564466257 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564466763 pretty devastated, was super sad because I struggled a lot w self-esteem issues back then and it didn’t help at all ]]> 2021-05-27 08:39:40 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564466763 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564468584 got even more miserable after that because I realised I wasn’t as pretty as the other girls in sports camp which was not true but back then I didn’t know better ]]> 2021-05-27 08:40:41 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564468584 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564469340 did not ask why her batchmates did not like her]]> 2021-05-27 08:41:07 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564469340 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564469869 forgiveness is not for the sake of others but for the sake of yourself ]]> 2021-05-27 08:41:21 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564469869 ianlow08 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564470188 We can spread awareness about bullying on social media as most youths uses it to post their own things.

]]> 2021-05-27 08:41:30 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564470188 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564470352 so I have to learn how to come to terms with what they said and how what they say doesn’t define who I am]]> 2021-05-27 08:41:36 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564470352 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564470937 there was nothing physical cuz I was in wushu like they couldn’t possibly physically bully me ]]> 2021-05-27 08:41:52 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564470937 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564471274 I mean like the thing about bullying Is once it starts and then you don’t stop it, it just keeps going on and on ]]> 2021-05-27 08:42:03 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564471274 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564471737 because they think you’re easy to bully but if you do something in the first few times they’ll probably get scared I think. JUST ALWAYS LEARN SELF DEFENCE ]]> 2021-05-27 08:42:17 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564471737 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564472226 I would’ve stood up but me back then I was still so young and insecure then when they bullied me I thought that I deserved it]]> 2021-05-27 08:42:33 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564472226 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564472806 I told my friends lah but then what can they do it’s just a way of like releasing]]> 2021-05-27 08:42:50 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564472806 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564473672 bullying kinda changes you as a person like for me I got bullied for being myself I guess and some part of me was like very unjust about it and it made me want to be myself even more and it made me even angrier like it just made me a lot tougher ]]> 2021-05-27 08:43:19 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564473672 itsboonkeong https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564482235 nowadays people tend not to help bullying incident instead just standing aside recording the incident posting it online. making the bullying going more extensive]]> 2021-05-27 08:47:40 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564482235 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564490233 Cluster #1: Why are victims bullied

Insight: The victim is an easy target (fat, low self esteem, etc)

Insight: They do not know how to respond]]> 2021-05-27 08:51:50 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564490233 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564563688 Cluster #2: Role of bystanders

Insight: As of now, bystanders do nothing (too afraid, don't want to create more trouble)

Insight: Bystanders responding based on how they view the situation/how they see fit]]> 2021-05-27 09:33:42 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564563688 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564573327 being a bystander makes you equally bad as the bully because you’re not doing anything as its equivalent to not helping, the reason the bystander is so popular is because it’s just so hard to take action as it’s hard when you don’t have like a solid backing and you don’t know if you’re going to end up getting bullied when you try to stand up ]]> 2021-05-27 09:39:27 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564573327 chiafj7 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564576010 its always family problems because when you’re born you’re like a blank sheet of paper then your parents fill you up so if you become a bully it’s usually something going wrong at home ]]> 2021-05-27 09:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564576010 tanlinus456 https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564576940 Cluster #3: The effects of bullying on the victim

Insight: the victim feels devastated, negative impact on their mental health

Insight: as time passes, the victim will be motivated to better themselves (gain more confidence, become mentally and physically stronger)]]> 2021-05-27 09:41:21 UTC https://padlet.com/tanlinus456/djx9m3pob9ozgctp/wish/1564576940