https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b by: Kami Fulkerson (Hicks) en-us 2022-02-27 22:45:53 UTC 2022-02-28 00:57:47 UTC hello@padlet.com khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068534605 Overview: This stage applies to children from birth to 18 months of age. In this stage, children develop trust from the consistency, stability and love they receive from their caregiver. If a child fails to receive consistency, stability and love from their caregiver, they will lack the ability to develop trust and it will create feelings of insecurity and mistrust. 

According to the text " A healthy outcome during infancy, Erikson believed, depends on the quality of caregiving: relieving discomfort promptly and sensitively, holding the infant gently, waiting patiently until the baby has had enough milk, and weaning when the infant shows less interest in breast or bottle." During this stage of life, I resolved with trust. I had loving and caring parents that were consistent and stable in my life. I had a home, food and security. ]]> 2022-02-27 23:11:07 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068534605 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068546324 Overview: This stage applies to children from 18 months to 3 years old. During this stage children are gaining independence by learning to walk, choosing toys to play with and clothes to wear. They are learning a variety of new skills and abilities. It is important for parents to allow their children to learn independently while encouraging and supporting their children and their developments. It is important for children to gain confidence in themselves and their new skills so that they do not experience shame and doubt. 

According to the text, "Basic trust and autonomy grow out of warm, sensitive parenting and reasonable expectations for impulse control starting in the second year." I personally resolved this stage with autonomy. During this stage of my life I was still an only child and I was receiving all the attention, encouragement and praise from my parents. My mom has always instilled in me how important it is to be independent and capable of taking care of myself. I believe my mother had reasonable expectations of me and I know she was warm and sensitive during this stage of my life as she watched me discover the world on my own. 

]]> 2022-02-27 23:33:44 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068546324 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068550062 Overview: This stage applies to children from 3 to 5 years old. During this stage, children are learning social skills and developing skills to lead and play with others. Children who feel confident are able to take on new skills, play well with others and lend a helping hand when needed without a sense of guilt. 

According to the text, "Play creates a small social organiza­tion of children who try out meaningful roles and skills and who must coop­erate to achieve common goals. " I personally resolved this stage with initiative due to being placed in a daycare with other children at a young age. I learned how to work well with others and became confident in taking on new tasks and helping out when needed. ]]> 2022-02-27 23:40:50 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068550062 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068555745 Overview: This stage applies to children from 6-12 years old. During this stage children are developing self-confidence in their achievements and develop a desire to be successful. It is important for children to feel encouraged and supported to become successful and self-confident and gain the ability to take pride in achieving their goals. 

According to the text, "Erikson’s sense of industry combines several developments of middle childhood: a positive but realistic self-concept, pride in accomplishment, moral responsibility, and cooperative participation with agemates." I personally resolved this stage with industry. My mother took the time to encourage me in my academics. I took pride in doing well and earning awards for my grades. I also had the opportunity to participate in competitive gymnastics. I worked hard to pursue my goals of placing well in competitions.]]> 2022-02-27 23:50:34 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068555745 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068568175 Overview: This stage applies to children ages 12-18 years old. During this stage, children explore who they are. Children that are shown encouragement and support from family develop a strong sense of independence and self control. Whereas, children that become unsure about themselves, their beliefs and who they are struggle with themselves and what their future will hold. 

According to the text, "Constructing an identity involves defining who you are, what you value, and the directions you choose to pursue in life."  I resolved this stage with role confusion. During this stage of my life my mom remarried we were no longer her number one priority. She no longer came to my sporting events. She did not ask, care or insert herself into my academics. I struggled with resentment towards my mom. My dad not only moved two hours away but also spent some time in prison during this stage. I had no encouragement and support from my parents. I lost my biggest fan and lost myself for a period of time. I didn't know who I was, what I wanted in life, where I was going. At one point I didn't even have a place to call home as I bounced around trying to find my place. ]]> 2022-02-28 00:09:05 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068568175 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068594386 Overview: This stage applies to adults ages 18 to 40 years old. During this stage of adulthood we start to explore relationships and friendships outside of family members. The ability to obtain intimate relationships provides a sense of security, a sense of safety and enjoyable relationships. Avoiding intimate relationships results in depression and feelings of isolation. 

According to the text, "Because of earlier disappointments, some individuals cannot form close bonds and remain isolated." However, I believe this was not the case for me. I resolved this stage with intimacy. I think from having feelings of being alone in life for such a long time, I longed for intimacy and someone to share life with. I was fortunate to find a sense of commitment and safety in my husband. ]]> 2022-02-28 00:41:32 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068594386 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068605421 Overview: This stage applies to adults ages 40-65. During this stage of life adults are settling down with a partner, growing their family and establishing their career. It is important to become a functional member of society and giving back to your community in one way or another. Feelings of lifelessness arise if we fail to give back to community and give to the next generation. 

According to the text, "Generativity means giving to the next generation through child rearing, caring for others, or productive work." I believe I have already resolved this stage with generativity. After experiencing what I did throughout my childhood, it is my goal and desire as a mother of two daughters, to be their number one supporter and cheerleader through every stage of life. It try to set an example for my children by giving back to the community by getting involved in extra activities such as volunteering through our church and helping other families during the holidays. ]]> 2022-02-28 00:53:09 UTC https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068605421 khicks391 https://padlet.com/khicks391/ci92hlfglxcra76b/wish/2068609774 Overview: This stage applies to adults ages 65 and older. During this stage of life, adults look back on their life including their accomplishments and failures. If we feel like we have experienced more failures than accomplishments then we become displeased with life. 

According to the text, " Integrity results from feeling that life was worth living as it happened. Older people who are dissatisfied with their lives fear death." I truly believe the trauma throughout my childhood made me want a different life for myself and my children. My hope is to look back during this stage of life and feel proud of my accomplishments.

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