Why do we date people?

Do you ever feel controlled or influenced?

What do you want from our relationship going forward?

Is there something you can’t stand about me that can be changed?

What does a healthy relationship mean to you?

What can improve our relationship?

What are your biggest fears in this relationship?

What do you hold yourself accountable for? Name the things you hold yourself responsible for.

Are there outside influences that may affect your view of our relationship and everything we do together?

Is there anything you think you’re not getting from this relationship?

How does peer pressure affect your view of our relationship, good or bad?

Pain me a picture of what your ideal relationship looks like.

Do you feel heard and are you safe in this relationship?

Let’s talk about honesty and communication.

What are some of the things we can do to improve?

Do you want us to create our commandments to follow so we are guided?

What is love to you and what is it for?

We do meet and disagree, but we can list things out (likes and dislikes). 

How do we structure our relationship moving forward (Holding each other accountable)?

Let’s talk about social media, holidays, and other celebrations. (discuss and talk about your expectations)

Lack of understanding between each other

Developing toxic tendencies

Loss of safety & trust