The main problem is almost every student have academic stress, especially the time is nearly last exam. We have a lot of homework and we need to review the whole subject. At the common weekend we need to preview the next lesson because it is hardly to understand. There are so many difficult word in the article, if we don’t understand them we can’t do anything for homework or project. This condition made us don’t have any time to join the communities.

Then, some of students want be better so they take lessons after school. They lost their weekend to get more knowledge. They are busy on the weekends. That also means they don’t have time on the weekends. They can’t join in any activity to improve their experience in communities. So we lost the connection from the communities.

Finally, a lot of student was hard-working, so they can play computer games on the weekends. They are lazy to get out, on the weekday they use almost the whole day, maybe except the time for eating. Also the same as some people don’t want to student, the just like to live in the game, they can’t live with out it. So this kind of people lost the connection from the communities.

These are my opinion about “Nowadays many young people have lost their connection with their communities.” I think we maybe lost a very important skill now. But I have no idea about how to deal with this problem. Maybe we can change hobby for learn this important skill again.

   Nowadays, socializing is a very important thing. It can not only make children smart now, but also make more friends. Most of our young people use their mobile phones every day to replace life, but this habit is bad, because the information on the mobile phone is really fake. Therefore, the practice activities can make you have a more pleasant experience of life. There are also personal skills that can be developed for young people, such as cooking, laundry and so on. These are the benefits of participation.

  Therefore, our young people should take part in practical activities and refuse to play mobile phones at home.

There are several reasons to support my opinion. Let’s start my first opinion with the things happened in the past days. For example, in 1950, the communities are like a family, everyone knows each other very much. Different families will have dinner together as a family. They had a big table and a television in the garden, so after dinner they can watch TV together. Different families are acted as a same family except sleeping together. Children in one community are like brothers and sisters. They play with each other after class, and after dinner they do their homework together.Some elder children teacher the younger children how to do homework. However, now there weren't too much connection between children who are not in the same family. Every young people came back to their community and go back to home immeditately without any conversation.

The second reason is the pressure of ourselves. To be honestly, the young generation right now have really high pressure from society, family and study. After school or work, they just want to go back to their home to finish their work or have a rest. Because of the pressure, young generation seldom go to their communities for entertainment. They will only play with their friends in other place. This kind of situation cause a problem which is the young people in same community don't even know each other and they already have friend from other places so there is no reason for they to make friends with strangers in communities.

Last but not least, because of the single child policy, most of us have already lost the social skill which is to make friends with stranger. Although more and more communities find out the problem of the young generation, so they tried to creat more chance for these yonng people, but it seems like they don't really care about it. They don't want their life full of stranger because it will break their social cricle.

The society is trying to help them to join their communities. However they don't really want, because they already have their social cricle. It's not a bad situation because in the pass days, we only have friends in communities. However, now we can make more friend in the society.

In one hand, compare to the old things, we had spacious places which could hopscotch and did other activities. I remembered when I was a child, I had a warm neighborhood called Karmen and I always played with this little girl who lived next to me. Every weekend, she came out and knocked my door. “ Are you free? Let’s hang out!” When I heard that, I was also happy and answered “Of course!” We usually played in the river bank inside the housing estate. Through threw stones into the river to compare the distance.  In addition, we played with cats、hopscotch and joked with each other. Active center is the ideal place to relax. So we also went there to do some exercise like playing the ball. Although these things seem very boring now, it's really fun at that time. But now, when I moved house, I haven't seen her any more and no more contact with the neighbors. 

Now the place of this kind of activity is gradually disappearing. It became the chess room and only provide with the old people. However, we have a look at this place now, it’s like a waste. No more people go there.

In the other hand, because of the pressure in the young people, it cause there is no time to communicate with other people. As a student, we have plenty of homework, especially when I in junior high school. Once, simply because the bad English dictation, I stayed at school and waited until I had no errors. There was more than 8 o’clock when I got home. That day, I even did homework until midnight without breathing space. Not to mention playing with the neighbor's and chat each other. 

The same as adults, perhaps they're more busy than us. Several times when I slept, I didn't see my mother's figure.

All sorts of factors lead to lost the connection with outside. In my opinion, these things obviously needs to be changed.Such as the neighborhood, It lives together like a whole. This group will also let me know how to use a tolerant heart to treat and don’t get into a dead end. Fraternity and mutual help are the way of harmony.