Abuse by Nicholas Johnson https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut en-us 2018-01-03 13:51:02 UTC 2018-01-08 14:27:58 UTC hello@padlet.com Emotional Abuse nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218484975 2018-01-03 13:51:52 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218484975 The Cycle Of Abuse nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218486473 2018-01-03 13:56:20 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218486473 Abuse nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218486722 The partner lashes out, puts the partner down or resorts to violence to express dominance in the relationship.]]> 2018-01-03 13:56:55 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218486722 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218493449 2018-01-03 14:15:54 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218493449 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218493544 2018-01-03 14:16:11 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218493544 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218494160 The abusee will experience, in a relationship that has emotional abuse, things like yelling, swearing, blaming, and put downs or shaming. The abuser ]]> 2018-01-03 14:17:53 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218494160 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218496802 Emotional abuse, compared to physical abuse, is almost worse in a sense. ]]> 2018-01-03 14:24:19 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218496802 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218497679 Physical abuse would cause physical damage to a person such a bruises, scars, and even broken bones. ]]> 2018-01-03 14:26:50 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218497679 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218498407 Emotional abuse would result in mental scarring, damage, depression, or low self esteem. All of those things could lead to things like self injury, depression, and/or running away]]> 2018-01-03 14:28:38 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/218498407 Guilt nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219326798 After abusing, the partner feels guilt and fear of being caught.]]> 2018-01-08 13:23:09 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219326798 Excuses nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219327537 The abuser rationalizes what he or she has done to make it seem normal. So that when he or she acts again it will seem normal to the abusee.]]> 2018-01-08 13:25:07 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219327537 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219330747
A victim of abuse

]]> 2018-01-08 13:34:07 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219330747 Normal Behavior nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219331493 The abuser regains control by acting like nothing ever happened. He makes the one being abused feel happy and safe with the abuser.]]> 2018-01-08 13:35:45 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219331493 Planning nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219332883 The abuser begins to fantasize about how and when he or she will strike next.]]> 2018-01-08 13:39:12 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219332883 Set-up nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219334100 The abuser begins to set his or her plan is motion. They show love and compassion to get the one being abused comfortable so that they may attack.]]> 2018-01-08 13:42:17 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219334100 Citations nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219337118 Photo https://www.theodysseyonline.com/closer-look-at-domestic-violence
Information
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm#cycle
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https://greatist.com/happiness/stop-domestic-violence-organizations

]]> 2018-01-08 13:50:17 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219337118 How Can You Help? nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219338153 No matter where you live there are likely many organizations around you that can help. If you go to them about being abused yourself or someone you know who is being abused, they will help. Don't be scared to "snitch", it will save someone from infinite hurt.]]> 2018-01-08 13:52:23 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219338153 Organizations nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219339125 -Child Welfare League of America
-Equality Now
-National Domestic Violence Hotline

]]> 2018-01-08 13:54:25 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219339125 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219341714 If you see a friend, or foe, in an abusive relationship, they WILL need help escaping from the chains of the abusive cycle. Even if they are the abuser they will need help to stop gaining pleasure and satisfaction from what they are doing. 

]]> 2018-01-08 13:59:58 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219341714 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219342126 If you yourself, are in an abusive relationship, you may be scared to ask for help. To get in trouble, to get abused once more, but people around you, friends, family, peers, teacher, and even random strangers may be willing to help. Never think that asking will be a bad decision. ]]> 2018-01-08 14:00:52 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219342126 Your thoughts nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219343938 Do You:
  • Fear your partner?
  • Fear angering your partner with certain topics?
  • Feel helpless when it comes to pleasing your partner?
  • Believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?
  • Wonder if every problem is because of you?
  • Feel lack of emotions  or emotionally numb?

]]> 2018-01-08 14:04:46 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219343938 Your partners behavior nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219346853 Does Your Partner:
  • Belittle you or yell at you?
  • Put you down?
  • Treat you so poorly that you’re embarrassed for your friends and family to see you?
  • Ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments for their own good?
  • Play the blame game with you when it comes to abusive behavior?
  • See you as property rather than a person?
]]> 2018-01-08 14:10:53 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219346853 What Your Partner Does to Maintain Control nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219348942 Does Your Partner
  • Act very jealous and possessive of you?
  • Control where you go or what you do in your everyday life?
  • Keep you from seeing your friends or family as not to risk being found out?
  • Limit your access to money, devices, and vehicles?
  • Constantly check on you?
]]> 2018-01-08 14:15:10 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219348942 Signs that you are a part of an Abusive Relationship nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219349157 2018-01-08 14:15:38 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219349157 nicholas_johnson2 https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219354781 ]]> 2018-01-08 14:26:51 UTC https://padlet.com/nicholas_johnson2/b1k18a4dpyut/wish/219354781