[Secondary 3] SEL Theme | Unit: Coping with difficult Social Situations by Vivian Chia

vivianchia — 2025-05-23 05:26:17 UTC

What have you learnt about conflict resolution?

What would you do in future when faced with conflict?

Use the stock phrases:

I will use I-Message when...

I will use Active Listening by...

Example:

I will use I-Message when my friends did not contribute to the group work.

I will use Active Listening by waiting for my turn to share my opinions.

vivianchia — 2025-05-23 05:30:49 UTC

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vivianchia — 2025-05-23 05:35:02 UTC

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vivianchia — 2025-05-23 05:35:27 UTC

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vivianchia — 2025-05-23 05:35:46 UTC

2025-07-17 01:14:03 UTC

I will use i-Message listening by focusing

foong_wei_qiang — 2025-07-17 01:14:46 UTC

I will use I-message to my friends went I feel angry (no angry only tried)

2025-07-17 01:14:51 UTC

Maximus 3Res

I can use I Massage when someone makes me feel uncomfortable

2025-07-17 01:15:15 UTC

If I have a disagreement I will say Okay I think you should explain ur side of the story so that we can understand each other better and avoid any more conflicts in the feature

2025-07-17 01:15:32 UTC

Yingxin 3 Responsibility

I will use I-message when my classmates did not contribute the group work.

I will use Active Listening by listening what others say.

2025-07-17 01:15:34 UTC

Ashton

I will use I-Message when I using conversation with my friend and my teacher.

I will use Active Listening by they are talking each other.

2025-07-17 01:16:11 UTC

I have learned that conflict resolution involves staying calm, expressing feelings clearly, and listening to others with respect. I will use I-Message when I feel upset about how someone is treating me, so I can explain my feelings without blaming them. For example, I will use I-Message when my friends ignore my ideas during group discussions. I will say, “I feel frustrated when my ideas are not heard because I want to contribute too.”I will use Active Listening by focusing on the speaker, not interrupting, and showing that I understand their point of view. For example, I will use Active Listening by nodding, keeping eye contact, and waiting for my turn to speak during a disagreement with a classmate.

In the future, I will stay calm, be respectful, and use these strategies to solve conflicts peacefully.

2025-07-17 01:16:11 UTC

I Will Use I-Message When I Am Feeling Angry

2025-07-17 01:16:19 UTC

Ahmad Rudy Haqim 3 Responsibility

When I disagree I will discuss and I will talk to my friend why do you disagree my opinion and why I disagree your opinion

2025-07-17 01:20:45 UTC

I will use iMessage when there’s any misunderstanding.

2025-07-17 01:24:08 UTC

Hilmi

I will use “I massage” to express my feelings to my peers or friends.

Example: “I feel upset when you keep talking to your friends loudly, I would like to suggest to you to speak softly to your friends, please?”

I will also use Active Listening to listen and be patient to hear the person’s perspectives and opinions respectfully.

Examples:

1. I will nod my head to say that “I have heard you and I understand you, my friend”

I will make eye contact with the person but not too harshly, respectful and soft
I will make sure to keep a respectful distance and be more understanding to the person that I am talking with.

2025-07-17 01:26:04 UTC

What I’ve learnt about conflict resolution?

I will use the “ I - message ‘’ strategy to say in a calm and pleasant tone. also knowing to view other’s perspective and feelings. therefore we’ve should not judge a book by its cover, because you might never know how challenging or difficult other’s curriculumstics can be. So before you speak to someone, think on how you can generalised your conversation between you and your partner. So that there won’t be any misunderstanding arguments. At the end of the day, you will also reflect on your own self worth. Remember to always be humble and be truthful to yourself and others !