Communication by EUN Partnership aisbl

non violent

2022-09-26 15:27:10 UTC

I listen to you
I feel you
Vicky

Your words and feelings matter

2022-09-26 17:34:29 UTC

alexandraionsoare — 2022-09-26 19:05:13 UTC

-Madam, my colleague, X, is such an annoying person!
-Non violent: Hey, X, I can't concentrate when you are talking too loud

rominamarchesani2 — 2022-09-26 19:37:31 UTC

I am here for you, ready to listen to you and if you need help I am right here!!!

Negative: I can't stand X or Y - Positive: X or Y's behaviour bothers me

2022-09-26 19:52:42 UTC

common statement

2022-09-27 08:11:58 UTC

Negative: I don't want to socialize with others in brakes.
Positive: Find your own corner of peace and share it with others!

example of aggressive/non aggressive communication

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Student to teacher: Your assessment rubric is wrong and I don't deserve this evaluation. If you don't change my mark, I'll complain with the headteacher with my parents' help.
Non aggressive communication: Excuse me, can you explain why you used this assessment rubric and the meaning of its indicators?Can you explain to me which my worst mistakes are?

Examples

2022-09-27 10:45:56 UTC

Negative: He is annoying me!
Positive: I do not agree with his behaviour so I will remove myself from the situation.

friendly Communication

GabrielaAiordachioaie — 2022-09-27 12:29:22 UTC

I listen my friend, i give a smille, i feel His

Tsigara Sofia

sotsigara — 2022-09-27 17:25:49 UTC

I don't want to play with you.
Now I want to play with other friend, can I play with you later?

Victoria

katsigianniv — 2022-09-27 17:27:08 UTC

"Do you want to discuss about?
I have time to listen you!

Adriana , Albania

adrianalaze — 2022-09-27 18:17:17 UTC

I say to my students often : Just give positivity and love to each other , communicate to each other. Get out the word " hate " by your vocabulary and you have a done a big honor to your self.

Biljana

2022-09-28 10:50:06 UTC

Tolerance and mutual respect in communication, listening to the interlocutor and only after he finishes speaking we speak, so culture first of all.

Your words and feelings matter

2022-09-28 14:01:20 UTC

Example versions:KalliopiTzifa,Greece

2022-09-28 16:33:33 UTC

"You always make mistakes."
(NVC):When someone makes a mistake,it is common and natural,you should feel everyone makes mistakes,but it's part of learning.I want you to keep on trying.I would appreciate that,because" the more mistakes you make,the more you learn".

Daniela O., Romania

daniela_orasanu — 2022-09-28 17:31:24 UTC

You didn't do very well on your homework today. What do you think we can do to make you more responsible?
I can see you are upset. May I help you?
You are very happy today. Let's enjoy it

Academic shaming

2022-09-29 08:37:31 UTC

negative: everyone did better than you in the exam, you got the worst mark
positive: talk to the student privately saying that you appreciate his efforts, but he didn't do well, so you can offer him help if he doesn't understand something.

Sofia, Greece

2022-09-29 12:11:51 UTC

Veru common between kindergarteners
Negative: This is a smudge.
Poritive: Nice drawing. Tell me what it is depicting.

Duca Ludmila

ducala2020 — 2022-09-29 13:52:01 UTC

We speak in turn, we listen to the discussion partner, we have patience for him to finish the thought.

2022-09-29 14:16:14 UTC

Practice speaking in verse, learn many more poems and cite them when the case

Non violent examples

pinazilic2 — 2022-09-29 16:59:26 UTC

Negative: Expressing an opposing attitude and complaining. Filling anger...
Positive: Accepting a different opinion and changing the focus on the activity we are doing. Sing along and relax...

Martina S

martinasalamon — 2022-09-29 17:23:08 UTC

I can see that you can't sit still the whole time. I understand that it's hard for you to now swing on the chair. Is there something else that you could use as a fidget to keep you focused? (Giving him a mini majorett stick for fidgeting). I hope this will help. Please use it in my class and try to not hurt yourself by falling off the chair.

Ina, Portugal

inamarques — 2022-09-30 08:22:19 UTC

When everybody wants the same toy... Can we agree on taking turns? Let's make a chart to give everyone the possibility to play with it in equal time.

Mohácsi Dzsenifer

2022-09-30 08:37:24 UTC

The girl want a same boy

Susana, Portugal

2022-09-30 20:38:44 UTC

By mastering an art of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), we will have greater authenticity in communication, greater understanding, and ease of conflict resolution.

Inese

inesevancane — 2022-10-01 12:22:15 UTC

If there is an argument in the class, I always remind that you together are as a strong fist-you can protect yourselves, help each other=one for all, all for one!

Bernarda, Slovenia

2022-10-01 13:51:21 UTC

I will never get a good grade in math. Positive would be: I need some help developing good skills to learn efficently.
Don t swear. - Use nice words.
You are stupid - I don t agree with your arguments.

Chiara Girolami

2022-10-01 23:50:06 UTC

Say "I am sorry" when you are wrong.
Take care of your class.
Say "Thank you" when someone is helping you.
Try to put yourself in others' shoes.

v.dogani

2022-10-02 11:03:46 UTC

say sorry if you make a mistake
it does not matter

Maria José Bartolomé. Nice communication

2022-10-02 18:18:36 UTC

I try my students, adult or teenagers respect the turns in order to talk to each other and I always avoid the use of nicknames.

marcyro — 2022-10-02 20:13:18 UTC

I don't want to do my homework - When you don't do your homework I feel sad because I want you to practice more.

Fátima Veríssimo, Portugal

fatimaverissimo1 — 2022-10-03 12:08:25 UTC

When a student has a negative test score, I try to understand the reasons. I talk to the student so that they reflect on their assessment. I ask them to reinforce their learning rules, such as paying attention in class, clarifying their doubts and setting their goals.

József, Hungary

2022-10-03 15:44:06 UTC

Give me a pen

Could you give me a pen?

Liubovi, violent communication

2022-10-04 18:22:06 UTC

I don't need this
But who are you for me to respect you? (student-student)
Shut up!

Kocsis Norbert

2022-10-05 15:56:37 UTC

Give me a pen

someone finish the homework?

Speak up if you need help

2022-10-07 19:07:34 UTC

if you are hungry, i will give you food

2022-10-07 19:18:36 UTC

Stefania, Italy

2022-10-08 16:14:50 UTC

Can you try again? I'm here!

Marija J., Croatia

marija_novoselic — 2022-10-10 17:43:35 UTC

Say sorry if when you are wrong and thank you when someone is kind and help to you.

Dylan B.

2022-10-11 09:03:03 UTC

Do you want to talk about it?

If I can, I will help you

2022-10-15 06:30:59 UTC

i will love you if you need the love

2022-10-24 16:02:58 UTC

david

2022-10-24 20:19:01 UTC

Can you try again? I m here

every one have mistekes but not everyone resolves them

2023-02-26 10:40:35 UTC

Help others and help yourself

2023-04-20 09:34:43 UTC

elia, spain

2023-05-01 17:27:23 UTC

try to ask the exercises and they don't listen to you

help others

2023-05-01 18:35:56 UTC

help others

2023-05-24 16:34:39 UTC

2023-05-25 10:17:09 UTC

i listen to you