FINE... So, how are you really doing? by Melanie Dunlop https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8 en-us 2019-04-15 18:00:43 UTC 2019-04-17 19:16:05 UTC hello@padlet.com Write an emotion that someone might be hiding when asked. dunlmela https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/351767731 e.g. Defeated]]> 2019-04-15 18:27:16 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/351767731 Why do people hide their emotions from other people? dunlmela https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/351806798 2019-04-15 20:34:55 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/351806798 ill dorekevi1_2 https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352335889 2019-04-17 15:52:34 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352335889 don't want to burden someone https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336015 2019-04-17 15:52:56 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336015 Because we do not want to engage on that level. https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336067 2019-04-17 15:53:04 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336067 expectation that in my job I am supposed to be able to keep it all together https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336152 2019-04-17 15:53:22 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336152 Don't want to face feelings; want to hold it together https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336185 2019-04-17 15:53:26 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336185 don't want to sound negative or like i'm complaining https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336198 2019-04-17 15:53:28 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336198 Don't take the time to respond truthfully because it takes too much time! https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336318 2019-04-17 15:53:46 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336318 feeling very https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336351 2019-04-17 15:53:50 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336351 n https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336361 2019-04-17 15:53:52 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336361 hide fear https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336369 2019-04-17 15:53:53 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336369 really feeling overwhelmed https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336385 2019-04-17 15:53:55 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336385 no one else's business https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336401 2019-04-17 15:53:57 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336401 finn238_2 https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336422 They don't really care to share with the individual that is asking. Would rather remain to keep how they are really doing private]]> 2019-04-17 15:54:01 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336422 Time https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336449 a greeting does not allow the time to share. If a caring conversation needs to happen that moment is not the place.... I need to know when to have the deeper conversation]]> 2019-04-17 15:54:06 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336449 Want to keep the professional stance https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336502 2019-04-17 15:54:13 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336502 figure that the person doesn't really want to know; or don't want to share my real feelings with that person - may share with someone who I feel safer or closer to https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336547 2019-04-17 15:54:18 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336547 Don't have the time to go into details and it may not be the appropriate place or time https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336555 2019-04-17 15:54:19 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336555 people rely on me to be strong https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336705 2019-04-17 15:54:45 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336705 I am able to love my inner child. https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336713 2019-04-17 15:54:47 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336713 anxious https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336737 2019-04-17 15:54:50 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336737 It has to be an appropriate time to share. https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336766 2019-04-17 15:54:56 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336766 We know they don't really have time to hear what we have to say... https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336798

]]> 2019-04-17 15:55:02 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336798 anxious, working on self-regulation https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336808 2019-04-17 15:55:03 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336808 What type of relationship do I have with the person asking?? https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336910 2019-04-17 15:55:20 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352336910 https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352337004 At work, the issue that is causing one to be not fine is confidential and we may not want to share]]> 2019-04-17 15:55:32 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352337004 Important to identify trusted colleagues to debrief our feelings. We can be discerning in who is appropriate to share with. https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352337471 2019-04-17 15:56:55 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352337471 Some times it's hard to share when you feel how you are feeling might be no one's business https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352337493 2019-04-17 15:56:59 UTC https://padlet.com/dunlmela/cyyeh3otl1c8/wish/352337493