Wedding Tips! by Mrs H https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca Get ready guys en-us 2018-03-31 23:48:04 UTC 2018-04-30 00:57:19 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet-assets.s3.amazonaws.com/icons/Ring.png DOORGIFTS zhaneesa https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634035 1. Look for what you like
Tengok instagram, pinterest, gambar orang lain... if you find something you like, simpan gambar and start planning for it! KENA BUAT NI DULU NANTI RAMBANGGGG MATA, SUSAH NAK DECIDE ON ONE DOORGIFT
*Tip: bila dah decide doorgift ni, let's say balang kaca with cookies, then you have an idea of mana nak simpan and how to handle (fragile/tak fragile). This will help you sooo much later!

2. How many types?
Semua org dapat doorgift sama ke, VIP doorgift pun ade? Kalau ada more than 1 type of doorgift, simpan gambar2 and idea2 utk semua doorgifts ni.

3. Set a budget
OK yg ni penting. Because doorgifts (wedding in generals actually) memang semakin mahal, tapiiii ada cara untuk jimat duit, of course. Mula2 sekali kene set budget. Let's say budget kite RM4 per pax. VIP doorgift RM6. Guests ada 1000, termasuk 50 VIPs. So now you can do the math (lol, nampak tak malas nak kira).

Nak senang, stick to the budget. Kalau ada rezeqi, boleh tukar as u go along.

3. Survey, survey, survey...and ask !
Part ni kene rajin sikit. Start looking online, instagram, fb etc. for #doorgiftskl #weddingdoorgiftskl #doorgiftmurah #doorgiftcantik and so on. To look for supplier and survey market price per doorgift. Kalau supplier charge mahal sgt? Then you have to choose either
1) DIY your doorgift
or
2) kurangkan budget (Sorry)

4. Supplier or DIY?
DIY: Korg cukup tangan tak nak buat keje? Ade tak geng yg kalau call mintak tlg buat keje je terus onz? Korg rajin cari brg tak? Tau tak mana nak source ribbons, bunga plastik, small bags etc.? Kalau tak, rajin tak nak cari benda2 tu? Ada org tak nak cari kan dgn korg? Nak drive jauh2 gi Nilai 3, redah crowd dekat Semua House KL semata2 nak dpt brg2 ni ?

If YES, boleh buat DIY.

Kalau tak, save the trouble and find a good, reliable supplier. How to know if they are reliable? COMMUNICATE with them. Cara diorg cakap, deal dgn kita, bahasa diorg will tell you if they professional or not. Trust me, that is the best way. Almost better than testimonials.

5. Cari tempat nak simpan!
OK, ni patut letak kat mula2 dulu kot. Haha. Make sure you have the storage space (ruang tamu besar, rumah relatives etc.) and kotak2 / bekas2 yang cukup besar utk simpan semua brg ni. ALSO, kena ada manpower and transportation nak angkat barang2 ni few days/ pd hari kejadian.
]]> 2018-03-31 23:50:17 UTC https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634035 WELCOME GUYS ♥‿♥ zhaneesa https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634197 I made this blog to help the many, many people who are going to get married soon and have requested for help. If you guys have any questions, just comment below. Love you! 
*This blog is in English and BM]]> 2018-03-31 23:55:52 UTC https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634197 BAJU zhaneesa https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634753 1. Look for what you like
Haha nampak tak pattern blog ni skrg. Semua start dgn 'look for what you like'. 

OK. let's get real. Baju is so so so penting. Org akan tgk u, and it will affect how you feel. That is the reality of it. 

Look for inspiration! cari spring/summer or fall/winter wedding runway, designer dresses (my favs were vera wang, elie saab, zuhair murad. local designers ALIA BASTAMAM AND NURITA HARITH loveeee them), local wedding magazines, gambar dress/wedding org lain,  instagram @malayweddingguide and many2 more...

Kalau rajin, you can even draw out your dress and trust me that will help the tailor A LOT.]]> 2018-04-01 00:18:39 UTC https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634753 BAJU II zhaneesa https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634894 2. ]]> 2018-04-01 00:23:51 UTC https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/247634894 Choosing the right one zhaneesa https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/256365923 You really need to ask real, honest questions about each other's daily lives. And be honest when answering. Because these questions will determine how you plan your lives together everyday.

One of the things is their religious practices - do they have a habit of reading the Qur'an, do they only touch the Qur'an during religious events, do they have a habit of praying sunat prayer, do they  do zikir after prayers, do they pray on their own, do they pray jemaah regularly, do they go to the mosque regularly, do they consciously learn and make an effort to improve their ibadah, do they practice the same ibadah since they were in high school, and so on. This is not to set a benchmark or standard or to compare the both you, but more importantly, to understand and organise your daily lives that will revolve around each other and your families. For example, if you are the type who goes to the mosque regularly, then you know that in your day you would have allocated about 30 minutes (just estimating here) every prayer time for your trip to the mosque. That's 2.5 hours out of the day. Can your spouse accept that for the rest of their life? What will they be doing during this time? Where will they be? And would you both allow each other to do your own thing separately during this time? Or will you start doing this together? 

If your spouse is the type to pray Zohor at home, the basic 4 rakaat, and spend the next hour on lunchtime with their family, eating and catching up, are they ready to accept your practice which will make a significant difference to their time management? If you are not there to join them for lunch would that be acceptable?

Ask yourself these questions. Come up with solutions (even if they don't work out, you can change or tweak later. But at least you've addressed them to begin with). And then you can take a breather.]]> 2018-04-30 00:42:31 UTC https://padlet.com/zhaneesa/b0d3hopy07ca/wish/256365923