https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6 Think of rules, how you would enforce them, values, or advice you would raise your child with:) en-us 2021-05-24 02:08:37 UTC 2021-05-24 14:39:47 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553903462 My parents are authoritative ]]> 2021-05-24 14:36:49 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553903462 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553904495 i would try to raise my kids with the second type of parenting and my parents parent me with a mix of the first and second types]]> 2021-05-24 14:37:03 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553904495 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553906686 How my parents: authoritative for the most part; authoritarian occasionally]]> 2021-05-24 14:37:35 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553906686 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553906989 I would combine the 2nd and 3rd styles because I want my children to have rules and know how to behave but I also want to have a close bond with them.
I think my parents are a mix of the first and second styles.
I think that my mental health can suffer sometimes when my parents are more authoritative. I often feel like I have no freedom and get frustrated. ]]> 2021-05-24 14:37:40 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553906989 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553907155 My parents are half of the time permissive and the other half of the time authoritarian. That is also how I would do it and enforce one or the other when needed.]]> 2021-05-24 14:37:43 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553907155 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553907549 I would want to reason with my kids and let them make choices for themselves but also guide them to the right choice. ]]> 2021-05-24 14:37:48 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553907549 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908685 I am a mix between authoritarian/authoritative and permissive 
My parents in HS became authoritarian or uninvolved]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:04 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908685 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908798 my parents are a combination of authoritative and authoritarian, I want to be closer and more open with my kids than I am with my parents ]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:06 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908798 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908882 I would like to be authoritarian. I want to have a good relationship with my kids but also guide them and enforce rules]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:07 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908882 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908985 I’d like to think I’d be authoritarian, but I honestly don’t know if that’s true. I know my mom raised me saying, “I’m not your friend, and I won’t be until you’re 18” and that used to confuse me, but now it makes sense because I needed to be raised by a parent, not a friend.]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:08 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553908985 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910620 I feel like I have been raised this way. My parents have not been perfect but I think it is the best way of having a relationship with your kids. ]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:33 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910620 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910685 i do feel that i can be a people pleaser because of how i was raised]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:34 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910685 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910911 As a parent I wouldn’t be so worried about my life, that I don’t take the time out of my day to ask my kids about what’s going on in their lives. I want my kids to be comfortable enough to come talk to me about any and everything so I want to build that relationship with them, so it can have a huge positive impact on their mental health.]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:37 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910911 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910936 I believe this is how my parent try to parent my brother and I for the most part and also the same way I would like to parent. With rules set but also will reason with me and sometimes let me make mistakes to learn from them]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:37 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553910936 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553911890 My parents have affected me and my sisters mental health very badly. They are authoritative. We all lie and have some form of mental health issue thats not rlly talked abt]]> 2021-05-24 14:38:51 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553911890 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553913088 I think I would be a mixture of authoritarian and permissive ]]> 2021-05-24 14:39:09 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553913088 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553913167 Im def a people pleaser and try tj make others happy bc of the way i was raised ]]> 2021-05-24 14:39:11 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553913167 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553914693 My parents were busy with work when I was a child, so I was on my own for a good chunk of my childhood; not neglected health wise, just left alone a lot. But they were also pretty strict with how I should act. So, if I were to have a kid, I’d make sure to treat them as a person. I want them to know that just because I am their caregiver doesn’t mean my opinion is more important than theirs. I’d explain the rules and expectations I have for them and why. I want them to feel heard and valued.]]> 2021-05-24 14:39:33 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553914693 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553914874 i would be so happy to parent like how my mom parents me. shes a perfect mix of authoritarian and permissive. shes my best friend who i can so easily confide in, but also provides structure and discipline when necessary.
both of my parents have seriously injured my mental health; my dad more than my mom. my dad is uninvolved and aggressive about 70% of the time and the other 30% is uninvolved. ]]> 2021-05-24 14:39:36 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553914874 https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553915624 I would parent my future kids how my parents parent me & my siblings. My parents have always been protective of me and my siblings. They’ve become quite chill over the last three years because we are growing up, and we need our space. My parents have become more educated on mental health because they were raised not knowing the awareness of mental health.]]> 2021-05-24 14:39:47 UTC https://padlet.com/lippeali000/90305ytlfkm69uf6/wish/1553915624