https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0 How well are communicating with our Mentees? en-us 2023-08-06 14:57:57 UTC 2023-08-07 17:44:39 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392731 Research comes before class work.]]> 2023-08-07 17:05:05 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392731 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392808 It feels like many students don't read or remember the information in emails, handbooks, mentoring agreements, etc. -- but talking with them doesn't always work either!]]> 2023-08-07 17:05:17 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392808 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392845 8 - I feel my male colleagues can be more critical than I can. In the past they would get less push back]]> 2023-08-07 17:05:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392845 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392856 2023-08-07 17:05:23 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392856 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392976 Especially if these things will help a student become a more well-rounded professor]]> 2023-08-07 17:05:35 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657392976 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393169 2023-08-07 17:05:51 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393169 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393216 2023-08-07 17:05:55 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393216 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393369 2023-08-07 17:06:10 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393369 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393381 I can't do your PhD for you. I need you meet me 1/2 way. You need to own your thesis. ]]> 2023-08-07 17:06:12 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393381 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393585 Negative self talk they express out loud. "I can't", "I'm no good at..."]]> 2023-08-07 17:06:32 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393585 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393656 3: because of the power differential. ]]> 2023-08-07 17:06:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393656 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393866 Some mentees are afraid to disagree with their mentor, but others don't show their mentors basic respect]]> 2023-08-07 17:07:03 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393866 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393911 2023-08-07 17:07:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393911 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393932 I am critical, and forget to sandwich the critique between two slices of compliments.]]> 2023-08-07 17:07:10 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657393932 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394037 My gender makes my mentees often see me as mother/caretaker figure, it's often hard to push back on that without immediately being seen as a b**ch

]]> 2023-08-07 17:07:20 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394037 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394213 when they do not respect my time. ]]> 2023-08-07 17:07:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394213 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394372 Not so worried about being labeled, more concerned about losing the student.]]> 2023-08-07 17:08:06 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394372 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394506 2023-08-07 17:08:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394506 iking41 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394567 Mentees using groupme, instagram, linkedin, etc. to contact me outside of my official contact information]]> 2023-08-07 17:08:35 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394567 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394639 Too easy at times. I am not your sister/mom/aunt. 9]]> 2023-08-07 17:08:43 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657394639 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657395245 2023-08-07 17:09:45 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657395245 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657395273 2023-08-07 17:09:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657395273 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657395279 Students wait outside my office and follow me around when I've clearly told them to email me and/or come to office hours. They don't seem to understand that I have other things scheduled, and/or that I'm not always in my inbox and responding to them immediately.]]> 2023-08-07 17:09:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657395279 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657396015 This I dont honestly know about this.  I look at letters I have written for my students.  What would say is my language has drifted in time.
 ]]> 2023-08-07 17:11:23 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657396015 iking41 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657396233 When the mentee does not recognize they have challenges]]> 2023-08-07 17:11:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657396233 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657396357 Because of my past bad experiences being mentored, I have a hard time saying no to my mentees]]> 2023-08-07 17:12:07 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657396357 https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657400695 2023-08-07 17:21:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ariswinger/b4tkdju49doh6sl0/wish/2657400695