actions: 

rocks sam to sleep

helps clean up 

writes music 
rides his bike 
dreams a bad dream

feelings:
sadness, scared, frustration, upset, anxious, nervous, angry, nasty a little bit. 

Thoughts: 

·      he thinks the day is awful 

·      he thinks about his father 

·      memories 

·      he thinks about how his wife should know whats wrong
hes mad because he has to act happy and host a hecking party 

 

How others see them:

·      late

·      careless

·      self centred and selfish 

·      unhelpful 

·      like something is wrong

- “He was sad” 

·      He is upset because he has to host a party on the anniversary of his fathers death and seem happy. 

·      He is experiencing flashbacks of memories with his father. 

·      He wants to excape and experience the misery/pain. 

·      He feels no one is aware of the significance of this day. 

·      Unhelpful in the organisation of the party. 

·      Ungrateful and unaware of others needs 

·      Rude to change the music and arrive late 

·      His father dying on this day 

·      Becoming a dad 

·      Went to a café 

·      Changes the music 

·      Removes himself fom the party 

·      Put his son to bed 

·      Burden of his fathers death 

·      Upset because of others responces 

·      He feels his worries are more important than others 

·      “tell her she’s a silly 🤬 for getting offended” 

·      “ in a minute, mate. Let me finish my coffee” wit little man he thought. Let me linger 

·      “we stayed to long at the Italia. It was cool, wasn't it Sam.- hiding behind his son as an excuse for returning late, as if he was expecting his son to respond. 

·      “you shoud know”- jerra feels is wife Rachel should’ve  realise his pain 

 

How others see them: Upset, unhelpful, dull, lost, selfish 

 

Forces that act upon them: It is the anniversary of his Dads death

 

Actions: rides his bike 

 

Feelings: sad, lost

 

What they say: 

“You’re drunk.” 

“It’s 1985, for Gods sake, 1973 is over.” 

-    ‘’how could a party count for anything on the anniversary of your father’s death?’’   

What They Say:
-     “It’s 1985, for Gods sake, 1973 is over.” 
-     “A party didn’t seem to matter a damn day”

-     A ‘party-pooper’ – by his wife and a chunk of guests 

-     A fun dad – by his son, Sam 

-     Upset – That he is being forced to host the party on the anniversary of his dads death 

-     Sorrow – Because of his father death 

-     Bitter – Because he is being forced to host the party   

-     His wife – pushing him to be more involved 

-     His dad passing away   

Actions: 

-     Taking his son to Italia 

-     Arriving to the party late 

-     Sulking for most of the party  

Thoughts: Doesn’t want to be there and doesn’t want to celebrate the event, it is obvious that he is not the one who had the idea to plan, he wants to spend the entire day mourning the death of his father instead of celebrating the party-

What they say “Its 1985…1973 is over”  “tell her shes a silly 🤬 for getting offended”

Feelings Melancholy, depressed, mourning, sorrow, anger, love

How others see them Upset, no understanding of past events, unhappy, not enjoying the party, wanting to be elsewhere, unkind and insensitive 

Actions Speaking in a rude tone, unable to enjoy the party, speaking but not his true feelings, tries a new beginning 

Forces The death of his father, the party, his son

He is out of it

why is the world so cruel to him?

Wondering why his wife doesn’t understand

But in the mornig he is much more positive and loving towards his family

Rachel is seeing him as unhelpful and useless on this day

People at the party see him as quiet and sad

He is feeling sad because of the anniversary of his dads death

He is feeling like doing nothing and not wanting to be around others

His dad dying

The party being held at his house

Isolates himself

Hides behind his child

Goes into his ‘safe space’ which is his music shed to be alone

Thoughts – anniversary of his father’s death, only wanting to mourn

                      Once the day is done he lets go of his fear

                       Wants to be alone, won’t let anyone in       

What they say- “wait little man, let me linger” 

                             “You should know

                            “Tell her I’m sorry eh… and tell she a silly 🤬 for getting             -offended 

How others see them- Rachel is frustrated with him 

Feelings- Grief. Remorse, misery, sadness, frustration

Actions- Removes his cassette, rude to his guests, hides behind his son 

Forces that act upon them- Gravity  (literally and metaphorically),  his fathers death  

“It’s 1985, for Gods sake, 1973 is over.”

“wait little man, let me linger”

Depressed, mourning, anger, love, lost

Upset, unhappy, unhelpful, dull, lost, selfish

Doesn’t think the party is a good idea, doesn’t want to go

Isolates himself

Sad at party

Hides away from everyone

Death of father

Expected to attend party