Equity Enacted: Leading with Equitable Creation by Crystal Xu https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks Made with big dreams en-us 2021-03-04 14:35:53 UTC 2021-03-04 16:55:35 UTC hello@padlet.com Directions crystal26 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269507496 After hearing the scenarios and our own reflections what are areas of your own learning, unlearning or relearning? ]]> 2021-03-04 15:21:02 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269507496 Directions crystal26 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269539929 Press the plus sign and adding your reflections, if you feel comfortable add your name. ]]> 2021-03-04 15:26:12 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269539929 Leadership matters mdavidson6 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269783188 Change doesn't happen if the leaders are not willing to demonstrate and model the process of learning all the time and applying it or adapting one's self. Learning to stretch my leadership skills to meet the demand of rapid change while being compassionate, empathetic, and still aligned to vision and mission. DM]]> 2021-03-04 16:07:21 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269783188 Old habits https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269785608 2021-03-04 16:07:44 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269785608 Perfectionism https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269786956 2021-03-04 16:07:58 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269786956 Vocabulary https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269786992 Not sure what words to use that don't reflect any bias or inequity.]]> 2021-03-04 16:07:58 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269786992 Old Ways mdavidson6 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269787760 As a veteran educator, I learned a lot that is NOT serving me know and so I have to unlearn ideas that don't work - part of this is unlearning how to work with adults to work with them productively and in a way that helps them actually grow. I don't want it to be fight. Directives don't work. DM]]> 2021-03-04 16:08:06 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269787760 New ways to learn https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269789462 2021-03-04 16:08:24 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269789462 Toxic positivity https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269789528 2021-03-04 16:08:25 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269789528 New ways to be more inclusive rmoral https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269793583 2021-03-04 16:09:05 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269793583 Confrontation mdavidson6 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269794085 How to have healthy, strong boundaries and confront people so that don't live in error or in ways that make them unproductive. TO also be honest with people when things are not working. Vulnerability is hard but necessary. It takes courage. Like Brene Brown says- soft front, strong back. It's not easy, but I know it'll be worth it.
DM]]> 2021-03-04 16:09:10 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269794085 I can't give my students something I don't have myself. So in regards to struggling with my own self-worth. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269796434 2021-03-04 16:09:34 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269796434 Change is difficult. If the leaders do not embrace the change, it is hard to have buy in from others. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269797056 2021-03-04 16:09:41 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269797056 Words https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269800779 Words matter and what words you use do make an impact - vocabulary]]> 2021-03-04 16:10:16 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269800779 How to speak in a situation where I feel my opinion is not welcome or supported in a way to be valued and supported in order to facilitate change. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269804333 2021-03-04 16:10:49 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269804333 Change https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269805277 It is hard, but a necessary part of human growth. It can only take place by actively doing it.]]> 2021-03-04 16:10:59 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269805277 Accepting being dismissed or not heard https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269810707 2021-03-04 16:11:51 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269810707 Not allowing the space for negative feelings or emotions and trying to quiet them. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269816381 2021-03-04 16:12:49 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269816381 Failure https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269816999 It is not always negative. It is sometimes the greatest teacher.]]> 2021-03-04 16:12:56 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269816999 Talking through feelings of shame and guilt while maintain a sense of self worth and getting through the difficult and uncomfortable. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269820813 2021-03-04 16:13:34 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269820813 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269830767 How to not worry about looking for validation from others and to accept that it is alright as long as it is my best effort.]]> 2021-03-04 16:15:09 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269830767 Not trying to be everything to everybody. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269831496 2021-03-04 16:15:17 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269831496 Putting theory into practice. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269835053 2021-03-04 16:15:51 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269835053 Consistency https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269838194 Stick with what is working. Modify and adjust if needed , but it isn't totally necessary to completely change the way we were teaching.]]> 2021-03-04 16:16:21 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269838194 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269840739 Listening and being patient while working with technology-challenged individuals]]> 2021-03-04 16:16:47 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269840739 Second guessing https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269843934 Go with what you know and be patient.]]> 2021-03-04 16:17:19 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269843934 That I have something to offer. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269848751 2021-03-04 16:18:05 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269848751 Prove yourself https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269850280 Trying to prove that I'm an equal


]]> 2021-03-04 16:18:22 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269850280 20 years ago https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269851882 2021-03-04 16:18:39 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269851882 Habits https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269853544 2021-03-04 16:18:56 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269853544 Active listening https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269853700 What I think I heard is not necessarily what the speaker said or meant. ]]> 2021-03-04 16:18:58 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269853700 New knowledge, times have changed https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269855407 2021-03-04 16:19:15 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269855407 Opinions https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269856983 Listen to what people have to say and not replying on others opinions

]]> 2021-03-04 16:19:31 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269856983 I can challenge the status quo https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269862632 2021-03-04 16:20:29 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269862632 What does community engagement look like in a virtual setting? https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269935926 2021-03-04 16:33:06 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269935926 Listening and not giving a solution https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269936526 2021-03-04 16:33:12 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269936526 Assumptions https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269941927 I'm working on not assuming I know what someone is thinking or is going to say.

]]> 2021-03-04 16:34:09 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269941927 Do not ignore it mdavidson6 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269994502 I think I would address that teacher and reframe the question to be about what we can/can't control to keep in mind that we are now "guests" in someone else's home and we are not here to police them in their home. Maybe I'd say, tell me more about you concern as related to instruction and reaching learners.]]> 2021-03-04 16:42:56 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269994502 I would address the group. I would say - "I want to stop and talk about that, because I really think it's our job to reach out to parents in ways that we can reach all of them. So if this process is not working for all of our parents, what are things we can do differently to make sure we are providing opportunities for all of our parents to participate?" https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269994914 2021-03-04 16:43:00 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269994914 Address the group. Listen. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269996355 2021-03-04 16:43:14 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269996355 Acknowledge what was said and not said, and ask for input and ask for suggestions. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269996395

]]> 2021-03-04 16:43:15 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269996395 I would listen first because they may be frustrated and tired teachers, then maybe ask questions about why they feel that way and then pose questions about things the family might be facing and how that might affect caretaker engagement and come up with ideas for managing feelings and also how we can work through possible caretaker disengagement. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269996683 2021-03-04 16:43:18 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269996683 I would address the group immediately: "IThank you for that. You're tired and frustrated... etc then, follow up with a strategy for engagement. staceygiebler2 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269997016 2021-03-04 16:43:22 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269997016 Acknowledge the "elephant in the room." If one says others have the same question. Then meet with the teacher privately to discuss the concern and discuss how, as the instructional leader, I could assist. I would hope that the teacher would have brought this up before, so it wouldn't have been an issue since we would have already addressed it. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269997658 2021-03-04 16:43:28 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269997658 address issue..remind everyone that we (including parents/families) are in new and difficult situations...we need to have grace and compassion https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269997725 2021-03-04 16:43:29 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269997725 Response https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269998312 I would address in the moment. I would look at the core of what triggered the emotional outburst. Understanding that her concerns are not much different than when students were face-to-face.
If she's feeling this level of stress, then others are too, so need to address in open forum.
The idea that it's "NOT WORTH IT" would definitely be a reflection moment. And, follow with action items for change!

]]> 2021-03-04 16:43:35 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269998312 Acknowledge the situation https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269998455 Ask for possible solutions. Do some learning about how to best engage parents.

]]> 2021-03-04 16:43:36 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269998455 Ask of the group how do we believe as a core value about students? To recenter our thinking. Our responsibility to cnash17 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269998810 2021-03-04 16:43:40 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1269998810 Address the elephant in the room. Why is this person reacting that way? Acknowledge the situation, the reality of many of the families we serve. Focus on the items we can control and think how we can better serve the families that do not come. rmoral https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270000613 2021-03-04 16:43:59 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270000613 Honor the feelings https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270001558 2021-03-04 16:44:09 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270001558 It was a public statement and the reply should be the same. Point out that we should not generalize or stereotype all parents. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270007345 2021-03-04 16:45:09 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270007345 Address it and have a discussion about it https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270010464 2021-03-04 16:45:41 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270010464 create a pause valeriesullivan https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270011868 and then unpack why certain families attend or don't, why that is, and how our design of conferences contributes.  Then begin to discuss what role we have to shift the barriers 

]]> 2021-03-04 16:45:55 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270011868 Respond to the overall team. https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270031224 Make sure to validate that there are challenges, but clarify that we collectedly will not place blame on a family or person and will support the students in every way possible.

]]> 2021-03-04 16:49:14 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270031224 WOW mdavidson6 https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270046839 Back to norms and the need to respect each other's time to speak.  You don't get to hijack or coopt someone else's experience to reframe it for your own purposes. This person has now created division and unnecessary tension. It's insensitive and must be confronted.]]> 2021-03-04 16:51:48 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270046839 acknowledge the support that the one teacher experience...let the other teacher know that you will look into his concern https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270047613 2021-03-04 16:51:56 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270047613 Validate https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270048734 Validate his feelings to the groups, 
and offer to talk with him personally to find a solution for his concerns and help him feel supported.]]> 2021-03-04 16:52:06 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270048734 Norms https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270050066 I always start meeting with norms. Once is that we will respect each other's values and ideas. Everyone has a voice. ]]> 2021-03-04 16:52:21 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270050066 Listen! https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270050214 Facilitate the dialogue to better understand and to hear perspectives of others. 

]]> 2021-03-04 16:52:22 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270050214 sometimes people just need a safe place to share their thoughts and ideas without second guessing what they are saying/thinking/feeling https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270053303 2021-03-04 16:52:54 UTC https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270053303 Write it down https://padlet.com/crystal26/b8aqh0wtiwoxq3ks/wish/1270063605 Sometimes I will ask a question and have the staff write their response, then review the responses. 

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