SWH Sep'24 Thur Kaiako - Prac #2 - Which gentle drops could you share in these situations? by

SWH Sep'24 Thur Kaiako - Prac #2 - Which gentle drops could you share in these situations? by https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq en-us 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC 2025-02-26 21:26:57 UTC hello@padlet.com "You are a very supportive pāpā. This is one way I see you using tūpuna parenting - did you know you were doing that naturally?" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906058 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906058 "Our tūpuna had tikanga for all parts of life. We can have whānau tikanga too - have you had a look around your whare and thought about what might need to change or move so the whare is safe for your whānau?" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906060 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906060 "I like to use the word mischief instead of naughty when describing our tamariki. Mischief and curiosity are traits our tūpuna would admire and encourage for their own tamariki. Maui was a hero of our people - he was curious *and* mischievous. He was brave *and* cheeky. Our tūpuna expected this from their kids." ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906061 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906061 "Wow I admire the kind/gentle/respectful way you spoke to your pēpi today when she was upset. Did you know that is a way you are honouring her tapu?" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906062 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906062 "I like the story you told about your Nan, tūpuna Maaori would call that a pūrākau. Have you heard of pūrākau before?" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906063 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906063 "It's great to have a kāinga of whānau to support us as parents, but our whānau tikanga is still important too. Our tūpuna lived in kāinga and had tikanga for all parts of life too. Have a kōrero with your Mum about your tikanga, and why its important for your whānau." ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906064 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906064 "That must have been frustrating when your tamaiti broke your plate, have you heard the whakataukī 'Tā te tamariki tana nei mahi wawāhi tahā'? " Its an old whakataukī, and it let's us know that our tūpuna expected kids to make mistakes, break rules and be naughty - that's their job as kids. They're exploring and learning, and they will make mistakes too." ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906068 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906068 "I've been doing wānanga about tūpuna parenting. Our tāne were really nurturing and involved carers for their whānau - it wasn't just woman's work. Have you thought about what kind of Pāpā you'd like to be for your tamariki?" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906069 2025-02-26 02:24:44 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/ciblpsanzaioz5pq/wish/3342906069