https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3 If you were the teacher of the girl in the video, how would you apply the 4R strategy to support her well-being? en-us 2023-03-17 06:27:05 UTC 2023-03-29 08:31:00 UTC hello@padlet.com katietan2008 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536355425 Ask student what made her worried. What was she expecting? What was she aiming for? Why?]]> 2023-03-29 08:20:15 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536355425 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536356318 What were your feelings when you received your results?]]> 2023-03-29 08:21:04 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536356318 katietan2008 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536356969 Ask her what is driving her to score more than 85 marks? Significance? ]]> 2023-03-29 08:21:41 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536356969 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357030 What were your targets?
Why do you want to set targets for yourself?]]> 2023-03-29 08:21:45 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357030 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357041 Ask the student on the:

1) Grades she was expecting
2) What is she currently feeling upon receiving the grades]]> 2023-03-29 08:21:46 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357041 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357291 Tell the student that you noticed she look upset. Ask student why she is upset? ]]> 2023-03-29 08:22:00 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357291 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357295 We will ask the student about her initial expectations. Also clarify with her how were these expectations derived ? Based on parents’ expectations ? We can ask her ‘what made you disappointed?’ Why would you be disappointed. ]]> 2023-03-29 08:22:01 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357295 liew_kok_keong https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357369 Teacher can let the class know the overall performance (grades / marks)  of the class ]]> 2023-03-29 08:22:05 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357369 ong_fui_ping2 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357612 Recall - How are you feeling? Why are you feeling sad, what is your expectation? ]]> 2023-03-29 08:22:21 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536357612 tan_ai_lin3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536358294 How did you feel and what were you thinking at that time? 
Why did you look stressed/ unhappy with your results? What are your expectations?]]> 2023-03-29 08:22:57 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536358294 ong_fui_ping2 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536358886 Is this the target that you set for yourself or imposed by your family members? Is it a realistic target?

Is this the final result that you think you will get? Do you think you will make improvement with more effort?]]> 2023-03-29 08:23:28 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536358886 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536359011 Ask student why is 85 score not good for her. Ask student what is the score that she looks forward to get.]]> 2023-03-29 08:23:33 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536359011 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536359392 85 is one step nearer to the target. Targets are progressive. What's next?]]> 2023-03-29 08:23:42 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536359392 chong_xiang_yang_isaac2 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536359927 "Look at how much you have progressed"

"Getting an A1 is not an easy feat, you did a good job achieving that!"


]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:01 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536359927 ong_fui_ping2 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360169 I have done my best. I will be more mindful and reduce the careless mistakes next time. I believe if I put in more effort, I can do better.]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:15 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360169 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360208 Check with her on the reason for setting her current standards (pitting against herself or her peers)]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:17 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360208 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360214 I have achieved excellent grade. Can always learn from mistakes to further improve. ]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:17 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360214 katietan2008 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360218 1) It's good to aim high, but it's natural to make mistakes. Use this opportunity to learn from your mistakes and do even better next time.]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:17 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360218 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360394 Ask the student why is 85 not good enough? Help student to check on the assumption.

Help student to understand that success can come from other means rather than a score. 

Ask the student if this score is already an improvement from the previous score. Guide the student to chart her progress. ]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:27 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360394 tan_ai_lin3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360742 What were your expectations?
How did you prepare for it?]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360742 eunice_leong98 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360915 1. Why is there a need for you to do even better? It's an A1, isn't it?

2. Who set this expectation for you - your family or yourself?

3. How are you feeling about your grades? Why?]]> 2023-03-29 08:24:54 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536360915 limyihui3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361405 Check in with the girl, ask her how is she feeling now? Why she needs to take painkiller? Find out how she feel when she got back the paper? Clarify with her if the expectation is too high?]]> 2023-03-29 08:25:19 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361405 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361547 How can we work with one another for our results to continually improve?]]> 2023-03-29 08:25:26 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361547 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361752 "You are already one of the top students with a high score. You are getting closer to what you had targeted."]]> 2023-03-29 08:25:36 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361752 katietan2008 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361959 Give student the bigger picture (achievements of students with similar results).]]> 2023-03-29 08:25:43 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536361959 goh_xin_yun_audrey1 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536362164 Ask the student when did she feel upset and what she was upset about. If it was about her results, clarify her expectations for her exams.

(Identifying when the negative emotions first started appearing)]]> 2023-03-29 08:25:53 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536362164 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536362796 As long as you have done your best, take it as a learning experience towards your eventual targets]]> 2023-03-29 08:26:21 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536362796 ong_fui_ping2 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536362869 You can form study group with your friends. 

Seek help when you feel down. If you need support from others, do not hesitate to approach your teachers, friends, family members or counsellors.]]> 2023-03-29 08:26:24 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536362869 tan_ai_lin3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536363908 You have done very well so far....and put in consistent effort. How do you think you can do better? ]]> 2023-03-29 08:27:16 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536363908 chong_xiang_yang_isaac2 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536364314 How can I help you process what you're feeling right now?

Get her out there, get some fresh air and distract her?

Let her parents know about her tendencies in addition to the high marks she scored so that they can support her]]> 2023-03-29 08:27:33 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536364314 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536364527 Teacher to share results and affirm student with parents around. 

Teacher can tell student that she is strong in her academics and can help those weaker ones in class. ]]> 2023-03-29 08:27:42 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536364527 limyihui3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536364700 Try to understand why she would like to achieve and check in if there is pressure from family/ friends.

]]> 2023-03-29 08:27:52 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536364700 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536365466 Speak to a friend who can empathize with you and lend you a listening ear. 

Practice gratitude: Be thankful for an aspect of your results]]> 2023-03-29 08:28:31 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536365466 tan_ai_lin3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536365534 How would you like me to support you? Perhaps you would like to take a short break to recharge and recalibrate before persevering with your effort to do better?]]> 2023-03-29 08:28:36 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536365534 limyihui3 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536366899 Encourage her to be confident, tell her to believe the power of "yet". She already done pretty well and it is ok to have room fro improvement.]]> 2023-03-29 08:29:40 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536366899 goh_xin_yun_audrey1 https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536368666 "You are already making great improvements! Remember to be kind to yourself."]]> 2023-03-29 08:31:00 UTC https://padlet.com/khoo_chee_suan/cpihgtioc1aoony3/wish/2536368666