Remake of Facilitator Template for Racial Affinity by Joy Shmueli https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz Made with charisma en-us 2021-01-20 01:22:01 UTC 2021-01-26 23:10:46 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325085 exhausted, wishing I had the energy to do more]]> 2021-01-26 23:04:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325085 Both my groups were people of color. digual https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325358 2021-01-26 23:04:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325358 vc791 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325444 My group in the randomly selected breakout room was actually already a BIPOC group by coincidence, so that was nice to be able to feel like we were a group with shared experiences to begin with. ]]> 2021-01-26 23:04:39 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325444 Being white, I am usually in a predominately white group. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325608 2021-01-26 23:04:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325608 Christina https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325729 I still have a lot to learn about this process, the levels that we read/discussed through is a bit overwhelming and gives a lot to think about. I don't think there is going to be a smooth transition through these levels]]> 2021-01-26 23:04:48 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325729 WORKING IN MIXED GROUP I learned about white supremacy- how people were oblivious of their supremacy https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325863 In biopic group, I heard about the struggles. 

]]> 2021-01-26 23:04:54 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129325863 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326068 was comforting to know that where you're at in the stages is irrespective of age (i.e. I shouldn't be at level x just because I'm age y), and that it's natural to move between them and/or not fit perfectly within a single one]]> 2021-01-26 23:05:01 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326068 I was with white people both times. atrumbull2 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326310 2021-01-26 23:05:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326310 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326457 Working in the affinity groups made me feel the necessary discomfort of grappling with the racist systems that exist.]]> 2021-01-26 23:05:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326457 open conversations https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326628 2021-01-26 23:05:22 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326628 i felt heard and accepted. rpomba https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326641 2021-01-26 23:05:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326641 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326674 It was nice to experience both types of groups in one meeting

]]> 2021-01-26 23:05:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326674 It was comforting. digual https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326735 2021-01-26 23:05:26 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326735 I don't know that I would have said anything differently in either groups. I am pretty comfortable with myself. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326807 2021-01-26 23:05:29 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326807 Conversations were a little more relatable https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326918 2021-01-26 23:05:33 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326918 The conversation in our Racial Affinity group meandered away from focusing on giving everyone a chance to answer where they are at in Beverly Tatum's article. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326920 2021-01-26 23:05:33 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326920 I am excited for future ABAR discussions and work. Grateful we have this opportunity. mbishr https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326969 2021-01-26 23:05:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326969 I'm glad to be having these conversations because they are essential. But I don't feel like I have a next step to take. atrumbull2 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326995 2021-01-26 23:05:36 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129326995 I was in the same group both times so I didn't experience the difference between a random group and a racial affinity group https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327057 2021-01-26 23:05:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327057 More Work to Do! https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327106 2021-01-26 23:05:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327106 zzzzzzzz https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327192 Nap time, not content.]]> 2021-01-26 23:05:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327192 There's never enough time but I'm glad we are discussing this. digual https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327344 2021-01-26 23:05:50 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327344 It was a reminder that I am not alone https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327393 2021-01-26 23:05:51 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327393 vc791 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327405 working in my affinity group made me feel supported, heard, and understood. 

]]> 2021-01-26 23:05:52 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327405 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327586 We realized we blend well with others not just our selves. ]]> 2021-01-26 23:05:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327586 Random breakout room was with colleagues I know really well, and the affinity group was group we have not got together as much. They were both nice. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327751 2021-01-26 23:06:05 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327751 I wonder what other people think of the way I perceive myself. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327803 2021-01-26 23:06:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327803 I am hopeful that conversations like I had today will continue but also feeling exhausted remembering there is more work to be done https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327882 2021-01-26 23:06:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327882 Nice to hear different perspectives. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327993 2021-01-26 23:06:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129327993 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328108 very uncomfortable being part of my own group. It bought back many negative experiences]]> 2021-01-26 23:06:18 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328108 rpomba https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328335 I learned that my life was on the same path as other people and that we as a nation need more empithy. And if we don't understand each others stories to still respect their life.]]> 2021-01-26 23:06:27 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328335 bprentiss https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328362 It was interesting to hear the difference between working in an affinity group of my own race versus working in a mix group.  They would both very informative and important. 

]]> 2021-01-26 23:06:28 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328362 It is good to be having these discussions. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328457 2021-01-26 23:06:30 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328457 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328511 Felt good to know I’m not the only one 🙃]]> 2021-01-26 23:06:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328511 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328652 conversations of shared experiences]]> 2021-01-26 23:06:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328652 I feel this really will help us move forward and make great progress around ABAR work. It creates safe spaces for all to share their feelings and experiences openly. mbishr https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328678 2021-01-26 23:06:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328678 you just see others in the same boat. but really does that change anything? https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328763 2021-01-26 23:06:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328763 Not sure about the way caboudi https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328779 2021-01-26 23:06:42 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129328779 vc791 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129329138 feeling hopeful that we are doing the work and coming to terms that we all still have a lot to learn.

]]> 2021-01-26 23:06:55 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129329138 Great! https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129329834 I felt heard and accepted in both groups.  Awesome colleagues.  Always willing to share ideas, and accept others' ideas.

]]> 2021-01-26 23:07:21 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129329834 bprentiss https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129329861 Being able to relate to someone that has a similar experience to me made me understand what others are going through. ]]> 2021-01-26 23:07:22 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129329861 Happy that awareness is being brought to this country to move towards antiracism https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330166 2021-01-26 23:07:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330166 I would like to know what the others who didn't share wanted to say. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330209 2021-01-26 23:07:36 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330209 I felt everyone was heard and valued in both. Both took a few minutes to get started as we thought deeper and reacted the same. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330409 2021-01-26 23:07:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330409 bprentiss https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330633 I feel like I want to talk more to my peers about this process. Everyone is so open and I really enjoy hearing different experiences and having conversations with everyone. =)]]> 2021-01-26 23:07:53 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330633 It was nice to see https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330990 2021-01-26 23:08:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129330990 https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129331418 I’m still confused but I overthink almost everything lol. Be safe people! 🤙🏽]]> 2021-01-26 23:08:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129331418 I feel I learned some about Racial Identity Development and would like to dive deeper with that. Too tired to heal at the moment. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129331675 2021-01-26 23:08:33 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129331675 rpomba https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129331840 I feel I need to feel my triggers and not let them reflect onto others.]]> 2021-01-26 23:08:39 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129331840 Not much, except that I am proud to be part of Fairview and happy to have such amazing coworkers. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129332968 2021-01-26 23:09:21 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129332968 It felt awesome. https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129333096 There were members who experienced the same things I did.]]> 2021-01-26 23:09:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jshmueli/bryxqyqrbop8nygz/wish/1129333096