https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6 Changing Lives One Mediation at a Time! en-us 2016-09-15 19:42:20 UTC 2025-11-02 05:23:43 UTC hello@padlet.com lenyeedenise https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124197523 2. What is your take away? In other words, what do you know now that you did not know before we started this mediation journey?
3. How can you use Conflict Mediation in your everyday life?]]> 2016-09-15 19:44:08 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124197523 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124217735 1) The benefit of having Conflict Mediation at GHS is now that instead of students being paneled immediately after a fight, they are given the chance to resolve the conflict. This will provide a reality check to many students and in turn prevent more fights from happening as well. 
2) To begin with, I didn't realize that Grayson offered Conflict Mediation, but now that I know that it is offered, I feel better for students who are in those situations because they are able to work out their problems rather than ruin their lives by getting in a fight and in turn paneled. 
3) After learning Conflict Mediation skills, I will now be able to go into situations and handle them more efficiently whether between myself and a friend, two friends, or two strangers. ]]> 2016-09-15 21:40:11 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124217735 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124221866 1) The benefit of having peer mediation at Ghs is that we can help our school have less violence.This could also help the kids focus more on their grades then the latest gossip.
2)Its a lot harder not to blame someone for their mistake and as a peer leader knowing that it is wrong what they did it makes it harder not to try to blame them.I also didn't know that this existed and this will help kids in the future.
3)Now that i know how to help others in conflicts,I know that it will make life easier.An that you don't want to just confront the person but take it slowly and make them see the other persons point of view.]]> 2016-09-15 22:21:18 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124221866 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124222154 1) because peer mediation is offered at GHS students have the opportunity to resolve their conflicts responsibly and in a non violent manner. 
2) before learning about peer mediation I was not aware that it was offered at GHS. Now that I know what i do now I can suggest it to other students struggling to resolve their issues.
3) I can use conflict mediation daily if need be. I feel like I will always have this to fall back on whenever I need to find a solution to any problems that may arise.

]]> 2016-09-15 22:25:03 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124222154 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124230907 1 ) In my opinion, Peer Mediation at Grayson allows peers an opportunity to try and solve their conflict before it gets out of hand. It gives both disputants a chance to speak where as if they were just talking one disputant may over talk or be disrespectful to the other but Mediation does not allow that to happen. 
2)I did not know you could not ask like why they did something or why they said something" but now it makes sense because it could shut the other person done and make them think "dang, im terrible. Why did I do that?"
3)You can use it everyday but taking others feelings in consideration when you hear them say they feel some type of way and show them that you care. You can communicate more and talk to them about the way you feel instead of getting mad and just not talking to them anymore. ]]> 2016-09-16 00:06:17 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124230907 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124242089 1.)The benefit is giving students the chance to solve their own problems before drastic measures are taken by administrators to solve it themselves.
2.) I did not know you could not ask why in mediation. Now, I understand that asking a person why they would do something is like blaming them which is not our job as a peer leader.
3.) I can use conflict mediation everyday in life by using it with my friends, situations that include myself, my parents, and strangers by using the mediation process.]]> 2016-09-16 02:33:35 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124242089 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124283777 1. A. Mediation program is a good way to help students resolve issues that may be distracting them from studying harder: it helps them focus on thi gs that become more important in the long run. 
2. Now i know that when people have issues with other people, it is sometimes hard to admit that they are wrong or not, but that is not important. What matters is for both sides of the story to be told because when both sides are told, thennthe other person may see reason for the actions or words.
3. Mediation in my everyday life would benimpotprtant because now i know that certain things affect people in ways that they sometimes don't allow others know about. So i would try to be more careful somi don't offend people or inveigh on them.]]> 2016-09-16 09:42:41 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124283777 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124308793 1. Peer Mediation allows students at Grayson to try to resolve a problem before it gets out of hand and leads to a physical altercation, thus leading to even more problems for them in the future. 
2.]]> 2016-09-16 12:21:47 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124308793 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124309840 2. I now know that in order to truly assist in resolving a problem, the mediator has to be able to listen for underlying messages that the disputants are not coming out and saying. By knowing this, the mediator can address topics that one of the disputants misses, which will more likely help the two solve their situation if they express and discuss all of their feelings
3. I can use Peer Mediation in my everyday life as a means to actually communicate my feelings because I tend to let things stay in and boil up. If I can actually express how I am feeling, then I will be less likely to have problems with some people. ]]> 2016-09-16 12:25:38 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124309840 elisemm1 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124356061 2016-09-16 14:19:13 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124356061 elisemm1 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124356460 The benefit of having peer mediation is that i can help prevent physical altercations and can be a healthy way for teens to resolve their problems.
2.I learned that it's a lot harder to not get emotionally involved with other students problems. Also, I didn't realize there were so many rules to mediating.
3. i could use peer mediation with friends who are having conflicts or even my siblings. Now that  I know a healthier way to solve conflicts, I'll be using peer mediation often.]]> 2016-09-16 14:20:11 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/124356460 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/129852677 1.) I think that the mediation program at Grayson High School helps diffuse many situations that occur due to either miscommunication or misunderstandings between people. It allows the conflict to be resolved because most cases unresolved tension leads to problems which leads to bullying and more problems. 
2.) I learned that there are many rules to follow in order to have a proper and effective mediation. Also, I am learning that conflicts often occur because one person thought something the other did not think , therefore basically miscommunication. 
3.) I can apply everything that I am learning through other meditations to my own problems that I go through with friends, family members, and my parents. ]]> 2016-10-11 15:30:19 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/129852677 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/131966971 1. The mediation program gives the students a chance to resolve their problems without having to be written up, arrested, etc. 
2. I've noticed that there is a lot of he-said, she-said issues that can lead to misunderstandings which is why this program is beneficial. I've learned that there are things that we do everyday when trying to solve a conflict that can actually prohibit good results. 
3. I can use conflict mediation in my everyday life by making better and smarter decisions when there's a conflict. For example, if someone was to talk about me then I would not go around spreading rumors about them or starting a war on social media, I would confront them and try to get to the root of the problem. When you know the root of conflicts, the true reason or emotions behind a person's actions, things can be solved more accurately.]]> 2016-10-20 02:40:35 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/131966971 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133412913 1.A mediation program is a great way to get peers to solve their problems without more conflict or consequences. I feel they are more influenced through mediation because it is handled by fellow peers, so they take what we say more personally and seriously. 
2. I learned students are willing to solve problems when it is brought to their attention by fellow peers .
3. I can use it through the daily drama that may occur between my friends when they argue . I learned how t go about certain situations more professionally.]]> 2016-10-26 17:26:16 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133412913 sscoore https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133413173 In my opinion peer mediation is a good  way for students to solve their conflicts between each other in an unbiased environment. In my opinion, Peer mediation works well because the students dont get consequences it's a chance to talk which usually results in understanding the problem at hand and no longer having a problem. 
2. Before i didn't realize there were so many wrong turns when it came to being neutral in a situation. also, after conducting my own mediation i really realized how hard it was to get students to talk but at the same time I learned that people are very willing to solve issues if you give them a chance to talk about it. I learned how to better read body language to be able to assist people and bring up a feeling that they may not have elaborated on.
3. i can especially use conflict mediation in my everyday life because I am in highschool. Every day people have understandings and it almost turns into a fight. Knowing what I know now can help me to create a more understanding environment with the people i associate with on a daily basis and even others i see around the school.]]> 2016-10-26 17:26:58 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133413173 quoriliz https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133418399 1. Having a peer mediation  program at our school is beneficial in that in helps to resolve conflicts at the school further making it a safer, healthy learning environment as it should be. 
2. It is hard to be completely neutral or unbiased in any situation, however, it is best that mediators remain neutral and that the persons involved listen to any and all sides of the conflict without any bias.
3. Using conflict mediation in my every day life will help to relieve any stress and conflict therefore making life an easy way for me. Also, mediation helps to better my skills when I have to use them in a school setting.]]> 2016-10-26 17:40:18 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133418399 https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133508510 1) A mediation program at GHS would be helpful to both the students and the teachers. Because through mediation, the students get to talk to the person that they are conflicting with and understand how and why they did the things that they did. It helpful for the teacher because it is easier for student to talk to student than teacher to student. Teacher can address the problems to the mediation program and we'll go from there. And it also helps to prevent more fights happening.
2) Now I know that it is hard to admit or talk to the person that we are conflicted with. Because we don't understand the reason behind the story. We'll make a wrong decision when the crisis come and we didn't realize until it getting worse. Mediation helps students understand each other and connect to each other through conversations with explanations.
3) I can mediation in my everyday life because misunderstanding happens almost everyday in high school. And by that it helps me understand people more and talk to them when something doesn't seems right. And I can prevents fights from happening and make GHS a friendly school.]]> 2016-10-27 01:40:56 UTC https://padlet.com/lenyeedenise/as0cvkx4rff6/wish/133508510