https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg en-us 2022-04-26 00:47:15 UTC 2022-04-26 01:29:15 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f63b.png aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157564902 i am the only child in my family. this is the reason why i have trouble sharing, grew up socially awkward, and can't stand when things don't go my way. i have been babied throughout my life so I have trouble with a lot of normal people things like opening crab legs and eating meat off of bones]]> 2022-04-26 00:53:29 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157564902 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157579873 in 2021 i went to la 4 times because i loved it that much. every few years i usually find a new place to obsess over but the fantasy of living in california seemed more realistic than the other places. the community is much more diverse and the social scene is suitable for my taste. everyday i spend in oregon is another day of suffering after having a little taste of my ideal future]]> 2022-04-26 01:02:18 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157579873 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157583321 some older girls danced to gee by girls generation at my school's talent show. being introduced to kpop was a relief for me because i was not used to seeing asians in the entertainment industry. it was nice to see representation of people who looked like me. i felt encouraged to pursue a career that wasn't the typical asian jobs that are considered successful]]> 2022-04-26 01:04:18 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157583321 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157587797 i was very shy and scared of being in a new environment. i was not used to being at a school with lots of white people (my k-8 school was super diverse) and the change made me uncomfortable. i heard many ignorant ideas being shared on a daily basis]]> 2022-04-26 01:06:55 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157587797 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157590879 after my first term of college, i realized that i cannot go into nursing because i suck at science. switching to graphic design was scary and i felt ashamed of my chosen career field because i knew my parents would be unhappy with my decision. they still don't know i switched majors]]> 2022-04-26 01:09:17 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157590879 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157599757 i really wanted to go out of state but my parents didn't want me to. i secretly applied to out of state colleges and when my parents found out, they got mad at me. we argued everyday for 2 weeks. this hurt my relationship with them because i felt like they were prioritizing their needs (cheap tuition and having me at home) over my needs (good education and independency)]]> 2022-04-26 01:13:53 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157599757 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157611197 i grew up catholic. after attending a 3 day retreat, i received confirmation. while this should've strengthened my faith, it did the opposite. i hated the opinions of catholic conservatives and disagreed with a lot of things my own church preached. i eventually stopped believing in religion completely, simply because i believe everything in life happens randomly]]> 2022-04-26 01:22:13 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157611197 aun3 https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157615270 in third grade, i noticed that i had a belly pouch. ever since then, i have been extremely conscious of my body image and i am unable to see my body from an objective viewpoint. when i look at myself, i can't help but compare it to how i looked a few months back and to what i see on social media]]> 2022-04-26 01:25:21 UTC https://padlet.com/aun3/95n4nvbsjia8iezg/wish/2157615270