GMS#3: Icebreaker! by ASPIRE Mentorship Team https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr This is an anonymous padlet! Please answer each heading as honestly as you can and are comfortable with :) en-us 2021-11-07 20:32:11 UTC 2022-03-08 01:50:59 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f338.png Authenticity https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609111 I don't come off as authentic or genuine as I'm trying to share]]> 2021-11-14 20:10:08 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609111 initiate conversations https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609228 2021-11-14 20:10:18 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609228 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609322 make life decisions ]]> 2021-11-14 20:10:25 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609322 People ignore me (pretend I'm not there) wbooth885 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609494 2021-11-14 20:10:41 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609494 make big decisions https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609571 2021-11-14 20:10:49 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609571 feel good about what I have accomplished https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609595 2021-11-14 20:10:51 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609595 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609661 when I say something, no one reacts, and then someone else says the exact same thing and they get a reaction ]]> 2021-11-14 20:10:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609661 I'm losing time https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609706 2021-11-14 20:11:00 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609706 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609761 i am working hard, but not towards my goals

]]> 2021-11-14 20:11:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609761 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609955 I'll lose my drive]]> 2021-11-14 20:11:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609955 I'm really a failure https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609959 2021-11-14 20:11:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609959 I am soft spoken wbooth885 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609994 2021-11-14 20:11:26 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889609994 Not knowing https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610033 Openly admitting and saying, "I don't know"]]> 2021-11-14 20:11:29 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610033 share feedback (sometimes) https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610074 2021-11-14 20:11:33 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610074 Be firm about boundaries, expectations, or opinions at work without seeming like I'm overstepping bounds. I feel like people subconsciously expect Asian women to be less vocal, so when I'm a normal level of assertive in the professional setting, the unexpected contrast to others makes me look aggressive. https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610111 2021-11-14 20:11:37 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610111 be confident in my opinions and thoughts https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610161 2021-11-14 20:11:42 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610161 my emotions and opinions on things. I find it so hard to express myself! https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610207 2021-11-14 20:11:46 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610207 I feel like I wasted time https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610327 2021-11-14 20:11:55 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610327 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610334 when I'm held to one set of expectations/standards and criticized for not being perfect ]]> 2021-11-14 20:11:56 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610334 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610413 People say that they understand my boundary, but then continue to cross it.]]> 2021-11-14 20:12:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610413 Strike the balance between being likable and credible/effective/good at my job. https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610431 2021-11-14 20:12:06 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610431 People see me, and I look "younger" than I am wbooth885 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610541 2021-11-14 20:12:15 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610541 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610547 say no ]]> 2021-11-14 20:12:15 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610547 my opinion is not heard or acknowledged https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610561 2021-11-14 20:12:16 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610561 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610567 say no ]]> 2021-11-14 20:12:17 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610567 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610609 I'm not doing enough.]]> 2021-11-14 20:12:21 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610609 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610628 bring up issues without feeling like a "complainer"

]]> 2021-11-14 20:12:22 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610628 People are multitasking/off-camera karenkta1 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610645 2021-11-14 20:12:23 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610645 become close with others https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610712 when making friends I find it hard to bond with them]]> 2021-11-14 20:12:26 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610712 maintain social relationships https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610833 2021-11-14 20:12:38 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610833 I am invalidated https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610985 2021-11-14 20:12:50 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610985 focus on self (self-care) karenkta1 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610991 2021-11-14 20:12:51 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889610991 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611096 maintain close relationships.]]> 2021-11-14 20:13:00 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611096 COVID-19 is never going to end... karenkta1 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611141 2021-11-14 20:13:04 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611141 taking up space https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611176 2021-11-14 20:13:07 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611176 people don't take me or my input seriously https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611282 2021-11-14 20:13:17 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611282 people will think I am unintelligent or incompetent https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611328 2021-11-14 20:13:21 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611328 I would do a poor job taking care of my family https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611610 2021-11-14 20:13:39 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611610 People are selfish karenkta1 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611637 2021-11-14 20:13:40 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611637 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611877 I'm belittled.]]> 2021-11-14 20:14:02 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889611877 https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889612552 be happy.]]> 2021-11-14 20:14:44 UTC https://padlet.com/ASPIREMentorship/auusf84dhmfqtsjr/wish/1889612552