I think that his situation although is very interesting but it is also very common that happen in the high-school, in his case possibily happened for the affection that his teacher could have given you, for which you can feel other kind of “tie” apart from relationship student-teacher.

For this case, first, I think that you could tell her without any problem anytime, because there will be not any changes in his educational relationship, surely. To give solution to his problem, considering that this could be a distraction for you in his studies, you should tell her about his feelings; this would be a good option, because you can out all the things that there are in his mind and his heart and so you canfeel in peacefull.

If the teacher is a good profesional as you explain me, she must comprehen very well his situation and she could help you to control his emotions. I think that you and his teacher may become good friends and if you express her his feelings I don´t think that she can feel threatened or affronted, on the contrary this may generate more confidence between both and also help to create a good friendship.  In my opinion, you should speak with his teacher as soon as possible to solve this frustrating situation. 

I hope have helped you. 
Good luck.

Thank you for your attention.

I like how you describe yourself, however in these days young people do not think of it this way, the culture used to be male chauvinist in the majority of cases.

You should not psych yourself up about you're going to be the same man that your dad, uncles or your great-grandfather, You should not feel afraid about what you do, you must have confidence in yourself, You should not be the same man than them, You should not carry through the tradition of your family On the other hand, Removed from the mind that you're going to be equal to the other you describe yourself as a unique man, believe it. 

However you can give the initiative what you want to do, for example,  you must begin to use what you have learned watching the movies or series, take a chance to feel that you are different, you will be able to get what you want ,  before,  you start with minimum details toward the girl you like, be sincere when talk with her, if you realize in the movies that  you mentioned before  , the guy always be able to seductive the girl that likes him , using strategies , first analyzes the girl you like , then begins to talk with some excuse for example :

if she likes a band ,   you should speak about it,  finally the next day take a fruit chew or sweet as a sign of friendship.

If you have been able to get to be the best friend of the girls that you like, you can take the last step when you win your confidence, you can tell her the experience you've had fall in love of a woman, you could win her heart, tell her what you likes her, and you will be able to get to love her, You shouldbehave like a gentleman with her.

With regard to your family when they see that you are happy, and maybe they ask you, how you got to be with a girl? , you can answer them ,  that  you do not have the same habits than them , you need to be able to demonstrate that,  you can be fall in love to  a woman without telling lies, hurt her, at the same  time  ,  you will know you did the right thing, when you will feel free and happy .

All the best !

Morelia Pulido Soler

Dear friend thanks for your confidence, although I am aware it is a very hard situation for you.

I believe your daughter made lack her father's love in some moments, we as parents make mistakes where just lost our children and hurt them but, this is not moment for reproach. 

Then, I can just to tell you, that if you believe in God, you should deliver him your problem and to the Virgin Mary with the purpose they help you.

You must bow to God and Virgin Mary and praying that they perform a miracle in your daughter, and she can leave to this man, because if you say her somethings relating to this she can cling up to him.

Another solution would be you speak with your ex-wife with the purpose to look for a psychologist in order to your daughter can wake up of this situation.

Friend, remember that nothing is impossible for God and Virgin Mary.

I hope everything go well for you.

Blessings and big hug for you.

Best regards, 

Magnolia

Q: I am 38, happily married with two children and have a job I enjoy. However, I have found myself plagued by anxiety about friendships and feelings of loneliness.

Since having children I seem to have been on a roller-coaster of friendships. As our lives have evolved, people have drifted away. I now feel I am left with acquaintances (mainly school mums) rather than actual friends.

I find WhatsApp groups stressful and can’t go on Facebook, as I feel jealous when I see events where I haven’t been included. Some of my pre-children friends remain, but busy lives and distance mean I only see them a couple of times a year.

I’ve given up on phone calls, as people only seem to want to text! I just don’t know how I can get out of this spiraling anxious mindset. Will it improve when my children are older, or without play dates will my social life dry up altogether?

Dear friend:

I have read your letter and I want to send you a greeting and a message of tranquility to your concern, I understand that we all receive moments of anguish for some family or social aspects that change over time and when we start thinking about  friendly relationships or in the social life that we had in certain times we notice that there are changes that are not expected in the different stages of our lives.

You must be aware that people's priorities change according to the stage of life in which they are, for example when we are children we only think about having fun with friends from school, in adolescence we usually seek to be recognized by faculties or physical qualities and we are interested in people of the opposite sex, meetings and walks with friends.

It is possible that a single young man or single lady may think that he or she wants to spend his life sharing his friendships with one another but then he can realize that he is staying alone.

When we go from youth to adults we think that we could already have a family because we recognize that the friends are taking different responsibilities and are assuming roles of parents or marry;  in addition to thinking of stable children and families then new economic needs and affection appear, the economic needs forces the couples to take care of the work and the emotional needs require of dedicating time to the children and their same couple which generates consequences in the lack of time for what is known as social life, friends or schoolmates, the university or even co-workers, as a result there is a feeling of loneliness of friends or a tendency to think that it is not taken into account by social groups.

In fact it is not so, because all their friends would like to share more time with you but maybe they can not do it due to their family and work commitments.

To avoid getting anxious and find an emotional balance without breaking your responsibilities keeping in your mind that you are not an isolated person but you have to keep in your mind the participation and approval of the members of your household, it is important that you keep in mind the following suggestions and advices:

Finally, we shall all know that the important thing is to take advantage of all the stages of our lives and be happy with the people we love.

 

Sicerely

Jimy Delgado

 

The first thing I can tell you sincerely is that you must pray, ask that supreme being who is your God. He can and wants to help you. In this world we are not alone.

 We are accompanied by the one who created us. You should not make decisions lightly, because when you are in situations of loneliness you can make mistakes, even like the one you mention about ending your life. 

Calm down. You have a contrast between what discourages you and what encourages you to live, and you will see that there are many reasons that are worthwhile in this life. You should also have more confidence in yourself. 

If you have done studies and have degrees, these will open up more opportunities for you to move forward, although for the time being you do not have the desired job, good attitude will bring better opportunities. 

Not only in the labor part. You must believe in the great capacity you have not only in the cognitive, but also in the relationship. You should make a list of your abilities and focus on them and you will see how valuable your life is. Give yourself another chance and do not be afraid of making mistakes, of not hitting on your friendships and even a relationship.

 The value is very important and you have to believe in yourself, of course without being proud or selfish. Remember that to establish relationships you must have something to offer. What better than your security that inspires those around you.

 I hope this answer will help you and I will be praying for you to my God who can do everything.

A  great hug.

Bye

Cesar