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      <title>Response to &quot;Big Night&quot; scene by Maria Hegarty</title>
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      <pubDate>2022-06-29 13:01:33 UTC</pubDate>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-08 12:18:35 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Dominant Culture Clash</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The American culture definitely feels like the dominant culture in this scene since they are the paying customers looking for a specific sort of Italian American food. The American couple has conflicting expectations for what the Italian food should look and taste like. The Italian chef and waiter have different views on what the food should consist of. The Italian chef definitely had issue with the American woman, yet didn't want to talk with her directly. This shows that the Americans unfortunately were the ones that had the power in this scene. &nbsp;<br><br>It reminds me so much of Chinese American food vs actual Chinese food that my family cooks and what we can get in China or actual more authentic Chinese restaurants, that is less sweet and oily and more healthy and delicious. Though I do still love Chinese American food every now and then!</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-11 22:32:54 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>&quot;Big Night&quot; scene dominant culture</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>In this scene from the "Big Night" movie, I feel that the American culture is definitely the dominant one. Although the movie takes place in America, the brothers are from Italy and trying to give the customers an authentic Italian experience. However, the American woman seems to want the Italian American food that she is used to and not the authentic Italian food that the brothers know and are wishing to share from their home country. It is "not what she expected" so she is trying to Americanize the Italian food.&nbsp;<br><br>It seems as though Secondo (Stanley Tucci actor) wants to please the customers and is more willing to change the food for the customers, however, his brother, Primo (the chef) is very upset with the customers and wishes to speak to them about it. In the end, he decides not to speak with them and ends up complying with their demands since "she won't understand anyway."<br>-Elizabeth Crimmings</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-12 00:53:18 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Big Night Scene</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The American culture seems to dominate in this scene. There is a conflict between what the American couple expects for their meal and what the Italian brothers provide. At first, the woman implies that her risotto is not really a seafood dish, and jokes that it took so long it probably came from Italy. Secondo tries to please her by adding starchy sides, which Primo objects to preparing because it is not authentic Italian cuisine. You can see the frustration in the kitchen. Secondo has the success of his restaurant in mind, while Primo wants to stay true to his culture.&nbsp;<br><br>I think this scene reminds us of some important points to apply to our practice. We must be sensitive to the conflicts our ELL students and their families may face in a new culture. We must help them adapt, but also support them in maintaining their own culture. Every family will have a unique experience, which we must understand in order to reach our learners.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-13 13:03:15 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Dominant Culture in &quot;Big Night&quot;</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>In this scene from "Big Night" the American culture was dominant.&nbsp; It is clear that this is an authentic Italian restaurant owned by two brothers from Italy who now live in America.&nbsp; They are proud of their culture and food and want to share it with their American customers.&nbsp; The American woman makes a rude comment about how long she waited for her meal.&nbsp; She then questions whether it is seafood and asks for spaghetti to which her husband announces "main meals always come with a side of spaghetti."&nbsp; The character, Secondo, tries to explain to the American woman that risotto is not served with spaghetti as they are both a starch.&nbsp; However, he goes back to the kitchen and reluctantly asks his brother, Primo, the chef to make a side of spaghetti.&nbsp; Primo is offended by this request.&nbsp; Secondo tries to remind his brother "that's what she wants, that's what the customer asked for."&nbsp; The dominance of the American couple is highlighted when Primo says "She's a philistine.&nbsp; She won't understand anyway" and then proceeds to begin to give in to this American's request after throwing a pot.&nbsp; They are forced to "Americanize" their restaurant and food to please their customers.<br>- Kim Olin</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-13 19:51:40 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>After watching this scene from "Big Night", I believe the American culture was the dominant culture. These brothers clearly opened an authentic Italian restaurant with the intent to share authentic Italian food with their customers. The American couple was very rude and ignorant in how they handled not receiving what they expected to be Italian food based on their American views and beliefs of what Italian food is here in America.  The conflict exists because of the ignorance of the American couple in not respecting the brothers explanation.</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 01:53:08 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The message I got from the video is that some Americans are reluctant to truly understand the real culture of the food and people.  I can relate to the customers because I would not know what to expect from truely authentic foods from other countries.  I have the basic Italian spaghetti and meatballs, and Chinese food apps.  but have I truely experienced the really thing, No.  The movie was supposed to have taken place in the 1950s where there wasn’t the internet or as much expectancy as we should see today, I can understand them not understanding the difference in the authentic and what they think is authentic. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 13:20:21 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Food, Culture &amp; Identity</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The dominant culture is American but this could also be a matter of perspective. The power is with the American culture as shifts are made which strongly conflict with the Italian culture and authentic food practices. The couple does not attempt to understand and learn about the food practices but rather appears to be either indifferent&nbsp; or intolerant at times to acquire what they expect to be delivered in the format they expect. Food and practice around food is a way to maintain cultural identity. When the dominant culture holding the power does not value the cultural identities that co-exist, we diminish them and&nbsp; at times push them to the point that they would not be recognized. This is an interesting article on food, culture and identity. <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0195666319311602">https://www.sciencedirect.co</a>m/science/article/pii/S0195666319311602https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0195666319311602&nbsp;<br><br>Patty Mason</div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 13:55:56 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Fuggedaboutit!</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I agree with the previous posters, the American culture definitely dominates this scene from the movie.  The conflict lies in the expectations of the food being served during the meal.  The Italian chef aims to deliver an authentic Italian meal, while the American patron wants a more Italian-American dining experience.  This reminds me of my Italian grandma who would be horrified if she saw a can of jarred "gravy" in my cupboard.  Fuggedaboutit!! :) </div>]]></description>
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         <title>Maureen Gattine-Big Night</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The culture in the scene from "Big Night" showed both American and Italian.  The scene takes place in an authentic Italian restaurant with an American couple as customers.  The American couple order their meals with the anticipation of receiving what I would call the American-Italian meal.  Once received as authentic Italian the couple questioned the Italian waiter who could not understand why they wanted the food a different way from the food culture he believed in.  He decides best to satisfy the customer and went to the cook who took offense to how they wanted their meal.  The American couple clearly did not understand the culture and wanted to change it.  The waiter and cook could not understand why the Americans would want to change it and found it to be insulting.  The existing conflict is the lack of understanding the different culture and being able to respect the differences.  This led to conflict.  As an American I like the Italian food we serve here and present.  But I also like to be adventurous and try authentic foods from other countries and have the understanding that there is a difference and to respect that difference.  Food is an important part of the culture.  In my school environment I always find it interesting what the students will have for lunch as it represents the culture they live in.  </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 15:56:30 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Big Night Scene- Jenn R</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The dominant culture in the scene is American, which conflicts with the Italian culture. The American couple were confused by the food and wanted more of an Americanized experienced instead of authentic Italian cuisine.&nbsp; The waiter had a difficult time understanding why they would&nbsp;want two starches and was trying to explain what risotto was. The couple does not attempt to immerse themselves within the Italian cuisine, but instead just want what they want. The brothers then argued over talking to the customers and "who was right". </div>]]></description>
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         <title>This clip hit home to me because I just came back from France for a wedding and my wife told me that when I order a meal there take it the way they serve it and do NOT ask for special orders. So I did as she told me( always easier). It worked out and I did not starve. actually most of the time the food was pretty good.</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 18:59:08 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>&quot;Big Night&quot;- Marian Bottini</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I agree with my classmates that the American culture was the dominant culture being portrayed in the scene. An American couple was ordering dinner in an Authentic Italian restaurant and was not happy with their meals because it was not what they were accustomed to. The Italian chef and waiter were distressed because they could not understand why the woman was unhappy. It was clear that the American couple did not understand the Italian culture and this led to a conflict. The American couple should have respected the way the food was prepared as part of an Authentic Italian meal.&nbsp;<br><br>&nbsp;I have family from China and I was invited to Dim sum or Chinese brunch. It was very different from our American Chinese food. I had never experienced these foods before. It was a very nice experience to see and taste "real" Chinese food and learn more about their culture.<br><br><br><br></div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 22:17:06 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Preserving Cultural Identity</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The dominate culture in this scene is clearly the American culture. The Italian brothers would like to preserve and share their culture through food. However, the American couple at the restaurant have expectations and requests that go against the Italian authentic food tradition. The conflict that exists is the contrasting cultures with food. Based on the brothers explanations in the movie scene, you are never supposed to serve a starch with a side of starch. However, in the American couple's experience, spaghetti should always come with the main dish. As restaurant owners, the brothers argue over preserving Italian tradition or adapting to the American culture for the success of their restaurant.&nbsp;<br><br>Pictured above is a traditional food from Norway. I thought I would share a little about this dish because it is an example of how food really is about identity. Lutefisk is cod that is prepared in a very specific way to help it last for a long time. Norwegian ancestors did this because they were very poor and the winters were long and hard. they soaked the cod in water and then added lye and eventually the fish becomes a jello texture. I have many memories eating this fish with my family on Christmas eve to remember and identify with our Norwegian ancestors. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-14 22:23:03 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Cultures in &quot;Big Night&quot;: Christina Shaughnessy</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The scene from "Big Night" presents with two cultures, Italian and American.&nbsp; Based on this clip, it appears that both cultures could be arguably dominant or attempting to dominate and are unwillingly to acknowledge one another.&nbsp; Through food, all parties appear to struggle for power without any productive dialogue.&nbsp; The American couple and Italian brothers then enter into conflict because neither side is willing to acknowledge the differences in beliefs over their food preferences. We as humans develop these preferences and beliefs through our own experiences within the world and they should not be diminished, but only broadened by those around us.&nbsp; &nbsp;<br><br>The brothers and couple in this clip can now reflect upon this dining experience "together." They can begin the process that leads to the acknowledgement and understanding and ultimately the affirmations of one another's culture.<br><br>After watching this scene unfold between grownups in a restaurant, I begin to think about the challenges faced by ELL students with or without disabilities.&nbsp; They enter into a world where there is little dialogue about who they are and where they come from. This leads me to acknowledge and think about the importance of including their own culture and families in every day learning experiences.&nbsp;<br><br>As I process the question and response, I am realizing how many skills are required within one individual to gain some sort of perspective on a matter and ultimately come to a common ground. This cannot be simply done in an authentic Italian restaurant, however it can start there.&nbsp;</div>]]></description>
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         <title>&quot;Big Night&quot; scene</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The American culture is clearly the dominant culture in this scene. The American patrons are disappointed with their experience and they food, as they are expecting the American-Italian food they have experienced in the past. The brothers are trying to provide authentic Italian food, not knowing that these Americans wouldn't know that risotto will always come with a wait, and that the people ordering do not know what they have requested. Secondo was trying to bridge the gap between his brother, who did not want to budge from his good, properly served food, and the patrons who did not want to try participating in an authentic Italian dinner.&nbsp;<br><br>Many years ago, I went to visit some of my Irish cousins and they were excited to take me to a new, exciting, Italian restaurant. When we got there, it turned out to be a pizza and pasta version of an Italian restaurant. My cousins hadn't ever been to Italy, nor had they had much experience with Italian, or "Italian" restaurants, and still thought it was a great adventure.&nbsp; I, having had much more experience with all versions of Italian restaurants and food, had a very different opinion of it, and also excited that my cousins were willing to try this new, "exotic" restaurant.&nbsp;<br><br>Sarah McKnight</div>]]></description>
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         <title>Big Night Scene- Jane Sword</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The dominant culture in this scene was the American culture. An American couple was dining at an authentic Italian restaurant in New Jersey run by two Italian immigrant brothers. The American couple had preconceived ideas about what Italian food should be like based on their own American experience of Italian food which was quite different from authentic Italian food. The conflict that existed was between the American couple's misunderstanding and lack of acceptance of true Italian food culture and the brothers who wanted to share their authentic Italian food with their customers. The waiter tried to explain what Risotto was as well as why they did not serve two starches in one meal. The woman was unwilling to accept this so he tried to resolve the conflict by asking his brother,  the chef,  to prepare a different meal for her. Both he and his brother could not understand the woman's lack of understanding and acceptance of authentic  Italian cooking but they wanted to have a successful restaurant so they decided to try to satisfy their customers.</div>]]></description>
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         <title>Big Night Scene - Donna Conover</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The dominant culture in this scene was the American culture. The American woman had certain expectations about what her dinner would look like and she was not happy with what she received. The Italian chef was clearly very proud of his culture and the authenic Italian food that he was cooking. It appeared that there was a conflict between the American couple and the brothers as well as the 2 brothers. The brother who went out to serve the customers was trying to educate the woman about the food; however, she did not want to listen or accept that the food she was getting was probably authentic and delicious. There was a slight conflict between the couple and the server, but that brother just wanted to appease the customer and give her what she wanted. The chef brother appeared to be frustrated with Americans who wanted to "Americanize" his Italian food and he did not want to compromise with his food. It appeared that this may have been something that the two brothers have argued about before by the way the server brother tried to avoid saying that the risotto was the problem. One brother appeared to want to "fit in" and the other brother wanted to stay authentic.<br><br>I feel like many restaurants from different cultures in America feel the need to provide dishes that are more geared toward the American palate in order to be successful. I have traveled to many places and enjoyed trying new foods. However, my 2 sons (23 and 20) are much less adventurous than me. When we travel, we always need to seek out familiar foods for them to eat.</div>]]></description>
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         <title>American culture appears to be dominant in this scene given the restaurant is in NJ and the customers are American.  This seems to be a typical (albeit exaggerated and humorous) dynamic regarding authentic food from a certain country being served in America, and customers&#39; expectations.  Some customers expect/want  it to be Americanized, while others expect/want it to be authentic and true to its country of origin.  In this scene, this mismatch of expectations is one source of conflict. Another conflict is presented between the waiter and the cook, as they have a difference in opinion and goal in running an Italian restaurant within America.  Food is such a wonderful, prevalent way to experience one aspect of a culture, but unfortunately often can present with these challenges.</title>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-16 22:00:13 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Big Night - Mary J</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>I see how classmates are thinking the American Culture as it's an american couple ordering, however, I felt that the Italian Culture that was the dominant culture in this scene. It was an Italian restaurant where the couple was ordering. The waiter had great pride in his culture, food and dishes he was serving his customers.&nbsp;<br>The initial conflict arose due to the American couples inaccurate impression of what genuine Italian dishes included.&nbsp;The secondary conflict was between the two brothers. One was trying to please the customers and the other, the chef, was defending his culture by not wanting to make the spaghetti. The pasta as a secondary starch is unnecessary in his culture and would never happen in Italy. This frustrated the chef. </div>]]></description>
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         <pubDate>2022-07-18 03:04:38 UTC</pubDate>
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         <title>Big Night - E. Skjerli</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>The dominant culture should have been Italian since the couple chose to eat at an authentic Italian restaurant.   However, the couple brought with them their American assumptions regarding Italian food and were blatantly disinterested in immersing themselves in a cultural experience. While the couple continued to obtusely push their own Americanized requests, they ended up not only confusing the staff, but insulting the chef. The chef's disgusted response  and label of "philistines" speaks to a negative perspective of the dominant American culture that demands an American experience vs. an acceptance and engagement with a multi-cultural one.</div>]]></description>
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