S4 L2 When Love Hurts (Elia M hamarian) by Elia M hamarian

Based on your group’s scenario, take on the role of the friend of someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and discuss:

ccewwss — 2025-03-06 05:18:13 UTC

Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why?
How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship? Should your friend end this relationship? Why?
Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he or she do to end the relationship in a safe manner? What are his or her other sources of help?
If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?
As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?

Scenario 1

ccewwss — 2025-03-06 05:18:13 UTC

Scenario 2

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Scenario 3

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Scenario 4

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reb, junru, josh, erika

2025-03-07 00:15:49 UTC

Q4.

She can cope by talking it out with people in her life to feel safe and loved. She can also distract herself by doing her favourite hobbies or finding a new passion in life, do something that makes her feel happy.

Q5.We feel that it will be a bit difficult as you do not want to overstep the boundaries as a friend. We can show or tell her how her boyfriend acts are abnormal and why she should not be treated this way without pushing it on her.

shan yong, shaik, zhuo han, andrea

2025-03-07 00:16:32 UTC

He should give himself space and talk to someone he really trusts. He should also do what he likes ( his hobbies, his talents etc ) without anyone holding him back.
As a friend, it is not that difficult to intervene. However, since his girlfriend is very important to him, giving him advice which may contradict his girlfriend's pov will cause him to be confused. So getting him to talk to us and accept the advice will be hard.

lex,esther,xinyi,sajan

2025-03-07 00:17:41 UTC

4.Provide distractions like playing sports(basketball).Whatever can make him happy. Provide emotional support for friend.

5.Yes.Said friend was reluctant to share with me said friend's troubles. We can say words of affirmation to friend .Kind words to friend.

Insecure Boyfriend

2025-03-07 00:20:31 UTC

This scenario is obviously an unhealthy relationship, signs of insecurity and over-controlling like constant messages and threatening of self harm. She would be feeling guilty and pressured as the sacrifice for both choices are dire. She must end the relationship because its toxic and restrictive.

She wish to end the relationship but at the same time she doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend as they share many happy memories. hr boyfriend and her can go for consultation to seek help from professional